Ask A Man 11 March '26: 'My married ex wants his gifts back.'

Anonymous has been dating a married for about two years and says their side relationship was going well and the man was also taking care of her and her child financially.  Late last year, she met a single man, they hit it off and started dating. She broke up with the married man, he got upset at h…

Ask A Man 10 March '26: 'Is my infidelity the end of us?'

Anonymous is a foreign national and says that actually caused issues in his relationship when he wanted to marry his South African partner, as her family were xenophobic towards him.  They eventually got married, and had a child together. After getting a new job, he met a lady at the workplace who…

Ask A Man 09 March '26: 'Am I asking him for too much?'

Anonymous has been with his partner for over 6 years now and says their relationship was really great in the beginning despite facing challenges of being a same-sex couple. They also faced financial challenges as his partner was still in school when they started dating, he even ended up moving in …

Ask A Man 06 March '26: 'Is she cheating because I've lost my job?'

Anonymous has been with his partner for five years. He supported her financially as she was unemployed when they met.  She eventually found a job in another province and moved there. He then lost his job and decided to move in with her but when he got there he realised she was cheating on him.  H…

Ask A Man 05 March '26: 'He still works with his "ex" mistress.'

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 19 years and married for 17 of those years.  Her husband cheated on her twice with the same woman from work, and he wasn’t very remorseful at the time, but they eventually reconciled due to his change in attitude and behaviour.  He then moved to an…

Ask A Man 04 March '26: 'My wife is upset about the discovery of my long lost daughter.'

Anonymous has been married for 5 years to his current wife, they have one child together and he has one other child he had many years ago. Yesterday he found out that he has a 16-year-old daughter he didn’t know about.  He revealed this to his wife and she’s upset about this development, to a poin…

Ask A Man 03 March '26: 'Im struggling to leave my toxic husband'

Anonymous has been married for about three years now but she’s not happy in this marriage. She’s attempted to leave, but didn’t go through with it.  She’s been feeling this way since she caught him cheating on her. They moved on from this infidelity but she feels like he’s probably going to cheat …

Ask A Man 02 March '26: 'I pay for everything in this relationship.'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for almost 9 years now.  She says in the early years of their relationship she ended up getting a loan for him to be able to purchase a car, on his request. He had said he’d pay it off, but he had financial struggles and she needed up paying off the loa…

Ask A Man: 27 February 2026

ASK A MAN: 26 February 2026

Anonymous has been in a relationship with his partner for four years, and they share a child together. While their relationship has been stable, everything changed when he discovered that his close friend had slept with his partner before they started dating—and that she never told him. Now, he’s s…