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Creating Trauma Informed Prisons and Communities Throughout the World.

Compassion Prison Project began as the brainchild of award-winning producer Fritzi Horstman, whose own childhood trauma helped shape its conception. Over the course of several months in 2019-2020, Fritzi and a dedicated team of facilitators and volunteers partnered with incarcerated men at a Kern Valley State Prison (KVSP), a maximum-security prison in Central California. Together, they created powerful tools to address and heal from childhood trauma.

Connect with Fritzi here - 

www.compassionprisonproject.org

www.linkedin.com/in/fritzi-horstman

If you want to stay in contact with Moniquea, please check out her social media pages and website here.

https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy

www.somaticsynergy.com.au

https://www.linkedin.com/in/moniquea-spiteri/

Creating Trauma Informed Prisons and Communities Throughout the World. Compassion Prison Project began as the brainchild of award-winning producer Fritzi Horstman, whose own childhood trauma helped shape its conception. Over the course of several months in 2019-2020, Fritzi and a dedicated team of facilitators and volunteers partnered with incarcerated men at a Kern Valley State Prison (KVSP), a maximum-security prison in Central California. Together, they created powerful tools to address and heal from childhood trauma.
Connect with Fritzi here -&nbsp;
<a href="http://www.compassionprisonproject.org">www.compassionprisonproject.org</a>
<a href="http://www.linkedin.com/in/fritzi-horstman">www.linkedin.com/in/fritzi-horstman</a>
If you want to stay in contact with Moniquea, please check out her social media pages and website here.
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy">https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy</a>
<a href="http://www.somaticsynergy.com.au/">www.somaticsynergy.com.au</a>
<a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/moniquea-spiteri/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/moniquea-spiteri/</a>

"Where healing meets humanity."

Welcome to Transcending Trauma, a space where science, story, and soul converge. Hosted by Somatic Psychotherapist and change-maker Moniquea Spiteri, this podcast explores the human journey through trauma, transformation, and embodied awakening. 

Each episode invites you into meaningful conversations with leading experts, healers, and visionaries who are redefining what it means to heal,  from the nervous system up. With warmth, depth, and authenticity, Moniquea guides listeners through the complexities of trauma recovery, the wisdom of the body, and the pathways to reclaiming vitality, connection, and purpose. 

Whether you’re a practitioner, a healing soul, or someone reclaiming your vitality after adversity, Transcending Trauma ® offers grounded insights, somatic practices, and heartfelt stories that remind us: Transformation is not just possible,  it’s how we transcend the patterns of survival, awaken the wisdom of the body, and remember the truth of who we are. 

New Season Theme:The Return - stories of resilience, reinvention, and radical embodiment. To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page - https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy and connect with Moniquea via her other platforms via Link Tree https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri

To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page here https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy

Many thanks to The Kondoors for the use of their amazing single, Mr Rain, for our show's theme song in Season 1. To find out more about The Kondoors visit - https://www.thekondoors.com/ or to purchase Mr Rain click this link - https://orcd.co/byqrerj

#TranscendingTrauma #Trauma #MoniqueaSpiteri #TheKondoors

"Where healing meets humanity." Welcome to Transcending Trauma, a space where science, story, and soul converge. Hosted by Somatic Psychotherapist and change-maker Moniquea Spiteri, this podcast explores the human journey through trauma, transformation, and embodied awakening. Each episode invites you into meaningful conversations with leading experts, healers, and visionaries who are redefining what it means to heal,&nbsp; from the nervous system up. With warmth, depth, and authenticity, Moniquea guides listeners through the complexities of trauma recovery, the wisdom of the body, and the pathways to reclaiming vitality, connection, and purpose. Whether you&rsquo;re a practitioner, a healing soul, or someone reclaiming your vitality after adversity, Transcending Trauma &reg; offers grounded insights, somatic practices, and heartfelt stories that remind us: Transformation is not just possible,&nbsp; it&rsquo;s how we transcend the patterns of survival, awaken the wisdom of the body, and remember the truth of who we are. New Season Theme:The Return - stories of resilience, reinvention, and radical embodiment. To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page - https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy and connect with Moniquea via her other platforms via Link Tree <a href="https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri">https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri</a>
To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page here <a href="https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy">https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy</a>
Many thanks to The Kondoors for the use of their amazing single, Mr Rain, for our show's theme song in Season 1. To find out more about The Kondoors visit - https://www.thekondoors.com/ or to purchase Mr Rain click this link - https://orcd.co/byqrerj
#TranscendingTrauma #Trauma #MoniqueaSpiteri #TheKondoors

 Transcending Trauma ® with Moniquea Spiteri

"Where healing meets humanity."

Welcome to Transcending Trauma — a space where science, story, and soul converge.

Hosted by Somatic Psychotherapist and change-maker Moniquea Spiteri, this podcast explores the human journey through trauma, transformation, and embodied awakening. Each episode invites you into meaningful conversations with leading experts, healers, and visionaries who are redefining what it means to heal — from the nervous system up.

With warmth, depth, and authenticity, Moniquea guides listeners through the complexities of trauma recovery, the wisdom of the body, and the pathways to reclaiming vitality, connection, and purpose.

Whether you’re a practitioner, a healing soul, or someone reclaiming your vitality after adversity, Transcending Trauma ® offers grounded insights, somatic practices, and heartfelt stories that remind us:

Transformation is not just possible — it’s how we transcend the patterns of survival, awaken the wisdom of the body, and remember the truth of who we are.

New Season Theme:The Return — stories of resilience, reinvention, and radical embodiment.

To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page - https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy and connect with Moniquea via her other platforms via Link Tree https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri

#TranscendingTrauma #Trauma #MoniqueaSpiteri 

"Where healing meets humanity."
Welcome to Transcending Trauma &mdash; a space where science, story, and soul converge.
Hosted by Somatic Psychotherapist and change-maker Moniquea Spiteri, this podcast explores the human journey through trauma, transformation, and embodied awakening. Each episode invites you into meaningful conversations with leading experts, healers, and visionaries who are redefining what it means to heal &mdash; from the nervous system up.
With warmth, depth, and authenticity, Moniquea guides listeners through the complexities of trauma recovery, the wisdom of the body, and the pathways to reclaiming vitality, connection, and purpose.
Whether you&rsquo;re a practitioner, a healing soul, or someone reclaiming your vitality after adversity, Transcending Trauma &reg; offers grounded insights, somatic practices, and heartfelt stories that remind us:
Transformation is not just possible &mdash; it&rsquo;s how we transcend the patterns of survival, awaken the wisdom of the body, and remember the truth of who we are.
New Season Theme: The Return &mdash; stories of resilience, reinvention, and radical embodiment.
To connect with Moniquea, visit her Facebook page -&nbsp;<a href="https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy">https://www.facebook.com/somaticsynergy </a>and connect with Moniquea via her other platforms via Link Tree <a href="https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri">https://linktr.ee/Moniquea_Spiteri</a>
#TranscendingTrauma #Trauma #MoniqueaSpiteri&nbsp;

Transcending Trauma® with Moniquea Spiteri

Episode 50 - Fritzi Horstman - Compassion Prison Project

What happens when connection no longer requires self-abandonment?

In this powerful closing episode of the attachment and people-pleasing series, Moniquea Spiteri explores what it truly means to move from survival-based relating into secure connection.

Many of us learned to stay connected through adapting, over-functioning, rescuing, anticipating the needs of others, or becoming who we believed we needed to be in order to belong. While these patterns may have once helped us survive, they often come at a cost—the loss of self.

In this episode, Moniquea weaves together somatic healing, attachment theory, nervous system regulation, relational trauma, embodiment, and boundary work to explore what secure relating actually feels like in the body.

You'll discover:

• Why calm and healthy relationships can initially feel unfamiliar or unsafe
• The difference between chemistry and familiarity
• How people pleasing and over-functioning create the illusion of intimacy
• Why the nervous system can mistake intensity for connection
• How attachment wounds shape adult relationships
• What happens when relationships finally have room for the authentic self
• How to stay connected without losing yourself in the process
• The path toward mutuality, honesty, and secure connection

Through reflective teachings and guided somatic practices, this episode invites you to explore a new possibility: relationships where connection no longer costs you yourself.

Whether you're healing attachment wounds, navigating boundaries, recovering from people pleasing, or learning to trust yourself in relationship, this episode offers a compassionate and embodied roadmap toward secure relating.

Topics explored in this episode:

Attachment Theory, Secure Attachment, People Pleasing, Fawn Response, Relational Trauma, Somatic Experiencing, Nervous System Regulation, Polyvagal Theory, Boundaries, Emotional Burnout, Self-Abandonment, Embodiment, Trauma Recovery, Relational Healing, Secure Relationships, Authentic Connection, Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience, Healing Trauma.

If this episode resonates with you, please subscribe, share it with someone who may benefit, and leave a review.

And stay tuned as Transcending Trauma begins opening back into more conversations with practitioners, experts, survivors, and thought leaders exploring trauma, healing, embodiment, mental health, and human transformation.

What happens when connection no longer requires self-abandonment?
In this powerful closing episode of the attachment and people-pleasing series, Moniquea Spiteri explores what it truly means to move from survival-based relating into secure connection.
Many of us learned to stay connected through adapting, over-functioning, rescuing, anticipating the needs of others, or becoming who we believed we needed to be in order to belong. While these patterns may have once helped us survive, they often come at a cost&mdash;the loss of self.
In this episode, Moniquea weaves together somatic healing, attachment theory, nervous system regulation, relational trauma, embodiment, and boundary work to explore what secure relating actually feels like in the body.
You'll discover:
&bull; Why calm and healthy relationships can initially feel unfamiliar or unsafe &bull; The difference between chemistry and familiarity &bull; How people pleasing and over-functioning create the illusion of intimacy &bull; Why the nervous system can mistake intensity for connection &bull; How attachment wounds shape adult relationships &bull; What happens when relationships finally have room for the authentic self &bull; How to stay connected without losing yourself in the process &bull; The path toward mutuality, honesty, and secure connection
Through reflective teachings and guided somatic practices, this episode invites you to explore a new possibility: relationships where connection no longer costs you yourself.
Whether you're healing attachment wounds, navigating boundaries, recovering from people pleasing, or learning to trust yourself in relationship, this episode offers a compassionate and embodied roadmap toward secure relating.
Topics explored in this episode:
Attachment Theory, Secure Attachment, People Pleasing, Fawn Response, Relational Trauma, Somatic Experiencing, Nervous System Regulation, Polyvagal Theory, Boundaries, Emotional Burnout, Self-Abandonment, Embodiment, Trauma Recovery, Relational Healing, Secure Relationships, Authentic Connection, Personal Growth, Emotional Resilience, Healing Trauma.
If this episode resonates with you, please subscribe, share it with someone who may benefit, and leave a review.
And stay tuned as Transcending Trauma begins opening back into more conversations with practitioners, experts, survivors, and thought leaders exploring trauma, healing, embodiment, mental health, and human transformation.

S2 E14 - Secure Relating: When Connection No Longer Costs You Yourself

What if boundaries are not walls… but a return to yourself?

In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores boundaries through the lens of trauma healing, nervous system regulation, attachment, somatic awareness, and relational repair.

Many people struggle with boundaries not because they lack strength, but because their nervous system learned that staying connected meant staying agreeable, easy, or emotionally available.

This episode explores why boundaries can feel so difficult to hold, how trauma and attachment patterns interrupt our sense of self, and why boundaries are not primarily about controlling others, but about remaining connected to ourselves.

Through three guided somatic practices, you’ll learn how to feel the edge of self in the body, recognise the moment you override your own truth, and begin staying connected to yourself while remaining in relationship.

In this episode we explore

• boundaries as a felt sense in the body • why boundaries feel unsafe or activating • the nervous system and fear of disconnection • people pleasing, over adaptation, and self abandonment • staying grounded in truth without shutting down • self loyalty, mutuality, and authentic connection

A powerful episode for anyone ready to stop abandoning themselves in relationships and begin reclaiming boundaries as an act of self return.

What if boundaries are not walls&hellip; but a return to yourself?
In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores boundaries through the lens of trauma healing, nervous system regulation, attachment, somatic awareness, and relational repair.
Many people struggle with boundaries not because they lack strength, but because their nervous system learned that staying connected meant staying agreeable, easy, or emotionally available.
This episode explores why boundaries can feel so difficult to hold, how trauma and attachment patterns interrupt our sense of self, and why boundaries are not primarily about controlling others, but about remaining connected to ourselves.
Through three guided somatic practices, you&rsquo;ll learn how to feel the edge of self in the body, recognise the moment you override your own truth, and begin staying connected to yourself while remaining in relationship.
In this episode we explore
&bull; boundaries as a felt sense in the body &bull; why boundaries feel unsafe or activating &bull; the nervous system and fear of disconnection &bull; people pleasing, over adaptation, and self abandonment &bull; staying grounded in truth without shutting down &bull; self loyalty, mutuality, and authentic connection
A powerful episode for anyone ready to stop abandoning themselves in relationships and begin reclaiming boundaries as an act of self return.

S2 E13 - Boundaries: The Return of the Self

Why does saying no feel so hard?

In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores the people pleaser pattern through the lens of trauma healing, nervous system regulation, attachment, parts work, and somatic awareness.

Many people experience people pleasing as kindness, over giving, or simply being the one who keeps everything together. But beneath the behaviour is often a deeply intelligent survival adaptation rooted in the fawn response, fear of disconnection, and the belief that love must be earned through usefulness.

This episode explores how people pleasing slowly becomes identity, how guilt and resentment keep the cycle repeating, and why boundaries are not the opposite of love, but the pathway back to authentic connection.

Through three guided somatic practices, you’ll learn how to recognise the over giving cycle in real time, stay present through the guilt wave without rescuing, and begin reclaiming boundaries without losing your warmth, heart, or capacity for love.

In this episode we explore

• people pleasing and the loss of self • guilt, resentment, and fear of being selfish • the younger protective part and the good child pattern • over functioning, role identity, and self abandonment • how to stay warm, open, and clear in boundaries • rebuilding self loyalty and authentic connection

A powerful episode for anyone ready to stop abandoning themselves in the name of connection and begin reconnecting with their truth, capacity, and sense of self.

Why does saying no feel so hard?
In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea Spiteri explores the people pleaser pattern through the lens of trauma healing, nervous system regulation, attachment, parts work, and somatic awareness.
Many people experience people pleasing as kindness, over giving, or simply being the one who keeps everything together. But beneath the behaviour is often a deeply intelligent survival adaptation rooted in the fawn response, fear of disconnection, and the belief that love must be earned through usefulness.
This episode explores how people pleasing slowly becomes identity, how guilt and resentment keep the cycle repeating, and why boundaries are not the opposite of love, but the pathway back to authentic connection.
Through three guided somatic practices, you&rsquo;ll learn how to recognise the over giving cycle in real time, stay present through the guilt wave without rescuing, and begin reclaiming boundaries without losing your warmth, heart, or capacity for love.
In this episode we explore
&bull; people pleasing and the loss of self &bull; guilt, resentment, and fear of being selfish &bull; the younger protective part and the good child pattern &bull; over functioning, role identity, and self abandonment &bull; how to stay warm, open, and clear in boundaries &bull; rebuilding self loyalty and authentic connection
A powerful episode for anyone ready to stop abandoning themselves in the name of connection and begin reconnecting with their truth, capacity, and sense of self.

Episode 50 - Fritzi Horstman - Compassion Prison Project

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