What if the real problem isn’t “toxic masculinity”… but that we’ve stopped showing boys what healthy masculinity actually looks like?

In this powerful conversation, Dr Justin Coulson sits down with educator Andre Casson to unpack what boys really need to thrive - and why so many are currently missing it.

From values and discipline to role models and connection, this episode challenges the narrative around boys and offers a clearer, stronger path forward.

If you’re raising a boy, this is essential listening.

KEY POINTS

• Why the “toxic masculinity” conversation is missing the mark
• The 5 core values that shape strong, grounded young men
• How schools and parents must work together (not separately)
• The hidden reason boys disengage - and how to turn it around
• Why discipline and doing hard things builds self-worth
• The critical role of male role models and peer influence
• How to raise boys who make others feel safer and stronger

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Healthy men help the people around them feel safer and stronger.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• Boys: Building Strong Young Men from the Inside Out  by Dr. Justin Coulson
• Keeping Safe Child Protection Curriculum
• Happy Families website & parenting resources

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

• Create regular, low-pressure moments for conversation (car rides are gold)
• Model your values consistently - don’t just talk about them
• Encourage your son to do hard things (this builds real confidence)
• Show up and engage with your child’s school and community
• Surround your son with positive male role models
• Focus on who your son is becoming - not just what he achieves