In this episode of Transcending Trauma, we explore what it really means to reclaim agency over your life, not through mindset alone, but through embodied choice.
Trauma shapes the stories we live inside of. It influences our attachment patterns, our nervous system responses, and the internal narratives that quietly guide our relationships. But the story that helped you survive is not necessarily the story that will help you thrive.
Drawing on Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Experiencing®, parts work, body psychotherapy, and relational teachings from Terry Real, Moniquea unpacks how the past can become superimposed onto the present, and how we begin to interrupt that pattern.
This episode includes three guided somatic practices to help you:
• Recognise the old narrative running beneath your reactions
• Disrupt automatic survival scripts
• Strengthen embodied agency in real-time relationships
Embodied agency is not about control or perfection. It is the steady, grounded capacity to pause, regulate, and choose from your wise adult self instead of protective reactivity.
Because healing isn’t about rewriting history — it’s about living differently now.

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