Podcast Interview: Meet Jez Wood from Kove Properties this week! 
Failure is Part Of Success. 
#Mindset #Money #Success
In this episode, Loraine Marshall interviews guest Jez Wood. Jez shares his story of starting Kove Properties just before 2020 when he and his business partner were furloughed from their main employment. He explains how this gave him the impetus to create the business and move faster. Jez recognised that through fear and chaos, there was opportunity. They set up a remote business in different locations. They use their knowledge of the Northeast locations to offer property investments to individuals who are time-poor and seeking a stable investment and passive income type. Jez has a podcast called Beyond The Fail; he interviews other business entrepreneurs who speak about failures and acknowledge how failure is often seen as a taboo; there is a shame around debt and business failure, and Jez recognises that failure can be part of success. Jez covers the taboo of mental health and talks about how therapy has helped him since 2020.

KEY TAKEAWAYS
Seize Opportunity in Crisis: Moments of chaos can reveal new possibilities. Remote Work Can Be Effective: Location doesn’t limit business if you have the right expertise. Failure as a Learning Tool: Embrace and learn from failure as part of the entrepreneurial journey. 
Mental Health Matters: Seeking help is crucial for personal and business success. Stay Resourceful: Perseverance is essential in the face of setbacks and challenges.

BEST MOMENTS
Starting Kove Properties: Jez describes the decision to launch Kove while furloughed, turning a challenge into an opportunity. 
Remote Business Success: Insights on building a business remotely and leveraging local expertise for clients. 
Taboo of Failure: Jez’s views on why failure shouldn’t be stigmatized, sharing examples from his experiences. 
Mental Health Discussion: Jez opens up about therapy's role in his life since 2020. 
The Importance of Resilience: Jez reflects on resilience, growth, and pushing through fear.

Kove Properties https://koveproperties.co.uk/
Instagram 
https://www.instagram.com/jezwood/
Podcast Beyond The Fail
 https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondTheFailPodcast/videos
Episode with Mark Lloyd - I Hit Rock Bottom 
https://youtu.be/PhINkXa_Dgk?si=6lxZZwhuTkTTF4Hu

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Podcast Interview: Meet Jez Wood from Kove Properties this week! Failure is Part Of Success.  #Mindset #Money #Success In this episode, Loraine Marshall interviews guest Jez Wood. Jez shares his story of starting Kove Properties just before 2020 when he and his business partner were furloughed from their main employment. He explains how this gave him the impetus to create the business and move faster. Jez recognised that through fear and chaos, there was opportunity. They set up a remote business in different locations. They use their knowledge of the Northeast locations to offer property investments to individuals who are time-poor and seeking a stable investment and passive income type. Jez has a podcast called Beyond The Fail; he interviews other business entrepreneurs who speak about failures and acknowledge how failure is often seen as a taboo; there is a shame around debt and business failure, and Jez recognises that failure can be part of success. Jez covers the taboo of mental health and talks about how therapy has helped him since 2020.
KEY TAKEAWAYS Seize Opportunity in Crisis: Moments of chaos can reveal new possibilities. Remote Work Can Be Effective: Location doesn’t limit business if you have the right expertise. Failure as a Learning Tool: Embrace and learn from failure as part of the entrepreneurial journey. Mental Health Matters: Seeking help is crucial for personal and business success. Stay Resourceful: Perseverance is essential in the face of setbacks and challenges. BEST MOMENTS Starting Kove Properties: Jez describes the decision to launch Kove while furloughed, turning a challenge into an opportunity. Remote Business Success: Insights on building a business remotely and leveraging local expertise for clients. Taboo of Failure: Jez’s views on why failure shouldn’t be stigmatized, sharing examples from his experiences. Mental Health Discussion: Jez opens up about therapy's role in his life since 2020. The Importance of Resilience: Jez reflects on resilience, growth, and pushing through fear. Kove Properties <a href="https://koveproperties.co.uk/">https://koveproperties.co.uk/</a> Instagram <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jezwood/">https://www.instagram.com/jezwood/</a> Podcast Beyond The Fail <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondTheFailPodcast/videos"> https://www.youtube.com/@BeyondTheFailPodcast/videos</a> Episode with Mark Lloyd - I Hit Rock Bottom <a href="https://youtu.be/PhINkXa_Dgk?si=6lxZZwhuTkTTF4Hu">https://youtu.be/PhINkXa_Dgk?si=6lxZZwhuTkTTF4Hu</a> Buy Me A Coffee - Help Start A Non-Profit Association <a href="https://buymeacoffee.com/successwithloraine">https://buymeacoffee.com/successwithloraine</a> Podcast YouTube <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts">https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts</a> “Discover Our Best-Selling T-Shirts” MERCH: <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/merch/">https://successwithloraine.com/merch/</a>

Podcast Interview: This week Meet Jez Wood From Kove Properties! Failure is Part Of Success.

In this episode, Loraine delves into her personal experiences surrounding domestic violence and financial manipulation during her tumultuous relationship with her former partner. As October marks Domestic Violence Awareness Month, Loraine shares insights from her July 2021 email communications, revealing the emotional and financial tactics. Loraine discusses the conflicting legal advice she received, the emotional manipulation involving her deceased father, and the power dynamics that persisted even after their separation.



KEY TAKEAWAYS


The episode highlights the tactics used by a former partner to maintain control over the host, including emotional manipulation and financial coercion.


The dynamics between the host and her former partner illustrate a significant power imbalance. The partner leverages financial resources and emotional tactics to exert control.


Loraine discusses the criticism received for sharing personal experiences on social media, emphasizing the importance of having a support network and the challenges faced when communicating one's truth publicly.


The episode outlines the difficulties encountered in the legal process, including conflicting advice from legal professionals and the manipulation of financial offers during mediation.


Loraine is dedicated to creating a supportive community for women over 40 who are dealing with trauma or grief from relationship endings, providing a safe space for connection, resources, and transformation.



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BEST MOMENTS

"The conflicting advice then was, do not make any more gender violence complaints. You will make him angry."

"P's behaviour... aligns with the pattern of a perpetrator seeking to maintain control and silence their victim."

"He uses a tactic that I wrote about in my first book. DARVO, an acronym... based on the work of psychologist Jennifer Freed."

"This constant shifting of terms keeps Loraine in a state of uncertainty and insecurity."

"Money and legal actions are the weapons that manipulators use to emotionally and financially devastate their victims."



HOST BIO

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. 
A former property management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016. She had dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner, and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

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The dynamics between the host and her former partner illustrate a significant power imbalance. The partner leverages financial resources and emotional tactics to exert control.
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Loraine discusses the criticism received for sharing personal experiences on social media, emphasizing the importance of having a support network and the challenges faced when communicating one's truth publicly.
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The episode outlines the difficulties encountered in the legal process, including conflicting advice from legal professionals and the manipulation of financial offers during mediation.
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Loraine is dedicated to creating a supportive community for women over 40 who are dealing with trauma or grief from relationship endings, providing a safe space for connection, resources, and transformation. 
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No Cost, Zero Commitment, Support Community for Women over 40 <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/">https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts"> https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts </a> Merch: <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/merch/">https://successwithloraine.com/merch/ </a> ★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★ <a href="https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms"> https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms</a>
 
BEST MOMENTS
"The conflicting advice then was, do not make any more gender violence complaints. You will make him angry."
"P's behaviour... aligns with the pattern of a perpetrator seeking to maintain control and silence their victim."
"He uses a tactic that I wrote about in my first book. DARVO, an acronym... based on the work of psychologist Jennifer Freed."
"This constant shifting of terms keeps Loraine in a state of uncertainty and insecurity."
"Money and legal actions are the weapons that manipulators use to emotionally and financially devastate their victims."
 
HOST BIO
Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former property management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016. She had dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 
Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner, and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 
Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

Breaking Free From Emotional Abuse Patterns

In this episode Loraine delves into the world of User Generated Content (UGC) creators, addressing common questions and misconceptions surrounding this emerging field. Loraine explains what a UGC creator is, the benefits of becoming one, and how individuals can start creating content even without a large following or the need to show their face. She shares her journey into UGC creation, highlighting the potential for earning income through platforms like TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram.

Key Takeaways:


Understanding UGC: UGC stands for user-generated content, which includes original videos, images, reviews, and other media created by individuals rather than brands.


Opportunities for Income: Becoming a UGC creator can be a viable way to earn extra income or transition into a full-time job.


Access to Free Products: UGC creators often receive free products from brands to showcase in their content.


Faceless Content Creation: Being a UGC creator without showing your face is possible. Creators can use graphics, animations, and voiceovers to engage their audience while maintaining anonymity.


Earnings Potential: The income of UGC creators can vary widely based on experience, niche, and client types. Some creators have reported significant earnings, with diversification of income streams through coaching and affiliate marketing being common among successful creators.



Best Moments:

"The term UGC stands for user generated content. So, a UGC creator is a creator that is in charge of producing original videos, images, reviews, comments, and other forms of media."

"Becoming a content creator can be a great way to earn extra money or even make it your full-time job."

"User-generated content creators often get free products from brands to showcase in their posts and videos."

"You can be a UGC creator with no followers. The important thing for creators is to have excellent content creation skills, not a large following."

"Most successful UGC creators diversify their income streams with things like coaching, affiliate marketing, social media management."



No Cost, Zero Commitment, Support Community for Women over 40 https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/

 https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts 

Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/

★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★

https://linktr.ee/loraine_mms

HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020.  Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship.  Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. 

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<p data-pm-slice="1 1 [&quot;aiblock&quot;,{&quot;prompt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;preview&quot;:false,&quot;block&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_01J98PQ39V6HZP4DCHMQWGF73B&quot;,&quot;status&quot;:&quot;executing&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;selected_variation&quot;:0,&quot;variations&quot;:[],&quot;configuration&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;,&quot;description&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;markdown_value&quot;:null,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;archived_at&quot;:null,&quot;saved&quot;:true,&quot;timestamp_configuration&quot;:null,&quot;quote_configuration&quot;:null},&quot;prosemirror&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;rootblock&quot;,&quot;content&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;paragraph&quot;}]}],&quot;previous_block&quot;:null,&quot;next_block&quot;:null,&quot;error_code&quot;:null,&quot;feedback&quot;:null},&quot;template&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;block_configuration&quot;,&quot;block_configuration_id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;}},&quot;rootblock&quot;,null]">In this episode Loraine delves into the world of User Generated Content (UGC) creators, addressing common questions and misconceptions surrounding this emerging field. Loraine explains what a UGC creator is, the benefits of becoming one, and how individuals can start creating content even without a large following or the need to show their face. She shares her journey into UGC creation, highlighting the potential for earning income through platforms like TikTok, YouTube, and Instagram.
<p data-pm-slice="1 1 [&quot;aiblock&quot;,{&quot;prompt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;preview&quot;:false,&quot;block&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_01J98PQ39V6HZP4DCHMQWGF73B&quot;,&quot;status&quot;:&quot;executing&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;selected_variation&quot;:0,&quot;variations&quot;:[],&quot;configuration&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;,&quot;description&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;markdown_value&quot;:null,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;archived_at&quot;:null,&quot;saved&quot;:true,&quot;timestamp_configuration&quot;:null,&quot;quote_configuration&quot;:null},&quot;prosemirror&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;rootblock&quot;,&quot;content&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;paragraph&quot;}]}],&quot;previous_block&quot;:null,&quot;next_block&quot;:null,&quot;error_code&quot;:null,&quot;feedback&quot;:null},&quot;template&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;block_configuration&quot;,&quot;block_configuration_id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;}},&quot;rootblock&quot;,null]">Key Takeaways:
<ul data-pm-slice="3 3 [&quot;aiblock&quot;,{&quot;prompt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;preview&quot;:false,&quot;block&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_01J98PQ3B46NYNWSMD495DXEY6&quot;,&quot;status&quot;:&quot;executing&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;selected_variation&quot;:0,&quot;variations&quot;:[],&quot;configuration&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Key Takeaways&quot;,&quot;description&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;markdown_value&quot;:null,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker&quot;,&quot;archived_at&quot;:null,&quot;saved&quot;:true,&quot;timestamp_configuration&quot;:null,&quot;quote_configuration&quot;:null},&quot;prosemirror&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;rootblock&quot;,&quot;content&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;paragraph&quot;}]}],&quot;previous_block&quot;:null,&quot;next_block&quot;:null,&quot;error_code&quot;:null,&quot;feedback&quot;:null},&quot;template&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;block_configuration&quot;,&quot;block_configuration_id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q&quot;,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Key Takeaways&quot;}},&quot;rootblock&quot;,null]">
<li>
Understanding UGC: UGC stands for user-generated content, which includes original videos, images, reviews, and other media created by individuals rather than brands.
</li>
<li>
Opportunities for Income: Becoming a UGC creator can be a viable way to earn extra income or transition into a full-time job.
</li>
<li>
Access to Free Products: UGC creators often receive free products from brands to showcase in their content.
</li>
<li>
Faceless Content Creation: Being a UGC creator without showing your face is possible. Creators can use graphics, animations, and voiceovers to engage their audience while maintaining anonymity.
</li>
<li>
Earnings Potential: The income of UGC creators can vary widely based on experience, niche, and client types. Some creators have reported significant earnings, with diversification of income streams through coaching and affiliate marketing being common among successful creators.
</li>
</ul>
 
Best Moments:
"The term UGC stands for user generated content. So, a UGC creator is a creator that is in charge of producing original videos, images, reviews, comments, and other forms of media."
"Becoming a content creator can be a great way to earn extra money or even make it your full-time job."
"User-generated content creators often get free products from brands to showcase in their posts and videos."
"You can be a UGC creator with no followers. The important thing for creators is to have excellent content creation skills, not a large following."
"Most successful UGC creators diversify their income streams with things like coaching, affiliate marketing, social media management."
 
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HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020.  Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship.  Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. FREE GROUP: https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/

Understanding UGC: A Creator's Journey

In this episode, Loraine delves into the concept of monetizing social media platforms to create passive income streams. She breaks down the monetization options available on YouTube, TikTok, and Facebook, and shares key insights into how even beginners can start earning with small audiences. By exploring affiliate marketing, brand partnerships, and other methods, Loraine highlights practical ways to grow your digital presence and income. Tune in to learn how you can turn your passion or content creation into a sustainable online business.

Key Takeaways:

Entry Levels for Monetization: Learn about the different requirements to start earning on YouTube, TikTok, and Facebook, including YouTube’s Partner Program and TikTok’s Creator Fund.

Early Monetization Methods: Understand how beginners can use affiliate marketing, sponsorships, and shoppable posts to earn even with a smaller following.

Diversifying Income Streams: Discover how creators can combine affiliate marketing, ads, merchandise, and brand deals for multiple income sources.

Importance of Niche Audiences: Loraine explains how cultivating a targeted, engaged audience can lead to quicker brand deals, even before reaching platform-specific milestones.

AdSense and Blogging: Explore how Google AdSense helps blog writers earn revenue through targeted ads, especially for content-heavy platforms like WordPress.

Best Moments:

Loraine explains the basic entry levels for YouTube Partner Program and how to achieve 1,000 subscribers and 4,000 watch hours to start earning ad revenue.

A detailed breakdown of how affiliate marketing can be a great income stream for both YouTube and TikTok creators, even at the start of their journey.

Loraine discusses her own experience with using Google AdSense on her blog in the early 2000s and shares tips on getting started.

Insight into how cultivating a niche audience can be more valuable than large numbers, as niche creators can attract better sponsorship deals.

A motivating call to action, emphasizing how consistency, learning, and small improvements can grow your channel or blog into a life-changing income stream.

Remember: Monetization is just one aspect of building a successful online presence. Focus on creating valuable content, building relationships with your audience, and exploring different avenues for revenue generation. With consistency and work ethic, you can turn your passion into a profitable venture.

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HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020.  Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship.  Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. 

FREE GROUP: https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/

In this episode, Loraine delves into the concept of monetizing social media platforms to create passive income streams. She breaks down the monetization options available on YouTube, TikTok, and Facebook, and shares key insights into how even beginners can start earning with small audiences. By exploring affiliate marketing, brand partnerships, and other methods, Loraine highlights practical ways to grow your digital presence and income. Tune in to learn how you can turn your passion or content creation into a sustainable online business.
Key Takeaways:
Entry Levels for Monetization: Learn about the different requirements to start earning on YouTube, TikTok, and Facebook, including YouTube’s Partner Program and TikTok’s Creator Fund.
Early Monetization Methods: Understand how beginners can use affiliate marketing, sponsorships, and shoppable posts to earn even with a smaller following.
Diversifying Income Streams: Discover how creators can combine affiliate marketing, ads, merchandise, and brand deals for multiple income sources.
Importance of Niche Audiences: Loraine explains how cultivating a targeted, engaged audience can lead to quicker brand deals, even before reaching platform-specific milestones.
AdSense and Blogging: Explore how Google AdSense helps blog writers earn revenue through targeted ads, especially for content-heavy platforms like WordPress. Best Moments:
Loraine explains the basic entry levels for YouTube Partner Program and how to achieve 1,000 subscribers and 4,000 watch hours to start earning ad revenue.
A detailed breakdown of how affiliate marketing can be a great income stream for both YouTube and TikTok creators, even at the start of their journey.
Loraine discusses her own experience with using Google AdSense on her blog in the early 2000s and shares tips on getting started.
Insight into how cultivating a niche audience can be more valuable than large numbers, as niche creators can attract better sponsorship deals.
A motivating call to action, emphasizing how consistency, learning, and small improvements can grow your channel or blog into a life-changing income stream.
Remember: Monetization is just one aspect of building a successful online presence. Focus on creating valuable content, building relationships with your audience, and exploring different avenues for revenue generation. With consistency and work ethic, you can turn your passion into a profitable venture. No Cost, Zero Commitment, Support Community for Women over 40 <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/">https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts"> https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts </a> Merch: <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/merch/">https://successwithloraine.com/merch/</a> ★☆★ Follow Me Here ★☆★
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HOST BIO Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020.  Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship.  Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. FREE GROUP: https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/

Money and Monitising Social Media Platforms

In this episode, Loraine delves into the concept of the emotional energy spiral, exploring how trauma and grief can lead individuals to a state of despair and low self-esteem. Lorraine shares her personal experiences with trauma, including the aftermath of a difficult relationship, and discusses the importance of recognizing where we are emotionally and how to take actionable steps towards healing. She outlines the ascending and descending spirals of emotional energy, emphasizing the power of creativity, forgiveness, and learning as tools for recovery. Lorraine also introduces her upcoming Facebook group focused on transforming trauma into empowerment, inviting listeners to join her on this journey of personal growth and success.

KEY TAKEAWAYS
The emotional energy spiral consists of a descending spiral filled with negative emotions such as grief, despair, and low self-esteem, and an ascending spiral that includes positive emotions like hopefulness, joy, and empowerment.


Forgiveness is crucial in moving forward from trauma. It is not about absolving others of their actions but about freeing yourself from the burden of negative emotions and allowing yourself to heal.


Engaging in creative activities like writing or starting a YouTube channel can help lift you out of negative emotions. Learning new skills is positioned as a way to boost your energy and move up the emotional spiral.


Life will always present challenges, whether staying in a negative situation or taking steps toward improvement. It's essential to recognize that both paths will be difficult, but choosing to pursue growth and change can lead to a more fulfilling life.


Joining supportive groups, such as a Facebook community focused on trauma to transformation, can provide a safe space for sharing experiences and learning from others.

BEST MOMENTS

"When we have fallen down this emotional energy spiral because of circumstances outside of our control, we have to think, how can I improve?"

"Forgiveness isn't about the other person. It's about how you can improve your energy level and move forward from a situation."

"You can move yourself forward by taking positive steps."

"If you decide to say to yourself, this is what I want to achieve and take the steps, you can overcome the challenges."

"This group that I'm opening, it's all about trauma to transformation."



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HOST BIO

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. 
A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

<p data-pm-slice="1 1 [&quot;aiblock&quot;,{&quot;prompt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;preview&quot;:false,&quot;block&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_01J850N0881EM6BAV4EC57VHH8&quot;,&quot;status&quot;:&quot;executing&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;selected_variation&quot;:0,&quot;variations&quot;:[],&quot;configuration&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;,&quot;description&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;markdown_value&quot;:null,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;archived_at&quot;:null,&quot;saved&quot;:true,&quot;timestamp_configuration&quot;:null,&quot;quote_configuration&quot;:null},&quot;prosemirror&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;rootblock&quot;,&quot;content&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;paragraph&quot;}]}],&quot;previous_block&quot;:null,&quot;next_block&quot;:null,&quot;error_code&quot;:null,&quot;feedback&quot;:null},&quot;template&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;block_configuration&quot;,&quot;block_configuration_id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;}},&quot;rootblock&quot;,null]">In this episode, Loraine delves into the concept of the emotional energy spiral, exploring how trauma and grief can lead individuals to a state of despair and low self-esteem. Lorraine shares her personal experiences with trauma, including the aftermath of a difficult relationship, and discusses the importance of recognizing where we are emotionally and how to take actionable steps towards healing. She outlines the ascending and descending spirals of emotional energy, emphasizing the power of creativity, forgiveness, and learning as tools for recovery. Lorraine also introduces her upcoming Facebook group focused on transforming trauma into empowerment, inviting listeners to join her on this journey of personal growth and success.
<p data-pm-slice="1 1 [&quot;aiblock&quot;,{&quot;prompt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;preview&quot;:false,&quot;block&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_01J850N0881EM6BAV4EC57VHH8&quot;,&quot;status&quot;:&quot;executing&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;selected_variation&quot;:0,&quot;variations&quot;:[],&quot;configuration&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;,&quot;description&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;markdown_value&quot;:null,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;archived_at&quot;:null,&quot;saved&quot;:true,&quot;timestamp_configuration&quot;:null,&quot;quote_configuration&quot;:null},&quot;prosemirror&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;rootblock&quot;,&quot;content&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;paragraph&quot;}]}],&quot;previous_block&quot;:null,&quot;next_block&quot;:null,&quot;error_code&quot;:null,&quot;feedback&quot;:null},&quot;template&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;block_configuration&quot;,&quot;block_configuration_id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7Q605TDDK4CV4W3Z5Z405&quot;,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;write a paragraph description about this episode&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Description&quot;}},&quot;rootblock&quot;,null]">KEY TAKEAWAYS
<ol data-pm-slice="3 3 [&quot;aiblock&quot;,{&quot;prompt&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;preview&quot;:false,&quot;block&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_01J850N08RQ3G7RMYX3PGEH8JW&quot;,&quot;status&quot;:&quot;executing&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;selected_variation&quot;:0,&quot;variations&quot;:[],&quot;configuration&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q&quot;,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;prompt&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Key Takeaways&quot;,&quot;description&quot;:&quot;&quot;,&quot;markdown_value&quot;:null,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker&quot;,&quot;archived_at&quot;:null,&quot;saved&quot;:true,&quot;timestamp_configuration&quot;:null,&quot;quote_configuration&quot;:null},&quot;prosemirror&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;rootblock&quot;,&quot;content&quot;:[{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;paragraph&quot;}]}],&quot;previous_block&quot;:null,&quot;next_block&quot;:null,&quot;error_code&quot;:null,&quot;feedback&quot;:null},&quot;template&quot;:{&quot;type&quot;:&quot;block_configuration&quot;,&quot;block_configuration_id&quot;:&quot;blk_cfg_01H6S7R41A8C3A59CT4BJ5131Q&quot;,&quot;prompt_value&quot;:&quot;List 5 key takeaways. Do not use the term The Speaker&quot;,&quot;name&quot;:&quot;Master - Key Takeaways&quot;}},&quot;rootblock&quot;,null]">
<li>The emotional energy spiral consists of a descending spiral filled with negative emotions such as grief, despair, and low self-esteem, and an ascending spiral that includes positive emotions like hopefulness, joy, and empowerment.</li>
<li>
Forgiveness is crucial in moving forward from trauma. It is not about absolving others of their actions but about freeing yourself from the burden of negative emotions and allowing yourself to heal.
</li>
<li>
Engaging in creative activities like writing or starting a YouTube channel can help lift you out of negative emotions. Learning new skills is positioned as a way to boost your energy and move up the emotional spiral.
</li>
<li>
Life will always present challenges, whether staying in a negative situation or taking steps toward improvement. It's essential to recognize that both paths will be difficult, but choosing to pursue growth and change can lead to a more fulfilling life.
</li>
<li>
Joining supportive groups, such as a Facebook community focused on trauma to transformation, can provide a safe space for sharing experiences and learning from others.
</li>
</ol>
BEST MOMENTS
"When we have fallen down this emotional energy spiral because of circumstances outside of our control, we have to think, how can I improve?"
"Forgiveness isn't about the other person. It's about how you can improve your energy level and move forward from a situation."
"You can move yourself forward by taking positive steps."
"If you decide to say to yourself, this is what I want to achieve and take the steps, you can overcome the challenges."
"This group that I'm opening, it's all about trauma to transformation."
 
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HOST BIO
Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 
Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 
Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

Steps To Reclaim Your Emotional Power

In this episode, Loraine delves into the universal laws of prosperity, exploring seven key principles that can transform your life and enhance your personal growth. Drawing from her experiences with influential figures like Jim Rohn and Randy Gage, as well as the teachings of Catherine Ponder, Loraine discusses concepts such as the imaging law, vacuum law, law of tithing, circulation law, creativity law, law of giving and receiving, and the law of forgiveness. She emphasizes the importance of visualization, letting go of limiting beliefs, and the power of generosity in attracting abundance. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Visualization is crucial for manifesting desires. By consistently imagining and holding a positive mental image of what you want, you can set the process of manifestation in motion.


To welcome new abundance, it's essential to clear out old physical clutter, outdated beliefs, and emotional baggage. Creating a "vacuum" allows for new opportunities to enter your life.


Giving back a portion of what you receive (typically 10%) aligns you with the flow of prosperity. This practice fosters a sense of community and supports the cycle of giving and receiving.


Prosperity, like energy, must circulate to grow. Allowing wealth, love, and positive energy to flow freely in your life creates a continuous cycle of giving and receiving, attracting more abundance.


Holding onto resentment and grudges creates energetic blocks that hinder prosperity. By practicing forgiveness—both of others and oneself—you can release these blocks and open the door to new opportunities and positive energies.

BEST MOMENTS

"What you can consistently imagine and hold in your mind's eye, then you can actually create this in your life."

"In order to use this vacuum law, it's like you've got to make room for the prosperity in your life."

"The more you give of yourself without expecting a return, the more that will come back to you."

"Forgiveness of others and forgiveness of yourself will release these blocks so that you can be on the path to success."

"Life becomes worthwhile when you have worthwhile goals."

No Cost Support Community for Women over 40
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HOST BIO

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.
A former Property Management business owner spent a  decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

In this episode, Loraine delves into the universal laws of prosperity, exploring seven key principles that can transform your life and enhance your personal growth. Drawing from her experiences with influential figures like Jim Rohn and Randy Gage, as well as the teachings of Catherine Ponder, Loraine discusses concepts such as the imaging law, vacuum law, law of tithing, circulation law, creativity law, law of giving and receiving, and the law of forgiveness. She emphasizes the importance of visualization, letting go of limiting beliefs, and the power of generosity in attracting abundance. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
<ul>
<li>
Visualization is crucial for manifesting desires. By consistently imagining and holding a positive mental image of what you want, you can set the process of manifestation in motion.
</li>
<li>
To welcome new abundance, it's essential to clear out old physical clutter, outdated beliefs, and emotional baggage. Creating a "vacuum" allows for new opportunities to enter your life.
</li>
<li>
Giving back a portion of what you receive (typically 10%) aligns you with the flow of prosperity. This practice fosters a sense of community and supports the cycle of giving and receiving.
</li>
<li>
Prosperity, like energy, must circulate to grow. Allowing wealth, love, and positive energy to flow freely in your life creates a continuous cycle of giving and receiving, attracting more abundance.
</li>
<li>
Holding onto resentment and grudges creates energetic blocks that hinder prosperity. By practicing forgiveness—both of others and oneself—you can release these blocks and open the door to new opportunities and positive energies.
</li>
</ul>
BEST MOMENTS
"What you can consistently imagine and hold in your mind's eye, then you can actually create this in your life."
"In order to use this vacuum law, it's like you've got to make room for the prosperity in your life."
"The more you give of yourself without expecting a return, the more that will come back to you."
"Forgiveness of others and forgiveness of yourself will release these blocks so that you can be on the path to success."
"Life becomes worthwhile when you have worthwhile goals."
No Cost Support Community for Women over 40 <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/"> https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/</a> <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts"> https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts </a> Merch: <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/merch/">https://successwithloraine.com/merch/</a>
HOST BIO
Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a  decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 
Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 
Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

Universal Laws for Abundant Living

In this episode, Loraine delivers a powerful discussion on how our beliefs, formed in childhood, can become the hidden barriers that prevent us from achieving success. She unpacks the concept of limiting beliefs, scarcity mindset, and how fear can often outweigh passion, causing us to shelf our dreams. Loraine also shares actionable steps to reprogram the mind using visualization, affirmations, and repetition to build a new, empowering mindset that will unlock your full potential. 

Key Takeaways: 

Childhood Beliefs Shape Our Mindset: The beliefs we internalize in childhood, often from our caregivers or environment, can either support or sabotage our success later in life.

Limiting Beliefs Block Success: These ingrained beliefs, like “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never have enough money,” create mental barriers that keep us from taking the steps needed to succeed.

Scarcity Mindset Keeps You Stuck: Living in fear of lack — whether it's financial, emotional, or personal security — prevents individuals from taking risks and seeking new opportunities.

The Power of Visualization: Visualizing your success and future self can help rewire the brain, creating a new reality where your goals feel achievable and real.

Repetition is Key: Using affirmations and repeating positive beliefs helps to override the old, negative programming and form new, empowering habits of thought.



Best Moments: 

“We internalize beliefs from a young age, sometimes without even realizing how deeply they affect our future choices.”

“Scarcity and lack mindset—these are the invisible chains holding us back from abundance and success. Recognizing it is the first step to breaking free.”

“Often, we shelf our dreams when fear speaks louder than passion. The trick is in learning to quiet the fear and listen to the possibilities.”

“The mind is incredibly powerful. Through visualization and repetition, we can literally rewire our thinking and create new pathways for success.”

“Affirmations work because they are the seeds we plant in our mind’s garden. With time, they grow into the reality we live in.”

No Cost Support Community for Women over 40 
https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/

Video Podcast 
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HOST BIO 

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020.  Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship.  She is currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation, including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner. 

In this episode, Loraine delivers a powerful discussion on how our beliefs, formed in childhood, can become the hidden barriers that prevent us from achieving success. She unpacks the concept of limiting beliefs, scarcity mindset, and how fear can often outweigh passion, causing us to shelf our dreams. Loraine also shares actionable steps to reprogram the mind using visualization, affirmations, and repetition to build a new, empowering mindset that will unlock your full potential. Key Takeaways: 
Childhood Beliefs Shape Our Mindset: The beliefs we internalize in childhood, often from our caregivers or environment, can either support or sabotage our success later in life.
Limiting Beliefs Block Success: These ingrained beliefs, like “I’m not good enough” or “I’ll never have enough money,” create mental barriers that keep us from taking the steps needed to succeed.
Scarcity Mindset Keeps You Stuck: Living in fear of lack — whether it's financial, emotional, or personal security — prevents individuals from taking risks and seeking new opportunities.
The Power of Visualization: Visualizing your success and future self can help rewire the brain, creating a new reality where your goals feel achievable and real.
Repetition is Key: Using affirmations and repeating positive beliefs helps to override the old, negative programming and form new, empowering habits of thought.
 
Best Moments: 
“We internalize beliefs from a young age, sometimes without even realizing how deeply they affect our future choices.”
“Scarcity and lack mindset—these are the invisible chains holding us back from abundance and success. Recognizing it is the first step to breaking free.”
“Often, we shelf our dreams when fear speaks louder than passion. The trick is in learning to quiet the fear and listen to the possibilities.”
“The mind is incredibly powerful. Through visualization and repetition, we can literally rewire our thinking and create new pathways for success.”
“Affirmations work because they are the seeds we plant in our mind’s garden. With time, they grow into the reality we live in.” No Cost Support Community for Women over 40 <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/">https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/</a> Video Podcast  <a href="https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts"> https://www.youtube.com/@successwithloraine/podcasts</a>
Merch: <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/merch/">https://successwithloraine.com/merch/</a>
HOST BIO 
Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020.  Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship.  She is currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation, including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

Master Your Mindset : Overcome Success Blocks

In this episode, Loraine delivers a step-by-step guide to dealing with debt, offering practical advice and strategies for managing debt and budgeting effectively. Drawing from her experience working in money advice at the Citizens Advice Bureau, Loraine introduces the PIES acronym (Prioritise, Income, Expenditure, Share) as a method to help individuals navigate their financial challenges. She discusses prioritizing expenses, increasing income through various means, identifying non-priority expenses, and sharing available income with creditors. Loraine also touches on coerced debts and the importance of seeking support from organizations like Surviving Economic Abuse and Citizens Advice Bureau. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Start by identifying and prioritizing your essential expenses such as rent, mortgage, utilities, and food allowance.


Explore various ways to boost your income, including claiming entitled benefits, checking tax codes, selling unused items, or renting out a spare room.


Create a budget and allocate available income to non-priority debts using a pro rata calculation to negotiate reduced payments with creditors.


If you've been coerced into financial agreements, seek assistance from organizations like Surviving Economic Abuse or Citizens Advice Bureau.


Consider joining a private support community like "Success with Lorraine" on Facebook for women aged 40+ to connect, heal, and grow from trauma to transformation.

BEST MOMENTS

"If you've got mortgage arrears or rent arrears and things, then you do really need to speak to a professional and seek help."

"Now, letters are the easiest form. Obviously, it keeps a record of everything that's going on."

"It's domestic abuse and more banks and credit card companies are becoming informed about this."

"So if you phone in or you're writing and you're in that situation of coerced debts, I would ask them if they have a vulnerable customer support."

Zero Cost, NO Commitment, Safe Space - https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/

Podcast Episode 1: https://youtu.be/Tqsl9bNB09w?si=HYKs2OUO9JT14QN4 
Three Ds in relationship endings: https://youtu.be/rruk-FzmLLU?si=XvB33_v6FPAkRVGR Will the real victim please stand up: https://youtu.be/nwNZN1JqD0k?si=DzscJ7lt8mU9Ow4X



HOST BIO

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.
A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

In this episode, Loraine delivers a step-by-step guide to dealing with debt, offering practical advice and strategies for managing debt and budgeting effectively. Drawing from her experience working in money advice at the Citizens Advice Bureau, Loraine introduces the PIES acronym (Prioritise, Income, Expenditure, Share) as a method to help individuals navigate their financial challenges. She discusses prioritizing expenses, increasing income through various means, identifying non-priority expenses, and sharing available income with creditors. Loraine also touches on coerced debts and the importance of seeking support from organizations like Surviving Economic Abuse and Citizens Advice Bureau. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
<ul>
<li>
Start by identifying and prioritizing your essential expenses such as rent, mortgage, utilities, and food allowance.
</li>
<li>
Explore various ways to boost your income, including claiming entitled benefits, checking tax codes, selling unused items, or renting out a spare room.
</li>
<li>
Create a budget and allocate available income to non-priority debts using a pro rata calculation to negotiate reduced payments with creditors.
</li>
<li>
If you've been coerced into financial agreements, seek assistance from organizations like Surviving Economic Abuse or Citizens Advice Bureau.
</li>
<li>
Consider joining a private support community like "Success with Lorraine" on Facebook for women aged 40+ to connect, heal, and grow from trauma to transformation.
</li>
</ul>
BEST MOMENTS
"If you've got mortgage arrears or rent arrears and things, then you do really need to speak to a professional and seek help."
"Now, letters are the easiest form. Obviously, it keeps a record of everything that's going on."
"It's domestic abuse and more banks and credit card companies are becoming informed about this."
"So if you phone in or you're writing and you're in that situation of coerced debts, I would ask them if they have a vulnerable customer support."
Zero Cost, NO Commitment, Safe Space - <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/">https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/</a> Podcast Episode 1: <a href="https://youtu.be/Tqsl9bNB09w?si=HYKs2OUO9JT14QN4">https://youtu.be/Tqsl9bNB09w?si=HYKs2OUO9JT14QN4 </a> Three Ds in relationship endings: https://youtu.be/rruk-FzmLLU?si=XvB33_v6FPAkRVGR Will the real victim please stand up: https://youtu.be/nwNZN1JqD0k?si=DzscJ7lt8mU9Ow4X
 
HOST BIO
Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 
Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 
Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

Dealing with Debt: A Step-by-Step Guide

Today, Loraine delves into the theme of healing the mind. Drawing inspiration from motivational speaker Bob Proctor and the book Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz, Loraine discusses the powerful practice of letter writing as a tool for releasing negative emotions and traumas. She explores the cathartic process of writing letters to express anger, resentment, shame, or guilt, and then burning them as a symbolic release. Loraine also introduces the concept of the burning bowl ceremony, shared by Randy Gage, as a ritual to transform negative memories into ashes. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS


The practice of letter writing and journaling, as well as the burning bowl ceremony, can be effective tools for healing past hurt, negative memories, and traumas.


Writing letters as a physical exercise to release anger and aggression, and then burning them, can help in processing and healing from negative emotions.


It is important to allow emotions to come to the surface during the writing process, even if it may be distressing, as it is part of the healing journey.


Repeating the exercise of writing letters on the same topic or situation at least four times can aid in processing and releasing the negative memory.


The burning bowl ceremony, introduced as a ritual by Randy Gage, can be a symbolic way to release negative emotions and turn them into ashes, promoting healing and transformation.

BEST MOMENTS

"Vent your spleen in writing. Write a letter to the person who has frustrated or angered you. Pull out all the stops. Leave nothing to the imagination. Then burn the letter."

"I've used this practice on a number of occasions throughout my life journey, and I actually wrote about this in my first self-published book."

"You might actually experience tears or there might be a feeling of anxiety or fear arise or even anger. But this is all part of the healing process."

"I have created a no-cost, zero-commitment support group for women aged 40 plus. A safe space for women to connect, heal and grow."

Free Group - https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ 

Merch - https://successwithloraine.com/merch/




HOST BIO

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.
A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

Today, Loraine delves into the theme of healing the mind. Drawing inspiration from motivational speaker Bob Proctor and the book Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz, Loraine discusses the powerful practice of letter writing as a tool for releasing negative emotions and traumas. She explores the cathartic process of writing letters to express anger, resentment, shame, or guilt, and then burning them as a symbolic release. Loraine also introduces the concept of the burning bowl ceremony, shared by Randy Gage, as a ritual to transform negative memories into ashes. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
<ul>
<li>
The practice of letter writing and journaling, as well as the burning bowl ceremony, can be effective tools for healing past hurt, negative memories, and traumas.
</li>
<li>
Writing letters as a physical exercise to release anger and aggression, and then burning them, can help in processing and healing from negative emotions.
</li>
<li>
It is important to allow emotions to come to the surface during the writing process, even if it may be distressing, as it is part of the healing journey.
</li>
<li>
Repeating the exercise of writing letters on the same topic or situation at least four times can aid in processing and releasing the negative memory.
</li>
<li>
The burning bowl ceremony, introduced as a ritual by Randy Gage, can be a symbolic way to release negative emotions and turn them into ashes, promoting healing and transformation.
</li>
</ul>
BEST MOMENTS
"Vent your spleen in writing. Write a letter to the person who has frustrated or angered you. Pull out all the stops. Leave nothing to the imagination. Then burn the letter."
"I've used this practice on a number of occasions throughout my life journey, and I actually wrote about this in my first self-published book."
"You might actually experience tears or there might be a feeling of anxiety or fear arise or even anger. But this is all part of the healing process."
"I have created a no-cost, zero-commitment support group for women aged 40 plus. A safe space for women to connect, heal and grow." Free Group - <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/">https://successwithloraine.com/free-group/ </a> Merch - <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/merch/">https://successwithloraine.com/merch/</a> 
 
HOST BIO
Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 
Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 
Currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation including the threat of precarious eviction by a former partner.

Healing Negative Memories Through Writing

In this episode Loraine reflects on the tumultuous events that unfolded in her life over the past four years, particularly focusing on the abrupt termination of a toxic relationship in August 2020. She candidly shares her experiences of emotional and psychological abuse, coercive control, and narcissistic behaviour that she was unaware of during the relationship. Loraine recounts the intense emotions she felt during the breakup, the challenges she faced post-relationship, and the legal battles that ensued, including a criminal case for defamation and damages.

KEY TAKEAWAYS


Loraine experienced a toxic and abusive relationship that lasted for 11 years before abruptly ending in August 2020.


She struggled with emotional and psychological abuse, coercive control, and narcissistic abuse during the relationship.


After the relationship ended, Loraine wrote a book under a pen name to protect the identities of those involved and is now considering relaunching it.


Loraine has faced legal challenges, including a civil court case for precarious eviction and a criminal case for defamation and damages.


Despite the challenges, Loraine remains resilient, continuing to create content for their channels, rewrite their first book, and work on a sequel.

BEST MOMENTS

"I had no idea how that relationship had been toxic and one where there were many ups and downs." 

"I couldn't see any transformation from where I was. And I wanted to find out what had happened."

I found myself in Spain precarious in September of 2020 when he left with all of these future faking false promises."

HOST BIO

Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author.
A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 

Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 

She is currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation, including the threats of precarious eviction and prison by a former partner.

Hoping for an acquittal when the criminal case goes to the next hearing. 

Podcast: https://successwithloraine.com/podcast-2/
Amazon Merch: https://successwithloraine.com/merch/
Buy Me A Coffee: https://buymeacoffee.com/successwithl...
Learn Digital Marketing: https://successwithloraine.com/ips/

In this episode Loraine reflects on the tumultuous events that unfolded in her life over the past four years, particularly focusing on the abrupt termination of a toxic relationship in August 2020. She candidly shares her experiences of emotional and psychological abuse, coercive control, and narcissistic behaviour that she was unaware of during the relationship. Loraine recounts the intense emotions she felt during the breakup, the challenges she faced post-relationship, and the legal battles that ensued, including a criminal case for defamation and damages.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
<ul>
<li>
Loraine experienced a toxic and abusive relationship that lasted for 11 years before abruptly ending in August 2020.
</li>
<li>
She struggled with emotional and psychological abuse, coercive control, and narcissistic abuse during the relationship.
</li>
<li>
After the relationship ended, Loraine wrote a book under a pen name to protect the identities of those involved and is now considering relaunching it.
</li>
<li>
Loraine has faced legal challenges, including a civil court case for precarious eviction and a criminal case for defamation and damages.
</li>
<li>
Despite the challenges, Loraine remains resilient, continuing to create content for their channels, rewrite their first book, and work on a sequel.
</li>
</ul>
BEST MOMENTS
"I had no idea how that relationship had been toxic and one where there were many ups and downs." 
"I couldn't see any transformation from where I was. And I wanted to find out what had happened."
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HOST BIO
Loraine is a blogger, digital creator, and author. A former Property Management business owner spent a decade in HMO and family rentals before moving to Spain in 2016 with dreams of becoming fully retired and living in Spain with her partner, but that dream shattered in September 2020. 
Loraine explains how she has now experienced the three D's in relationship endings. Divorce, death of a partner and now discard, the abrupt termination of a relationship. 
She is currently working on rebuilding her life whilst living with three overlapping litigations post-separation, including the threats of precarious eviction and prison by a former partner. Hoping for an acquittal when the criminal case goes to the next hearing.  Podcast: <a href="https://successwithloraine.com/podcast-2/">https://successwithloraine.com/podcast-2/</a> Amazon Merch: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbkhKOV9pS3QxSnVPUi1lZ2ZTNnc3MHVmak1CQXxBQ3Jtc0tua0pnRmhEcG9xOFhFejFRS2kzUzRYV3ZsMFlheXE4MTNCOGVqelJZZXZ0b1NfSlQtcGVieXpLdkQ5OUxKeC03eGVMVGx6VHpGMUstQjFtUjlWcGF6clJMX0xLYTYtTFlYZ0NFZklLZ0RnRGRWN1pXaw&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fsuccesswithloraine.com%2Fmerch%2F&amp;v=rigqspuuQfE">https://successwithloraine.com/merch/</a> Buy Me A Coffee: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbHd5ZlNJMmN1Ql9OOERMd0E4LVU2YkxtMzNKQXxBQ3Jtc0ttSUN6Q3F3TGVpc3hmdU15dkREWHVIRXh3QjJadWpfSS03bjNxLVV5UkFvRkhaeTZYYk5VOE5NR1pGTjdrNU83M1R6Y0h5MmdWMm5FWjZYS0NPMF9LZUQyLUY5TFh4cWt3UFJGQmFsMl9BWXlpZlRpUQ&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fbuymeacoffee.com%2Fsuccesswithloraine&amp;v=rigqspuuQfE">https://buymeacoffee.com/successwithl...</a> Learn Digital Marketing: <a href="https://www.youtube.com/redirect?event=video_description&amp;redir_token=QUFFLUhqbDBhdjhZcDJrR0JPRmRvMElyS2dJZTU1UXBHd3xBQ3Jtc0tuU0RlYzRCdThnUndvX3BYeUZ4N0JsZFBJWXB5NzRtVTlDTnpITThrWE5QaUh2MDNFUmxrOU1xQ2hQNVRMMkJUWDZxeHBqVTRkaVJQYkpDZFZLc3YxMUF4dlB0M0JMQm04LWRtY1pVRDAydy04MDlrYw&amp;q=https%3A%2F%2Fsuccesswithloraine.com%2Fips%2F&amp;v=rigqspuuQfE">https://successwithloraine.com/ips/</a>

From Victim to Survivor: Overcoming Narcissistic Abuse

Mindset, Money, Success is a Podcast aimed at discovering what it takes to be successful. I believe that you can’t become successful unless you have the right mindset. What do you think? I will be talking with entrepreneurs to discover their secrets to success. First up chatting to Single, Sexy, and Successful Women. I also want to raise awareness of experiences of adversity and how these can impact individuals. My story covers the three Ds in relationship endings check out my Bio I’m a self-published author and survivor of hidden emotional abuse that was revealed to me post-separation. If money was not a concern, I would buy a home and run a retreat to help women in recovery from trauma after any of the three Ds in relationship endings. 

Mindset, Money, Success is a Podcast aimed at discovering what it takes to be successful. I believe that you can’t become successful unless you have the right mindset. What do you think? I will be talking with entrepreneurs to discover their secrets to success. First up chatting to Single, Sexy, and Successful Women. I also want to raise awareness of experiences of adversity and how these can impact individuals. My story covers the three Ds in relationship endings check out my Bio I’m a self-published author and survivor of hidden emotional abuse that was revealed to me post-separation. If money was not a concern, I would buy a home and run a retreat to help women in recovery from trauma after any of the three Ds in relationship endings.

Mindset Money Success

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