Anonymous wants to know whether she should continue to investigate,snoop,keep tabs on this man or just move on. Should she continue being Deborah Patta?

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.

They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman. 

Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman. 

She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around. 

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.
They&rsquo;ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman.&nbsp;
Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she&rsquo;s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman.&nbsp;
She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 14 May '26: 'Does he really love me or just likes having her around.'

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career. 

When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.

However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family. 

They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to. 

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.&nbsp;
When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.
However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn&rsquo;t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family.&nbsp;
They now have an 8 month-old baby but he&rsquo;s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 13 May '26: 'Has he always been toying with me?'

Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s. 

The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either.

She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She’s wondering if she’s the only women in his life. 

Anonymous has been with a man she&rsquo;s &ldquo;in love&rdquo; with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s.&nbsp;
The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either.
She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She&rsquo;s wondering if she&rsquo;s the only women in his life.&nbsp;

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