What really keeps a marriage strong after nearly three decades?

In this honest, funny, and surprisingly emotional anniversary episode, Justin and Kylie unpack the real lessons behind a lasting relationship—beyond the clichés.

From choosing each other daily to letting go of the need to be right, this episode reveals the small mindset shifts that make the biggest difference.

Plus… Kylie shares her very simple (and slightly controversial) formula for a happy marriage.

KEY POINTS

• Why love is a daily choice—not just a feeling
• The truth about trying to change your partner
• How your frustrations say more about you than them
• Why “winning” arguments can cost your relationship
• The simple habits that keep connection alive over time

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE

“Don’t choose being right over being connected.”

RESOURCES MENTIONED

• The idea that 80% of what annoys you about your partner will never change
• Relationship insight from Professor H. Wallace Goddard

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS

• Choose your partner—intentionally—every single day
• Swap criticism for gratitude (focus on the 80%)
• Pause before reacting: “Is this my issue or theirs?”
• Prioritise connection over winning small arguments
• Schedule regular, simple time together (even 20 minutes counts)