Why do people cheat? Is infidelity really about unmet needs and unhappy relationships, or is the answer more complicated than we’ve been led to believe?

This week, Kelly sits down with clinical psychologist and behavioral researcher Dr. Glenn Hutchinson, author of Unfaithful Minds, to explore the hidden psychological processes behind infidelity. Together, they unpack some of the biggest myths society tells us about cheating, why even intelligent and self-aware people can act against their own values, and what modern psychology reveals about the gap between our intentions and our actions.

Kelly and Dr. Hutchinson discuss the role of the unconscious mind, the brain’s reward and novelty-seeking systems, why some people may be more vulnerable to infidelity than others, and whether understanding these patterns can actually help prevent betrayal before it happens.

Find Dr. Hutchinson's book Unfaithful Minds: The Science and Psychology of Infidelityhere.

 

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Why do people cheat? Is infidelity really about unmet needs and unhappy relationships, or is the answer more complicated than we&rsquo;ve been led to believe?
This week, Kelly sits down with clinical psychologist and behavioral researcher Dr. Glenn Hutchinson, author of Unfaithful Minds, to explore the hidden psychological processes behind infidelity. Together, they unpack some of the biggest myths society tells us about cheating, why even intelligent and self-aware people can act against their own values, and what modern psychology reveals about the gap between our intentions and our actions.
Kelly and Dr. Hutchinson discuss the role of the unconscious mind, the brain&rsquo;s reward and novelty-seeking systems, why some people may be more vulnerable to infidelity than others, and whether understanding these patterns can actually help prevent betrayal before it happens.
Find Dr. Hutchinson's book Unfaithful Minds: The Science and Psychology of Infidelity <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Unfaithful-Minds-Science-Psychology-Infidelity/dp/1493094432">here</a>.
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The Velvet's Edge Podcast is an invitation to explore the beautiful, messy truth that real growth is an inside job. Hosted by Kelly Henderson—a celebrity stylist and men's groomer who has learned firsthand that "looking good" on the outside only gets you so far—this podcast is a space for the conversations you don't always hear out loud.

Life has a way of knocking us flat, and Kelly believes there is purpose in that pain. She uses her own journey of plot twists to show that true beauty is found by going inward. On some days, you'll hear deep dives with therapists, healers, and other people who have turned their pain into something beautiful. On other days, Kelly and Chip Dorsch laugh their way through the weird, messy "WTF is this life?" moments, because growth is easier when you and your bestie can laugh through it together.

This podcast is for you if you've ever felt empty despite doing everything you were "supposed to" do. It's for you if you're stuck in a toxic relationship cycle and don't know how to get out. It's for you if you're in the middle of a total life plot twist and have no idea where to start. You aren't broken beyond repair. You are simply a human on a soul's journey, and even though we each have our own path, it's a lot easier when we have a little help from our friends.

The Velvet's Edge Podcast&nbsp;is an invitation to explore the beautiful, messy truth that real growth is an inside job. Hosted by&nbsp;Kelly Henderson&mdash;a celebrity stylist and men's groomer who has learned firsthand that "looking good" on the outside only gets you so far&mdash;this podcast is a space for the conversations you don't always hear out loud.
Life has a way of knocking us flat, and Kelly believes there is purpose in that pain. She uses her own journey of plot twists to show that true beauty is found by going inward. On some days, you'll hear deep dives with therapists, healers, and other people who have turned their pain into something beautiful. On other days, Kelly and Chip Dorsch&nbsp;laugh their way through the weird, messy "WTF is this life?" moments, because growth is easier when you and your bestie can laugh through it together.
This podcast is for you if you've ever felt empty despite doing everything you were "supposed to" do. It's for you if you're stuck in a toxic relationship cycle and don't know how to get out. It's for you if you're in the middle of a total life plot twist and have no idea where to start. You aren't broken beyond repair. You are simply a human on a soul's journey, and even though we each have our own path, it's a lot easier when we have a little help from our friends.

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Why Do People Cheat? The Hidden Psychology of Infidelity with Dr. Glenn Hutchinson (The Velvet)

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After Kelly's conversation with Dr. John Lewis, Kelly and Chip are sharing the brain health habits that stuck with them most—and the ones they're trying to put into practice in their own lives.

In honor of Alzheimer's Awareness Month, they discuss everything from sleep and stress to movement, nutrition, and the small changes that can add up over time. Kelly also reflects on how having a family history of Alzheimer's has shaped the way she thinks about prevention and healthy aging.

This isn't about doing everything perfectly—it's about paying attention, taking care of yourself where you can, and maybe giving your future self a little extra support along the way.

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Chip Dorsch // @chipdorsch

After Kelly's conversation with Dr. John Lewis, Kelly and Chip are sharing the brain health habits that stuck with them most&mdash;and the ones they're trying to put into practice in their own lives.
In honor of Alzheimer's Awareness Month, they discuss everything from sleep and stress to movement, nutrition, and the small changes that can add up over time. Kelly also reflects on how having a family history of Alzheimer's has shaped the way she thinks about prevention and healthy aging.
This isn't about doing everything perfectly&mdash;it's about paying attention, taking care of yourself where you can, and maybe giving your future self a little extra support along the way.
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Chip Dorsch // <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chipdorsch/">@chipdorsch</a>

Brain Health Habits: What Kelly and Chip Are Prioritizing Now (The Edge)

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In honor of Alzheimer's Awareness Month, Kelly sits down with researcher and nutrition expert Dr. John Lewis to talk about what we know about protecting brain health and why these conversations matter long before symptoms appear.

Dr. Lewis shares insights from his research on the connection between inflammation, immune health, and cognitive function, including what we've learned about Alzheimer's disease and the role prevention may play in long-term brain health. He also breaks down the top lifestyle habits he believes can help support a healthy brain, the age at which people should start paying closer attention to cognitive health, and some of the lesser-known warning signs of brain dysfunction that often go overlooked.

For anyone with a family history of Alzheimer's—as Kelly does—this conversation offers both practical information and hope. From nutrition and exercise to sleep and early awareness, Dr. Lewis provides actionable ways to support your brain health at every stage of life. Whether this topic feels deeply personal or you're simply looking for ways to invest in your future health, this episode is full of insights that just might change the way you think about caring for your brain.

Visit Dr. Lewis' website: DrLewisNutrition.com

Follow Dr. Lewis on Instagram: @DrLewisNutrition

 

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HOST: Kelly Henderson // @velvetsedge // velvetsedge.com

In honor of Alzheimer's Awareness Month, Kelly sits down with researcher and nutrition expert Dr. John Lewis to talk about what we know about protecting brain health and why these conversations matter long before symptoms appear.
Dr. Lewis shares insights from his research on the connection between inflammation, immune health, and cognitive function, including what we've learned about Alzheimer's disease and the role prevention may play in long-term brain health. He also breaks down the top lifestyle habits he believes can help support a healthy brain, the age at which people should start paying closer attention to cognitive health, and some of the lesser-known warning signs of brain dysfunction that often go overlooked.
For anyone with a family history of Alzheimer's&mdash;as Kelly does&mdash;this conversation offers both practical information and hope. From nutrition and exercise to sleep and early awareness, Dr. Lewis provides actionable ways to support your brain health at every stage of life. Whether this topic feels deeply personal or you're simply looking for ways to invest in your future health, this episode is full of insights that just might change the way you think about caring for your brain.
Visit Dr. Lewis' website: <a href="https://drlewisnutrition.com/?srsltid=AfmBOorVj4ogxuQKFFzgQsTYBNk9HG-ZOhVUo7snEzJbgF_XtC9nPncQ">DrLewisNutrition.com</a>
Follow Dr. Lewis on Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/drlewisnutrition/">@DrLewisNutrition</a>
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The Brain Health Habits That Matter More Than You Think with Dr. John Lewis (The Velvet)

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What advice used to drive you crazy that suddenly makes perfect sense years later?

After Kelly's June astrology conversation with Master Astrologer Marvin Wilkerson, Kelly and Chip started talking about all the ways their perspectives have shifted over the years. From success and happiness to relationships and personal growth, they share the lessons life has taught them, the beliefs they've changed their minds about, and the moments that completely changed how they see things.

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Chip Dorsch // @chipdorsch

 

Produced and edited by: @HoustonTilley

What advice used to drive you crazy that suddenly makes perfect sense years later?
After Kelly's June astrology conversation with Master Astrologer Marvin Wilkerson, Kelly and Chip started talking about all the ways their perspectives have shifted over the years. From success and happiness to relationships and personal growth, they share the lessons life has taught them, the beliefs they've changed their minds about, and the moments that completely changed how they see things.
Watch us on YouTube! (<a href="https://m.youtube.com/velvetsedge">By clicking this</a>)
Email us:&nbsp;<a href="mailto:theedge@velvetsedge.com">theedge@velvetsedge.com</a>
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Kelly Henderson // <a href="https://www.instagram.com/velvetsedge/">@velvetsedge</a> // velvetsedge.com
Chip Dorsch // <a href="https://www.instagram.com/chipdorsch/">@chipdorsch</a>
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The Power of a Fresh Perspective (The Edge)

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Why Do People Cheat? The Hidden Psychology of Infidelity with Dr. Glenn Hutchinson (The Velvet)

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