Key Takeaways:

Safety: Create a safe physical and emotional space for your child to feel comfortable discussing trauma.

Trustworthiness: Build a trusting relationship with a gentle approach, clear communication, and respect for privacy.

Choice: Allow your child to have a say in when and how they discuss their trauma and the steps they take.

Collaboration: Work alongside your child, letting them be part of the process in seeking help and making decisions.

Empowerment: Encourage your child to feel empowered to take steps toward healing and rebuilding their self-esteem.

Notable Quotes:

"Be the rock, not the ocean." – Collett Smart quoting Nigel Latta

"Helping a child feel safe is the essence of a trauma-informed approach." – Collett Smart

"Wariness on the part of your child is their way of keeping safe now and protecting themselves because they have to learn to trust again." – Collett Smart

"The main thing as a parent is really just about support, about love and about kindness and being part of your child's journey towards healing." – Collett Smart

"Your child doesn't need a perfect parent, they just need a parent who is engaged, who they feel safe with, who they feel is there for them." – Collett Smart

Resources:

Blue Knot Foundation: Blue Knot Foundation Fact Sheet on Trauma-Informed Care

Grounding Exercises: From the Living Well website

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Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice.

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