On this bestie advice segment we're talking about the birthday you're dreading. Our listener is a week out and already bracing for the let down because she's the one who remembers everyone else's day, finds the perfect gift, plans the thing. And nobody plans for her. She's not being petty, she's exhausted from being the giver in every direction and never the one being held. Bestie, this isn't about the presents. This is about being seen.