We’ve Entered The Year Of Friction-maxxing

Could you have guests over without cleaning all the way up? What about turning off the GPS when you're driving? How about not tracking your kids and partner, no matter what? This year, it's all about friction-maxxing. Learning to live without a few of the conveniences that have become crutches, al…

A Spectacular Writers' Festival Collapse & The Jennifer Lawrence Dog Drama

Since when did cosy chats about books suck up quite so many headlines? Adelaide Writers' Week is the longest-running literary event in Australia and this week it collapsed under the weight of its own controversy. So, Em asks Holly and Jessie, what are writers' festivals for, anyway? Jennifer Lawre…

WE'RE BACK: Our Notes On The Golden Globes & Hollywood's 'Toxic Mums' Group

It's Golden Globes day and Mia Freedman is joining Holly, Jessie and Em to talk about frocks that landed and jokes that didn't. We're not mad, we'll just wait for our podcast category invite next year.  When a former Disney star decides to put her mothers' group on blast, famous faces included, wh…

Our Most Talked About Conversations: One Of Us Has No Charisma & The New Dating Vocabulary

What actually makes someone charismatic? Can you develop 'rizz' or are you just born with it? We discover how researchers have literally invented something called the 'Charismulator' that can boost your charisma by 17 percent in just a few minutes. And, can you have too much of a good thing when it…

Our Most Talked About Conversations: The Fingering Renaissance

🌶️ Spice alert, Outlouders. Today's episode is a little bit naughty so you might want to grab your headphones for this one. 🌶️ There was something very specific that happened on screen in 2025, and we need to talk about it. So m uch so, that we decided to pull it out from behind the paywall so e…

Our Most Talked About Conversations: Mel Robbins Knows Exactly What's Wrong With You & The Exact Science To Keep You Enjoying Your Job

Who do you turn to when you need help or guidance in your life? In this episode, we discuss the irresistible pull of self-help gurus and why there’s only one right now who has absolutely met her moment - Mel Robbins.  Plus, American fashion designer Vera Wang says you should expect to ‘age out’ of…

Our Most Talked About Conversations: Ugly Female Friendships & There's A Reason You're Stuck

Season 3 of The White Lotus gave us a new iconic female friendship group. So why is the glossy, toxic dynamic of Laurie, Jaclyn and Kate cringingly familiar? Plus, ‘Maybe you’re not actually trying’. It’s a Substack post that stopped us in our tracks and it’s reframed everything we thought we knew…

Our Most Talked About Conversations: Is It OK To Flirt Outside Of Your Relationship?

Flirting with strangers, batting eyelashes, smiling demurely — the joy of being single. But what about when you're in a relationship? For some people, the desire to flirt never goes away. But is that wrong or is it just a step in a non-monogamous direction? We just had to bring this juicy episode …

NEW: Our Words Of The Year For 2026

It's January 1 and Outlouders know what that means. For almost a decade, on the first day of every year Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens and Holly Wainwright have shared the single word that they hope will define the year ahead.  This year, they picked: Creativity, Nup, and, um, Let Them. But did the…

Our Most Talked About Conversations: Micropettiness & The Fight You Need To Have With Your Parents

In 2025, we went viral for a concept that was maybe a little too relatable – micropettiness. If you've been feeling slightly annoyed with loved ones over the holidays, maybe a little bit of micropettiness is perfectly acceptable for this time of year.  Plus, hoarding, throwing, selling and Swedish…