This week, the Good Moms are joined by Deante' Kyle, creator and host of the Grits & Eggs Podcast, for a conversation that challenges everything we think we know about masculinity, patriarchy, fatherhood, accountability, and modern relationships.

From breaking down why "red pill" content has taken over the internet to discussing why boys are often deprived of affection, Deante offers a perspective that is thoughtful, funny, and guaranteed to spark conversation. The group dives into gender roles, religion, power, emotional intimacy, and what it really means to raise emotionally healthy men in today's world.

In this episode, you can expect to hear:

 
Why Deante believes patriarchy hurts men just as much as women
A powerful conversation about fatherhood, emotional intimacy, and raising boys
Why accountability feels so rare in modern relationships and society
Religion, power, and the stories we've inherited about gender roles
Red pill culture, dating discourse, and why outrage keeps winning online
The surprising connection between affection, masculinity, and how men learn to love
Trigger: rapid-fire takes on feminism, religion, fatherhood, accountability, and more
Bad Choice of the Week: relationship dilemmas, parenting questions, and navigating difficult conversations

This episode doesn't aim to settle the debate—it invites one. Tune in for an honest, nuanced conversation about modern masculinity, healthy relationships, parenting, and the cultural narratives shaping the way men and women relate to each other.

Watch this episode and more on YouTube.

Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.

Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.

 

Watch this episode and more on YouTube.

Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.

Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.

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🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

Connect with us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@MILAH_MAPP

 

This week, the Good Moms are joined by Deante' Kyle, creator and host of the Grits &amp; Eggs Podcast, for a conversation that challenges everything we think we know about masculinity, patriarchy, fatherhood, accountability, and modern relationships.
From breaking down why "red pill" content has taken over the internet to discussing why boys are often deprived of affection, Deante offers a perspective that is thoughtful, funny, and guaranteed to spark conversation. The group dives into gender roles, religion, power, emotional intimacy, and what it really means to raise emotionally healthy men in today's world.
In this episode, you can expect to hear:
&nbsp;
<ul>
<li>Why Deante believes patriarchy hurts men just as much as women</li>
<li>A powerful conversation about fatherhood, emotional intimacy, and raising boys</li>
<li>Why accountability feels so rare in modern relationships and society</li>
<li>Religion, power, and the stories we've inherited about gender roles</li>
<li>Red pill culture, dating discourse, and why outrage keeps winning online</li>
<li>The surprising connection between affection, masculinity, and how men learn to love</li>
<li>Trigger: rapid-fire takes on feminism, religion, fatherhood, accountability, and more</li>
<li>Bad Choice of the Week: relationship dilemmas, parenting questions, and navigating difficult conversations</li>
</ul>
This episode doesn't aim to settle the debate&mdash;it invites one. Tune in for an honest, nuanced conversation about modern masculinity, healthy relationships, parenting, and the cultural narratives shaping the way men and women relate to each other.
Watch this episode and more on YouTube.
Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.
Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@goodmoms_badchoices">Watch this episode and more on YouTube.</a>
<a href="https://www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices">Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.</a>
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/goodmomsbadchoices/">Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.</a>
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<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343#about-this-trip">Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip">🇨🇷 Costa Rica &ndash; July 24&ndash;29: Reset and Vibe</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip">Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.</a>
Connect with us:
<a href="http://instagram.com/GOODMOMS_BADCHOICES">@GoodMoms_BadChoices</a>
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<a href="http://instagram.com/WATCHERICA">@WatchErica</a>
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&nbsp;

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!

Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices

Watch our episodes on Youtube
For bonus content ---> www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too! New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe! Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices Watch our episodes on Youtube For bonus content ---&gt; www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

Warning: This is not your everyday mommy Podcast. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. If Oprah & Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices.

Good Moms Bad Choices

The Patriarchy is Failing Men Ft. Deante Kyle

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This week, the Good Moms sit down with creator and liberated baddie, Via, for a raw, hilarious, and deeply healing convo on pick-me culture, sex work, motherhood, and becoming the main character in your own life.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:
How Via went from “pick-me” dating advice to empowering women online
The connection between trauma, sex work, and calling dissociation “empowerment”
Why leaving a mentally abusive relationship unlocked her feminine rage
How acupuncture + somatic therapy changed everything!
The truth about performative sex, porn, and what she actually wants now
Why safe female friendships can feel more protective than a man
Reparenting yourself while parenting your child
Via in the Trigger hot seat plus a very on-brand “bad choice” at the spa

 

Via opens up about growing up without much guidance, entering sex work at 20, and how her journey helped her walk away from toxic love, reparent herself, and choose herself for the first time. The ladies get into safety, patriarchy, friendship, pussy power, and why sometimes your whole life changes after one needle and one breakup. Tune in to hear how this week’s tarot card pull (hello, Nine of Pentacles) affirms the entire conversation!

This week, the Good Moms sit down with creator and liberated baddie, Via, for a raw, hilarious, and deeply healing convo on pick-me culture, sex work, motherhood, and becoming the main character in your own life.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll hear:
<ul>
<li>How Via went from &ldquo;pick-me&rdquo; dating advice to empowering women online</li>
<li>The connection between trauma, sex work, and calling dissociation &ldquo;empowerment&rdquo;</li>
<li>Why leaving a mentally abusive relationship unlocked her feminine rage</li>
<li>How acupuncture + somatic therapy changed everything!</li>
<li>The truth about performative sex, porn, and what she actually wants now</li>
<li>Why safe female friendships can feel more protective than a man</li>
<li>Reparenting yourself while parenting your child</li>
<li>Via in the Trigger hot seat plus a very on-brand &ldquo;bad choice&rdquo; at the spa</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
Via opens up about growing up without much guidance, entering sex work at 20, and how her journey helped her walk away from toxic love, reparent herself, and choose herself for the first time. The ladies get into safety, patriarchy, friendship, pussy power, and why sometimes your whole life changes after one needle and one breakup. Tune in to hear how this week&rsquo;s tarot card pull (hello, Nine of Pentacles) affirms the entire conversation!

I Used To Be A Pick-Me Ft. Via

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Happy hump day, Tribe! This week, the Good Moms are asking a different kind of question: Are we over-inspired, under-nourished, and done settling for dusty men and outdated rules?

The moms also open up about parents, politics, and generational disconnect... from Fox News grandmas and Spencer Pratt on the ballot to dads who “don’t see color” but listen to Kevin Samuels. They talk about realizing your parents might be emotionally stuck in another era, and how to break those patterns with your own kids.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:
Why so many women are choosing celibacy or simply refusing to settle
How patriarchy, whiteness, and slavery shaped the emotional lives of Black men
The impact of porn, social media, and constant scrolling on real intimacy
Voting chaos, political confusion, and realizing most people never question the rules
Parenting preteens, talking about crushes, and not repeating our parents’ mistakes
Feeling “over-inspired and under-nourished” by the internet and seeking solitude
How to create a self-pleasure ritual that supports orgasm, not just fast release
The connection between orgasm, God, trauma release, and real spiritual healing

 

This episode is for women in their “I’m overwhelmed but still evolving” era who are questioning dusty dating norms, unpacking generational bullshit, craving real connection (with themselves, their kids, and their pleasure), and feel over-stimulated by the internet but deeply ready to choose softness, safety, and self-devotion instead.

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Watch this episode and more on YouTube.

 

Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.

 

Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.

---------------------------------------------

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🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈

https://theplay.la/apply/

 

Connect with us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@MILAH_MAPP

Happy hump day, Tribe! This week, the Good Moms are asking a different kind of question: Are we over-inspired, under-nourished, and done settling for dusty men and outdated rules?
The moms also open up about parents, politics, and generational disconnect... from Fox News grandmas and Spencer Pratt on the ballot to dads who &ldquo;don&rsquo;t see color&rdquo; but listen to Kevin Samuels. They talk about realizing your parents might be emotionally stuck in another era, and how to break those patterns with your own kids.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll hear:
<ul>
<li>Why so many women are choosing celibacy or simply refusing to settle</li>
<li>How patriarchy, whiteness, and slavery shaped the emotional lives of Black men</li>
<li>The impact of porn, social media, and constant scrolling on real intimacy</li>
<li>Voting chaos, political confusion, and realizing most people never question the rules</li>
<li>Parenting preteens, talking about crushes, and not repeating our parents&rsquo; mistakes</li>
<li>Feeling &ldquo;over-inspired and under-nourished&rdquo; by the internet and seeking solitude</li>
<li>How to create a self-pleasure ritual that supports orgasm, not just fast release</li>
<li>The connection between orgasm, God, trauma release, and real spiritual healing</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
This episode is for women in their &ldquo;I&rsquo;m overwhelmed but still evolving&rdquo; era who are questioning dusty dating norms, unpacking generational bullshit, craving real connection (with themselves, their kids, and their pleasure), and feel over-stimulated by the internet but deeply ready to choose softness, safety, and self-devotion instead.
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&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices">Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.</a>
&nbsp;
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&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343#about-this-trip">🇨🇷 Costa Rica &ndash; July 14&ndash;19: Mommy and Me Retreat</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343#about-this-trip">Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip">🇨🇷 Costa Rica &ndash; July 24&ndash;29: Reset and Vibe</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip">Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.</a>
Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈
<a href="https://theplay.la/apply/">https://theplay.la/apply/</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with us:
<a href="http://instagram.com/GOODMOMS_BADCHOICES">@GoodMoms_BadChoices</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/THEGOODVIBERETREAT">@TheGoodVibeRetreat</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/GOOD.GOODMEDIA">@Good.GoodMedia</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/WATCHERICA">@WatchErica</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/MILAH_MAPP">@MILAH_MAPP</a>

Pussy Healing in the Patriarchy

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This week, the Good Moms are asking a very important question: Are you a lesbian for real?

 

Erica and Milah get into everything from Daphne Joy’s leaked sex tape to bisexual flirting, Milah’s affinity for soft studs, and why women seem to get crucified forever for choices they made years ago. The moms unpack the internet’s obsession with tearing down beautiful women, why society gives men a pass while women become cautionary tales, and whether technology has made public humiliation a form of entertainment. The ladies also talk about how to navigate having conversations with your kids about Pride and all things LGBTQ+, and their own queer escapades.

 

In this episode, you’ll hear:

• Why people seem to love watching beautiful women fall from grace

• The double standards facing women like Nia Long, Vivica Fox, and Daphne Joy

• Why drugs, bad decisions, or messy relationships never justify exploitation

• The risks and realities of filming sex tapes, sending nudes, and navigating intimacy in the digital age

• A conversation about "high value" men, baby mama stigma, and why every woman deserves dignity regardless of her relationship status

• Milah's latest encounter with a soft stud and why flirting with women can be harder than flirting with men

• Why Erica might be gay... until the real lesbians show up

• Why the Good Moms proudly identify as toxic bi's

• Chavaunist pillow princess jealous bisexuals

• Talking to kids about Pride and all things LGBTQ. When do you do it? 

 

Bad Choice of the Week: When a hookup (or lack thereof) with a podcast guest doesn't exactly go according to plan.

 

Tune in for a hilarious and honest conversation about sexuality, public judgment, internet pile-ons, old Hollywood, modern dating, and why women deserve more grace than the internet is willing to give them.

---------------------------------------------

Watch this episode and more on YouTube.

 

Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.

 

Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.

---------------------------------------------

JOIN US ON OUR NEXT GOOD VIBE RETREAT!!

 

Limited time discount on our Good Vibes Retreat when you use promo code "GOODMOMS"

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 14–19: Mommy and Me Retreat

Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.

 

🇨🇷 Costa Rica – July 24–29: Reset and Vibe

Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.

 

Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈

https://theplay.la/apply/

 

Connect with us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@MILAH_MAPP

This week, the Good Moms are asking a very important question: Are you a lesbian for real?
&nbsp;
Erica and Milah get into everything from Daphne Joy&rsquo;s leaked sex tape to bisexual flirting, Milah&rsquo;s affinity for soft studs, and why women seem to get crucified forever for choices they made years ago. The moms unpack the internet&rsquo;s obsession with tearing down beautiful women, why society gives men a pass while women become cautionary tales, and whether technology has made public humiliation a form of entertainment. The ladies also talk about how to navigate having conversations with your kids about Pride and all things LGBTQ+, and their own queer escapades.
&nbsp;
In this episode, you&rsquo;ll hear:
&bull; Why people seem to love watching beautiful women fall from grace
&bull; The double standards facing women like Nia Long, Vivica Fox, and Daphne Joy
&bull; Why drugs, bad decisions, or messy relationships never justify exploitation
&bull; The risks and realities of filming sex tapes, sending nudes, and navigating intimacy in the digital age
&bull; A conversation about "high value" men, baby mama stigma, and why every woman deserves dignity regardless of her relationship status
&bull; Milah's latest encounter with a soft stud and why flirting with women can be harder than flirting with men
&bull; Why Erica might be gay... until the real lesbians show up
&bull; Why the Good Moms proudly identify as toxic bi's
&bull; Chavaunist pillow princess jealous bisexuals
&bull; Talking to kids about Pride and all things LGBTQ. When do you do it?&nbsp;
&nbsp;
Bad Choice of the Week: When a hookup (or lack thereof) with a podcast guest doesn't exactly go according to plan.
&nbsp;
Tune in for a hilarious and honest conversation about sexuality, public judgment, internet pile-ons, old Hollywood, modern dating, and why women deserve more grace than the internet is willing to give them.
---------------------------------------------
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@goodmoms_badchoices" data-airgap-id="5">Watch this episode and more on YouTube.</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices" data-airgap-id="6">Come vibe with us on Patreon for full visual episodes, bonus content, and early releases.</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/goodmomsbadchoices/" data-airgap-id="7">Join our private Facebook group and drop your anonymous advice questions, secrets, or mom vents.</a>
---------------------------------------------
JOIN US ON OUR NEXT GOOD VIBE RETREAT!!
&nbsp;
Limited time discount on our Good Vibes Retreat when you use promo code "GOODMOMS"
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343#about-this-trip" data-airgap-id="8">🇨🇷 Costa Rica &ndash; July 14&ndash;19: Mommy and Me Retreat</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343#about-this-trip" data-airgap-id="9">Six days to slow down, tap in with your baby, and actually enjoy each other.</a>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip" data-airgap-id="10">🇨🇷 Costa Rica &ndash; July 24&ndash;29: Reset and Vibe</a>
<a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/reset-vibe-costa-rica-good-vibe-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-87712751#about-this-trip" data-airgap-id="11">Six days and five nights of releasing, recharging, and remembering who the hell you are with like minded women.</a>
&nbsp;
Apply for "The Play" Matrix Juneteenth Play Party , June 19th, 2026 in LA hosted by Milah celebrate a night of freedom with pleasure and play 😈
<a href="https://theplay.la/apply/" data-airgap-id="12">https://theplay.la/apply/</a>
&nbsp;
Connect with us:
<a href="http://instagram.com/GOODMOMS_BADCHOICES" data-airgap-id="13">@GoodMoms_BadChoices</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/THEGOODVIBERETREAT" data-airgap-id="14">@TheGoodVibeRetreat</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/GOOD.GOODMEDIA" data-airgap-id="15">@Good.GoodMedia</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/WATCHERICA" data-airgap-id="16">@WatchErica</a>
<a href="http://instagram.com/MILAH_MAPP" data-airgap-id="17">@MILAH_MAPP</a>

Good Mom's be Gay(ish)

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