Raising Teens with Collett SmartS8E1 Supporting Teens Through Trauma - Jo Prendergast
Raising Teens with Collett Smart
When it comes to raising little ones, we often feel as though we have a small village around us – in morning play groups, meeting other parents at tot…Get Tickets to Jo's show at her website - Dr Jo Prendergast - Dr Jo Prendergast
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Key Takeaways:
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Trauma Awareness: Understand the distinction between Big T trauma (life-threatening events) and Little t trauma (non-life-threatening but emotionally distressing events).
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Trauma Responses: Familiarize with the five F's of trauma responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze, Fawn, and Flop, and recognize how trauma affects teens differently.
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Parental Role: Emphasize the importance of being an askable and tellable parent, maintaining a calm demeanor, and providing consistent support.
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Four Foundations of Support: Focus on building strong relationships, equipping teens with necessary skills, managing unhelpful behaviors, and ensuring parents' self-care.
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Professional Help: Recognize when to seek professional support for trauma symptoms, particularly if they persist beyond a few weeks and significantly impact daily functioning.
Notable Quotes:
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"Sometimes things that aren't on our bucket list suddenly appear in our lives."
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"Parenting is messy. I am not a perfect parent telling you how to be like me. I am a real parent who's made mistakes."
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"Trauma can bring on almost any mental health challenge in terms of something that triggers it."
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"Am I being the rock or the ocean here? I think I'm being the ocean."
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"PTSD can be very treatable, but it can become a chronic, very disabling thing if people get stuck with it."
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Collett is a psychologist, qualified teacher, speaker, and internationally published author, with 25 years' experience working in private and public schools, as well as in private practice.
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