This week, we sit down with New York Times bestselling author and clinical psychologist Dr. Shefali to talk about why men feel so misunderstood and what we’re getting wrong about masculinity.
We explore the pressures men face, how the way we raise boys shapes their relationships, and what it takes for men and women to better understand each other. It’s an honest, hopeful conversation about moving beyond blame, making room for strength and vulnerability, and raising a more emotionally connected generation.
If you’ve ever struggled to understand yourself or the men in your life, this one is for you.
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And as a reminder, we are not therapists, and while this may feel like therapy, it's not. So if you're struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional
00:00 Intro
05:44 Conscious Masculinity
17:34 Shame and Male Role Models
28:31 Strength and Vulnerability
36:47 Disconnection and Connection
47:11 Raising Conscious Boys

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44:46

How to stop repeating the same patterns | Kati Morton #18
49:13

My experience at grief camp for kids | Bonus Episode #19
20:54