Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now and he’s not sure if their relationship is going in the right direction. 

They started dating a week after meeting each other, and anonymous feels like they might’ve rushed into a relationship without really getting to know and understand each other well. 

One of the issues is that they appear to have differing communication styles which is creating conflict in their relationship. 

Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now and he&rsquo;s not sure if their relationship is going in the right direction.&nbsp;
They started dating a week after meeting each other, and anonymous feels like they might&rsquo;ve rushed into a relationship without really getting to know and understand each other well.&nbsp;
One of the issues is that they appear to have differing communication styles which is creating conflict in their relationship.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 02 Oct '26: 'Am I asking for too much or is this just basics?'

Anonymous was in a relationship with his ex partner for about three years.

After she fell pregnant he was happy and supported her through the pregnancy but a month after the child was born she confessed to him that she thinks the baby is not his as she had a one night stand while she was away on a work trip. 

DNA tests were done and proved that he’s not the father….

Anonymous was in a relationship with his ex partner for about three years.
After she fell pregnant he was happy and supported her through the pregnancy but a month after the child was born she confessed to him that she thinks the baby is not his as she had a one night stand while she was away on a work trip.&nbsp;
DNA tests were done and proved that he&rsquo;s not the father&hellip;.

Ask A Man 1 Oct '26: 'She had a baby with a side but wants to build with me.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for 8 years and they got married 5 years ago. 

She’s currently pregnant with their second child and her partner is refusing to get sexually intimate with her. She says it’s been about 5 months and despite her many advances, he’s not interested at all. 

She’s wondering if he’s getting it outside because she once told him he can’t have sex with her if he’s cheating because it’s going to affect her and their unborn child.

Anonymous has been with her partner for 8 years and they got married 5 years ago.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s currently pregnant with their second child and her partner is refusing to get sexually intimate with her. She says it&rsquo;s been about 5 months and despite her many advances, he&rsquo;s not interested at all.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s wondering if he&rsquo;s getting it outside because she once told him he can&rsquo;t have sex with her if he&rsquo;s cheating because it&rsquo;s going to affect her and their unborn child.

Ask A Man 30 Sep '26: 'Is my husband turned off because of my pregnancy?'

Anonymous met a guy who she immediately hit things off with and started having a relationship with him from the onset, and they’ve been together for about 6 months.

However, a few months into the relationship she realised that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone who he has children with. 

She wants to exit this situation but she finds herself falling “deeply” for him. 

Anonymous met a guy who she immediately hit things off with and started having a relationship with him from the onset, and they&rsquo;ve been together for about 6 months.
However, a few months into the relationship she realised that he&rsquo;s actually in a serious relationship with someone who he has children with.&nbsp;
She wants to exit this situation but she finds herself falling &ldquo;deeply&rdquo; for him.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 29 Sep '26: 'I don't want to be a side, but I'm falling for him.'

Anonymous met his current partner about 8 years ago, when he was still in varsity, and they’ve been together ever since. 

He still had flings with other ladies at the beginning of their relationship but stopped that behaviour after they had their first child. 

He eventually went back to his old ways of having affairs with other women, and this time his partner found out after seeing texts on his phone, and this created a rift in their relationship and his partner still hasn’t recovered. 

There’s a lot of tension between them and anonymous says he suspects that she’s now having an affair with her colleague

Anonymous met his current partner about 8 years ago, when he was still in varsity, and they&rsquo;ve been together ever since.&nbsp;
He still had flings with other ladies at the beginning of their relationship but stopped that behaviour after they had their first child.&nbsp;
He eventually went back to his old ways of having affairs with other women, and this time his partner found out after seeing texts on his phone, and this created a rift in their relationship and his partner still hasn&rsquo;t recovered.&nbsp;
There&rsquo;s a lot of tension between them and anonymous says he suspects that she&rsquo;s now having an affair with her colleague

Ask A Man 28 Sep '26: 'Did my infidelity ruin us for good?'

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Anonymous met a lady last year and says everything was fine between them until she found a job in another province, a couple of months into their relationship. 

Her new job required her to have a car and he offered to finance a car on her behalf, something she refused but eventually agreed to it, however he ended up not getting the car as she was acting suspicious. 

Their relationship started fading away after all of this, and they haven’t really interacted since April. He now misses her and wonders if he should rekindle things with her. 

Anonymous met a lady last year and says everything was fine between them until she found a job in another province, a couple of months into their relationship.&nbsp;
Her new job required her to have a car and he offered to finance a car on her behalf, something she refused but eventually agreed to it, however he ended up not getting the car as she was acting suspicious.&nbsp;
Their relationship started fading away after all of this, and they haven&rsquo;t really interacted since April. He now misses her and wonders if he should rekindle things with her.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 22 Sep '26: 'She was never into you.'

Anonymous says when he met lady no.1 she was married, they dated despite this fact and she actually fell pregnant early in their relationship and anonymous says it’s his kid. 

Things got sour between him and lady no.1 after she claimed to be moving to another country for work. 

He then met lady no.2, who he initially didn’t tell about his child with the ex but has now confessed to that….

Anonymous says when he met lady no.1 she was married, they dated despite this fact and she actually fell pregnant early in their relationship and anonymous says it&rsquo;s his kid.&nbsp;
Things got sour between him and lady no.1 after she claimed to be moving to another country for work.&nbsp;
He then met lady no.2, who he initially didn&rsquo;t tell about his child with the ex but has now confessed to that&hellip;.

Ask A Man 21 Sep '26: 'Why did she move on so quickly?'

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual.

We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality?

Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual.
We call on you the Ask a Man community, we want to have a necessary and uncomfortable conversation; not to speak on behalf of women, or alienate men, but to examine what we can all do to bring an end to gender-based violence. What attitudes and behaviours are we allowing to continue in our homes, friendships and communities? How do men hold one another accountable before harmful behaviour escalates into violence? And how do we raise boys who understand consent, respect and equality?
Today, the men of Ask a Man move from giving relationship advice to confronting a national crisis that demands honesty, accountability and action from all of us.

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