What if the biggest threat to families right now is something no one wants to talk about?

Boys and men are struggling - and the ripple effect is hitting homes, relationships, and entire communities. In this confronting and deeply important conversation, Justin and Kylie unpack what’s really going wrong, why it matters for every parent, and what we can actually do to raise boys who thrive.

KEY POINTS

• Boys and men are overrepresented in violence, suicide, addiction, and disengagement
• When men don’t thrive, everyone around them is impacted
• Focusing only on “fixing behaviour” misses the deeper issues
• Boys need a clear model of healthy masculinity: making others feel safe and strong
• Key areas for change: mental health, education, fatherhood, and purpose
• Ignoring boys’ struggles can lead to resentment, division, and long-term social consequences

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Help boys become men who make the people around them feel safer and stronger.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Boys by Dr Justin Coulson

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

• Talk openly with your son about emotions, purpose, and identity
• Model and reinforce what healthy masculinity looks like at home
• Prioritise connection - especially with fathers or father figures
• Watch for signs of withdrawal, anger, or disengagement and respond early
• Encourage pathways into education, skills, or meaningful work