What happens when a child falls years behind in reading and writing? This week’s episode of The Happy Families Podcast dives into one of the most talked-about moments from Parental Guidance: the Life School parents’ children struggling with basic literacy. Justin and Kylie share why reading matters so much, how to help children who resist school and learning, and practical steps for parents who feel overwhelmed when their child is falling behind. If you’ve ever worried about your child’s progress—or felt judged by others—this conversation will give you hope, empathy, and a clear path forward.

KEY POINTS:

• Reading is a gateway to learning, and kids need to see, hear, and engage with books daily.

• Many families lack books in the home—screens have crowded them out.

• Literacy struggles can stem from earlier traumatic or negative schooling experiences, creating resistance.

• Avoidance of learning challenges often worsens anxiety; action and support are crucial.

• There is no quick fix—progress takes time, love, and the right support network.

• Collaboration with schools is vital, but sometimes alternative schooling or tutors may be necessary.

• Motivation often follows competence—find what your child loves to learn and build on that.

• Above all, children need to know that they are loved, supported, and not alone in their struggle.

QUOTE OF THE EPISODE:

"Readers are leaders, and leaders are readers. But before anything else, your child needs to know you love them, no matter how hard the journey gets."

RESOURCES MENTIONED:

• Previous Happy Families podcast episodes on How to Help Kids Love Reading

  • #952 - An Interview with Author Sally Rippin
  • #918 - A Slice of Advice on Getting Your Kids to Read More

• happyfamilies.com.au for more resources on literacy and schooling alternatives, including:

  • Rethinking School: Why Alternative Education Might Be the Best Choice for Your Child
  • Home Schooling 101 With Brett Campbell of Euka
  • How to Raise Kids Who Read

• Nine Now app to watch Parental Guidance

ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS:

1. Read to your child every day, even if they’re older.
2. Let your child see you reading.
3. Fill your home with books your child can access anytime.
4. Work with the school to understand and address learning challenges.
5. If needed, explore alternative schooling options or hire a tutor.
6. Avoid avoidance—take small, consistent actions to build competence.
7. Help your child discover an area of learning they’re motivated by.
8. Above all: remind them daily that they are loved and supported.