Anonymous has been with a married man for about three years now and said to anonymous that he’s interested in being in a polygamous relationship. 

She says his family knew about their relationship but his wife didn’t know they were together. She fell pregnant with his child and while him and his family were happy about this initially, there are now questions being raised about the paternity of the child and his family is harassing her and they’ve turned their back on her. 

He hasn’t been defending her in this situation and as she calls us today, he hasn’t reached out to her in about two weeks. 

Anonymous has been with a married man for about three years now and said to anonymous that he&rsquo;s interested in being in a polygamous relationship.&nbsp;
She says his family knew about their relationship but his wife didn&rsquo;t know they were together. She fell pregnant with his child and while him and his family were happy about this initially, there are now questions being raised about the paternity of the child and his family is harassing her and they&rsquo;ve turned their back on her.&nbsp;
He hasn&rsquo;t been defending her in this situation and as she calls us today, he hasn&rsquo;t reached out to her in about two weeks.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 10 Nov '26: 'My married boyfriend is denying our child'

Anonymous dated a lady for many years and says he took her from someone else. 

The paternity of their first child is still in question as she was having an affair when she was pregnant, they managed to work through this situation and continued with their relationship. They also had a second child. 

However, things never really got back to normal between them and he ended up breaking up with the mother of his, apparent, children. 

Anonymous dated a lady for many years and says he took her from someone else.&nbsp;
The paternity of their first child is still in question as she was having an affair when she was pregnant, they managed to work through this situation and continued with their relationship. They also had a second child.&nbsp;
However, things never really got back to normal between them and he ended up breaking up with the mother of his, apparent, children.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 09 Nov '26: 'I love our children despite questions about their paternity.'

Anonymous is a recently divorced man and says he had a very good woman who he treated badly and his behaviour eventually led to their breakup.

Three years after breaking up with his wife, he feels like he’s now a changed man is ready to find someone to be his life partner…

Anonymous is a recently divorced man and says he had a very good woman who he treated badly and his behaviour eventually led to their breakup.
Three years after breaking up with his wife, he feels like he&rsquo;s now a changed man is ready to find someone to be his life partner&hellip;

Ask A Man 06 Nov '26: 'Reformed and ready to date' 

Anonymous is currently struggling to co-parent her child with her ex-partner.

She says he was controlling in their relationship and is doing the same in their co-parenting situation. There was an incident earlier in the year that resulted in her ex physically assaulting her and she had him arrested. 

He was released from jail after a week, but their co-parenting relationship has been sour and toxic since then. 

Anonymous is currently struggling to co-parent her child with her ex-partner.
She says he was controlling in their relationship and is doing the same in their co-parenting situation. There was an incident earlier in the year that resulted in her ex physically assaulting her and she had him arrested.&nbsp;
He was released from jail after a week, but their co-parenting relationship has been sour and toxic since then.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 05 Nov '26: Struggling to co-parent with my ex'

Anonymous and her husband have been together for twelve years, married for six of those years and they have three children together. 

She found out about four years ago that her husband had a fling with another woman, which was confirmed, but her and her husband managed to work through the situation. 

The lady her husband had an affair with has now called and told her husband that she has a three year-old child and it’s his. Her husband told her about this and she doesn’t know how to react because she doesn’t want to be a stepmother. 

The paternity of the child is also in question, as some other people have claimed the child belongs to someone else. 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for twelve years, married for six of those years and they have three children together.&nbsp;
She found out about four years ago that her husband had a fling with another woman, which was confirmed, but her and her husband managed to work through the situation.&nbsp;
The lady her husband had an affair with has now called and told her husband that she has a three year-old child and it&rsquo;s his. Her husband told her about this and she doesn&rsquo;t know how to react because she doesn&rsquo;t want to be a stepmother.&nbsp;
The paternity of the child is also in question, as some other people have claimed the child belongs to someone else.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 03 Nov '26:  " I don't want to be a step mom'

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Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years now, they have a 15 year age gap, he’s in his mid-forties and she’s in her early thirties. 

She says communication and conflict resolution is the biggest problem they have in their relationship as they struggle to agree on fighting styles and she feels like he doesn’t give her space to voice her concerns. 

She’s worried that they’ll never be able to find a middle ground when it comes to communication. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for 5 years now, they have a 15 year age gap, he&rsquo;s in his mid-forties and she&rsquo;s in her early thirties.&nbsp;
She says communication and conflict resolution is the biggest problem they have in their relationship as they struggle to agree on fighting styles and she feels like he doesn&rsquo;t give her space to voice her concerns.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s worried that they&rsquo;ll never be able to find a middle ground when it comes to communication.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 30 Oct '26: 'We have different fighting styles'

Anonymous and her fiancé have been together for about a decade and have two kids together. 

She says he’s a good man, ambitious, knows what he wants and goes for it. And says she’s never had to deal with infidelity in her relationship. 

She’s the kinda person who is friends with her exes but when he realised this, he asked her to cut ties with them and she did but he’d always bring it up even months later. She also had male friends but he wasn’t happy with that as well and she cut ties with those friends. 

In a recent situation, he became upset after seeing chats between her and her manager which he found to be a little too personal. 

Anonymous and her fianc&eacute; have been together for about a decade and have two kids together.&nbsp;
She says he&rsquo;s a good man, ambitious, knows what he wants and goes for it. And says she&rsquo;s never had to deal with infidelity in her relationship.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s the kinda person who is friends with her exes but when he realised this, he asked her to cut ties with them and she did but he&rsquo;d always bring it up even months later. She also had male friends but he wasn&rsquo;t happy with that as well and she cut ties with those friends.&nbsp;
In a recent situation, he became upset after seeing chats between her and her manager which he found to be a little too personal.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 28 Oct '26: 'My husband struggles to deal with his emotions'

Anonymous and her husband have been together for ten years and they have three children together. 

For about half of their marriage she lived in another town so they were in a bit of a long distance relationship initially, which she thinks put her in a bubble and she wasn’t aware of certain things about her relationship and her partner. 

Things started to change when they started living together with her husband, he became a different character towards her. The behaviour became worse after her first pregnancy…

Anonymous and her husband have been together for ten years and they have three children together.&nbsp;
For about half of their marriage she lived in another town so they were in a bit of a long distance relationship initially, which she thinks put her in a bubble and she wasn&rsquo;t aware of certain things about her relationship and her partner.&nbsp;
Things started to change when they started living together with her husband, he became a different character towards her. The behaviour became worse after her first pregnancy&hellip;

Ask A Man 27 Oct '26: 'My husband changed after moved back home.'

Anonymous was with his wife for 8 years, and in the last few years of the marriage he fell ill which affected him and he also lost a lot of weight.

After all of this, she broke up with him saying that he used to abuse her and had put her through a lot…

Anonymous was with his wife for 8 years, and in the last few years of the marriage he fell ill which affected him and he also lost a lot of weight.
After all of this, she broke up with him saying that he used to abuse her and had put her through a lot&hellip;

Ask A Man 26 Oct '26: 'Why won't she get intimate with me?'

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