

The Year I Decided I’d Never Divorce My Husband
Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beducate.me/shan2026 —————— In this episode of Lovers, Jared and I sit down on vacation for a conversation we’ve never had this honestly before. This is our s…

I Spent Years Forcing Relationships… Here’s What I Learned ft. Affion Crockett
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The Secret to Attracting a Husband, Not Just a Boyfriend ft. Kamie Crawford
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I Thought I Wanted to Be a Trad Wife… I Was Wrong ft. Lisa Bilyeu
Thanks to Cozy Earth for sponsoring this episode. Go to cozyearth.com/LOVERS for up to 20% off! Sex Is a Skill. Beducated is where you learn it. Join the world's largest sex school and access 150+ courses for curious adults: https://beducate.me/lovers. — In this episode of Lovers, I sit down w…

Why “Normal” Sex Doesn’t Work for Many Black and Brown Women Ft. Aida Mariam Davis
Get $200 off your Tonal purchase! Get a complete gym + a trainer in your home by going to http://tonal.com, then use promo code LOVERS for that big discount. — In this episode of Lovers, I’m joined by Aida Mariam Davis, author of Kindred Creation: Parables and Paradigms for Freedom, to explore one…

What Men Actually Think About Before They Propose ft. Mark Manson
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Are You Nicer to Strangers Than Your Partner ft. DeWanda Wise
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What If You Never Meet the One ft. Melyssa Ford
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Can Intimacy Survive Porn, Drinks and Phone Addictions? ft. Dr Anna Lembke
Thanks to Cozy Earth for sponsoring this video. Go to cozyearth.com/LOVERS for up to 20% off! —----------------------- In this episode of Lovers, I share something personal: the ways my own social media habit began affecting my presence, my focus, and ultimately my intimacy. Jared joins the conve…

Bonus: Are You Actually Friends With Your Lover ft Jerrie Johnson and Dria Brown
Surprise, lovers! We’ve got a bonus episode for you. We actually had to record this one twice after the first taping ran into video transfer issues, but the amazing audio survived and we’re excited to finally share it. What you’re about to hear is the original, unedited conversation with Jerrie Joh…