Can a toxic ex leave you physically itchy?

In this episode of Good Moms talk about energy transfer, "spiritually transmitted demons", and what it takes to reinvent yourself when the old version of you no longer fits. From de-centering men (and why that conversation is misunderstood) to centering yourself in a way that finally feels grounding, the girls unpack how survival identities can overstay their welcome.

The girls talk honestly about watching close friends finally leave relationships that no longer serve them, how one big decision can completely change your timeline, and why telling your friends the truth (even when it’s uncomfortable) can be an act of love.Erica shares a vulnerable mushroom realization that made her understand why an old, hyper-guarded version of herself needed to be laid to rest, not erased, not shamed, but honored and released.

Growth is messy, honesty matters, and sometimes the bravest thing you can do is let go of what once kept you safe.

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April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica 

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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Can a toxic ex leave you physically itchy?
In this episode of Good Moms talk about energy transfer, "spiritually transmitted demons", and what it takes to reinvent yourself when the old version of you no longer fits. From de-centering men (and why that conversation is misunderstood) to centering yourself in a way that finally feels grounding, the girls unpack how survival identities can overstay their welcome.
The girls talk honestly about watching close friends finally leave relationships that no longer serve them, how one big decision can completely change your timeline, and why telling your friends the truth (even when it&rsquo;s uncomfortable) can be an act of love.Erica shares a vulnerable mushroom realization that made her understand why an old, hyper-guarded version of herself needed to be laid to rest, not erased, not shamed, but honored and released.
Growth is messy, honesty matters, and sometimes the bravest thing you can do is let go of what once kept you safe.
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<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@goodmoms_badchoices">Watch This episode &amp; more on YouTube!&nbsp;</a>
Connect With Us:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/goodmoms_badchoices/?hl=en">@GoodMoms_BadChoices</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thegoodviberetreat/">@TheGoodVibeRetreat</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/good.goodmedia/?hl=en">@Good.GoodMedia</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/watcherica/?hl=en">@WatchErica</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/milah_mapp/">@Milah_Mapp</a>
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April 17th- April 22nd - <a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/flower-goddess-retreat-jamaica-the-good-vibe-retreat-90705231">Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat</a> 
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
🇨🇷&nbsp;COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots)&nbsp;
July 14th- July 19th - <a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343">Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica </a>
Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy &amp; Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!
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If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too!

New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe!

Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices

Watch our episodes on Youtube
For bonus content ---> www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

If Oprah and Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. Warning, this is not your everyday mommy Podcast! This audio diary is not only for parents but women who feel alone in their good and bad choices. Prepare to laugh, cry, and be inspired. Fellas, you’re invited too! New episodes drop every Wednesday. Welcome to the Tribe! Instagram: @goodmoms_badchoices Watch our episodes on Youtube For bonus content ---&gt; www.patreon.com/goodmomsbadchoices

Warning: This is not your everyday mommy Podcast. Meet Erica and Milah, two uncensored sex and cannabis-positive parents who are redefining what modern motherhood looks like. If Oprah & Howard Stern had a baby it would be Good Moms Bad Choices.

Good Moms Bad Choices

Spiritual STD's and Jumping Timelines

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This week, Good Moms return from a surprise elopement weekend in Las Vegas that included mob wives fits, drunk zip-lining, stripper heels at the altar, joint bachelor/bachelorette shenanigans, and decisions that absolutely lived up to the podcast name! 

This is your reminder that being authentic does pay off! Cheers to Milah & Orlando! The Tribe loves you both very much! 

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This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be. 

Watch This episode & more on YouTube! 

Connect With Us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@Milah_Mapp

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat 

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica 

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

This week, Good Moms return from a surprise elopement weekend in Las Vegas that included mob wives fits, drunk zip-lining, stripper heels at the altar, joint bachelor/bachelorette shenanigans, and decisions that absolutely lived up to the podcast name!&nbsp;
This is your reminder that being authentic does pay off! Cheers to Milah &amp; Orlando! The Tribe loves you both very much!&nbsp;
----------
This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you&rsquo;re supposed to be.&nbsp;
Watch This episode &amp; more on YouTube!&nbsp;
Connect With Us:
@GoodMoms_BadChoices
@TheGoodVibeRetreat
@Good.GoodMedia
@WatchErica
@Milah_Mapp
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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)
April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat&nbsp;
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (4 LEFT- added spots)&nbsp;
July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica&nbsp;
Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy &amp; Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

From Hoe to Housewife: Milah Gets Married 

https://api.omny.fm/orgs/e73c998e-6e60-432f-8610-ae210140c5b1/clips/2a0f0468-51b9-448a-8775-b3d200de69d1/transcript

Happy New Year Tribe, 

Erica and Milah are happy to be back but are easing into the new year! The ladies chat about Milah's bachelorette party and how she's "retiring" from lesbianism (for now), insecurity vs. preference, UN-learning saving people, and why sometimes you just want snacks and molly water lol. 

In this episode, you can expect to hear:
Why January doesn’t need to be about grinding, optimizing, or reinventing yourself and how slowing down can actually be the most aligned choice
Are mirrors, selfies, and self surveillance aging us faster?
How Milah and Orlando are going to celebrate their Bachelor/ Bachelorette
What it means to be “too healed to hoe,” and how sexual freedom can evolve without shame
Letting go of the savior complex and learning that not everyone is yours to rescue
Why guilt shows up when you rest and how to release it without explaining yourself
Trusting your body, intuition, and nervous system over social pressure and internet noise

This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you’re supposed to be. 

Watch This episode & more on YouTube! 

Connect With Us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@Milah_Mapp

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (3 LEFT) 

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica 

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

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PATREON

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Happy New Year Tribe,&nbsp;
Erica and Milah are happy to be back but are easing into the new year! The ladies chat about Milah's bachelorette party and how she's "retiring" from lesbianism (for now), insecurity vs. preference, UN-learning saving people, and why sometimes you just want snacks and molly water lol.&nbsp;
In this episode, you can expect to hear:
<ul>
<li>Why January doesn&rsquo;t need to be about grinding, optimizing, or reinventing yourself and how slowing down can actually be the most aligned choice</li>
<li>Are mirrors, selfies, and self surveillance aging us faster?</li>
<li>How Milah and Orlando are going to celebrate their Bachelor/ Bachelorette</li>
<li>What it means to be &ldquo;too healed to hoe,&rdquo; and how sexual freedom can evolve without shame</li>
<li>Letting go of the savior complex and learning that not everyone is yours to rescue</li>
<li>Why guilt shows up when you rest and how to release it without explaining yourself</li>
<li>Trusting your body, intuition, and nervous system over social pressure and internet noise</li>
</ul>
This is your reminder to honor who you are now, not who you think you&rsquo;re supposed to be.&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@goodmoms_badchoices">Watch This episode &amp; more on YouTube!&nbsp;</a>
Connect With Us:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/goodmoms_badchoices/?hl=en">@GoodMoms_BadChoices</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thegoodviberetreat/">@TheGoodVibeRetreat</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/good.goodmedia/?hl=en">@Good.GoodMedia</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/watcherica/?hl=en">@WatchErica</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/milah_mapp/">@Milah_Mapp</a>
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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (Sold Out)
April 17th- April 22nd - <a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/flower-goddess-retreat-jamaica-the-good-vibe-retreat-90705231">Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat</a> 
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
🇨🇷&nbsp;COSTA RICA 🇨🇷 (3 LEFT)&nbsp;
July 14th- July 19th - <a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343">Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica </a>
Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy &amp; Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!
------------------------------------------
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Too Healed to Hoe

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Happy holidays tribe!

In the last episode of the year, Good Moms reflect on what they will and won't carry with them into 2026, how doom-scrolling quietly messes with your mood, and why anxiety can show up even when life is “fine.” They open up about guilt of doing well while the world feels heavy, parenting in a hyper-digital world, and admitting you don’t actually have it all figured out! 

In this episode you can expect to hear: 
Erica’s pool-side Bali experience with a woman wearing a MAGA hat and how it reminded her to protect your energy
Taking your children’s phone away, opening an honest conversation about technology, trust, safety, and how childhood conditioning influences parenting decisions.
Erica and Milah talk about feeling stretched thin while trying to show up for work, kids, partners, family, and friendships and realizing that spreading energy everywhere isn’t sustainable.
Why you need to go further in your boldness
How Good Vibes retreat has cultivated real community and lasting friendships
Intuition, mushrooms, listening to the body, and discerning what information and energy to trust.
Relying less on the internet and more on inner knowing.
The episode closes with intentions around release, presence, and entering the next chapter with clearer boundaries, stronger discernment, and a commitment to boldness.

 

Watch This episode & more on YouTube! 

Connect With Us:

@GoodMoms_BadChoices

@TheGoodVibeRetreat

@Good.GoodMedia

@WatchErica

@Milah_Mapp

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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (1 more spots left) 

April 17th- April 22nd - Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat

Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.

🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷

July 14th- July 19th - Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica 

Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy & Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!

------------------------------------------

PATREON

Catch up with us over at Patreon and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content & early episode releases. Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously!

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Happy holidays tribe!
In the last episode of the year, Good Moms reflect on what they will and won't carry with them into 2026, how doom-scrolling quietly messes with your mood, and why anxiety can show up even when life is &ldquo;fine.&rdquo; They open up about guilt of doing well while the world feels heavy, parenting in a hyper-digital world, and admitting you don&rsquo;t actually have it all figured out!&nbsp;
In this episode you can expect to hear:&nbsp;
<ul>
<li>Erica&rsquo;s pool-side Bali experience with a woman wearing a MAGA hat and how it reminded her to protect your energy</li>
<li>Taking your children&rsquo;s phone away, opening an honest conversation about technology, trust, safety, and how childhood conditioning influences parenting decisions.</li>
<li>Erica and Milah talk about feeling stretched thin while trying to show up for work, kids, partners, family, and friendships and realizing that spreading energy everywhere isn&rsquo;t sustainable.</li>
<li>Why you need to go further in your boldness</li>
<li>How Good Vibes retreat has cultivated real community and lasting friendships</li>
<li>Intuition, mushrooms, listening to the body, and discerning what information and energy to trust.</li>
<li>Relying less on the internet and more on inner knowing.</li>
<li>The episode closes with intentions around release, presence, and entering the next chapter with clearer boundaries, stronger discernment, and a commitment to boldness.</li>
</ul>
&nbsp;
<a href="https://www.youtube.com/@goodmoms_badchoices">Watch This episode &amp; more on YouTube!&nbsp;</a>
Connect With Us:
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/goodmoms_badchoices/?hl=en">@GoodMoms_BadChoices</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/thegoodviberetreat/">@TheGoodVibeRetreat</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/good.goodmedia/?hl=en">@Good.GoodMedia</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/watcherica/?hl=en">@WatchErica</a>
<a href="https://www.instagram.com/milah_mapp/">@Milah_Mapp</a>
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🇯🇲 JAMAICA 🇯🇲 (1 more spots left) 
April 17th- April 22nd - <a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/flower-goddess-retreat-jamaica-the-good-vibe-retreat-90705231">Jamaica, Ganja Goddess Retreat</a> 
Whether you're seeking relaxation, adventure, or simply a sexy fun time, the Ganja Goddess Retreat promises an unforgettable experience of empowerment and sisterhood. Join us as we celebrate femininity, wellness, and the magic of Jamaica's natural splendor at the Ganja Goddess Retreat.
🇨🇷 COSTA RICA 🇨🇷
July 14th- July 19th - <a href="https://www.wetravel.com/trips/mommy-me-retreat-the-good-vibe-retreat-30183343">Mommy and Me Retreat in Costa Rica </a>
Come join us in Costa Rica for our first-ever Mommy &amp; Me Retreat! Six unforgettable days designed to help you and your child reconnect, slow down, and experience each other in a whole new way!!
------------------------------------------
<a href="https://www.patreon.com/GoodMomsBadChoices">PATREON</a>
Catch up with us over at&nbsp;<a href="https://www.patreon.com/GoodMomsBadChoices">Patreon</a>&nbsp;and get all our Full visual episodes, bonus content &amp; early episode releases. Submit your advice questions, anonymous secrets or vent about motherhood anonymously!
<a href="https://form.typeform.com/to/mlKFldCQ">Submit your questions</a>

The MAGA Hat in Bali

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