Anonymous, who has been with her current partner for about six years, says she always knew their relationship wouldn’t end in marriage.  She’s a writer and has written books about her past abusive relationships, which her partner has read. However, she says that whenever they argue, he brings up her previous partners, claiming he understands why they treated her that way.

Anonymous, who has been with her current partner for about six years, says she always knew their relationship wouldn&rsquo;t end in marriage.&nbsp; She&rsquo;s a writer and has written books about her past abusive relationships, which her partner has read. However, she says that whenever they argue, he brings up her previous partners, claiming he understands why they treated her that way.

Ask A Man 21 Aug '26: My current partner using my previous partner's against me'

Anonymous broke with his girlfriend about two weeks ago, after going through a tough season in their three-year relationship. 

He says they were experiencing a lot of stress in their relationship, she I. particular is currently studying so that was putting a lot of pressure on her. 

Their sex life started taking a dip and this caused a major rift in their relationship, further pushing them away from each other…

Anonymous broke with his girlfriend about two weeks ago, after going through a tough season in their three-year relationship.&nbsp;
He says they were experiencing a lot of stress in their relationship, she I. particular is currently studying so that was putting a lot of pressure on her.&nbsp;
Their sex life started taking a dip and this caused a major rift in their relationship, further pushing them away from each other&hellip;

Ask A Man 20 Aug '26: 'Should I just accept that she's over our relationship?'

Anonymous is in her early forties and has 4 children, including one who’s living with cerebral palsy. She’s divorced and tried dating but found out that the guy was cheating on her so she ended it. 

Fast forward to 26 May 2026, she met a guy  who is almost 10 year younger than her, they hit it off and she says he’s been an amazing partner towards her, very romantic and caring. 

Her problem with him is that he’s short tempered and can very moody at times….

Anonymous is in her early forties and has 4 children, including one who&rsquo;s living with cerebral palsy. She&rsquo;s divorced and tried dating but found out that the guy was cheating on her so she ended it.&nbsp;
Fast forward to 26 May 2026, she met a guy&nbsp; who is almost 10 year younger than her, they hit it off and she says he&rsquo;s been an amazing partner towards her, very romantic and caring.&nbsp;
Her problem with him is that he&rsquo;s short tempered and can very moody at times&hellip;.

Ask A Man 19 Aug '26: 'My new partner is short tempered & moody'

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2022 and says things were great between them for the first two years but changed in 2024 after her partner’s father past away. 

She says she started feeling insecure after he cut-off his dreadlocks and that caused a lot of turmoil between them, which eventually led to their relationship becoming toxic. 

They broke up in May of this year, but continued to be friends and have a sexual relationship

Anonymous has been with her partner since 2022 and says things were great between them for the first two years but changed in 2024 after her partner&rsquo;s father past away.&nbsp;
She says she started feeling insecure after he cut-off his dreadlocks and that caused a lot of turmoil between them, which eventually led to their relationship becoming toxic.&nbsp;
They broke up in May of this year, but continued to be friends and have a sexual relationship

Ask A Man 18 Aug '26: 'My insecurities led to our relationship turning toxic'

Anonymous met a guy a few years ago in a taxi and they would talk to each other which led to him helping her in finding a learnership. 

She works close his workplace and he would even drive her to work everyday, and they ended up having a sexual relationship, however, cut him off afterwards as she didn’t enjoy being with him. 

After a couple of weeks of avoiding him, she contacted him again as she didn’t have money for transport and he would drive her...

Anonymous met a guy a few years ago in a taxi and they would talk to each other which led to him helping her in finding a learnership.&nbsp;
She works close his workplace and he would even drive her to work everyday, and they ended up having a sexual relationship, however, cut him off afterwards as she didn&rsquo;t enjoy being with him.&nbsp;
After a couple of weeks of avoiding him, she contacted him again as she didn&rsquo;t have money for transport and he would drive her...

Ask A Man 17 Aug '26: 'Does he really want to be with me?'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about three years. They were both married to other people before they started their relationship, she has one child from her marriage and he has three. 

Her partner has a problem with the fact that she speaks to her ex-husband and father of her child, because he fears that she still has a romantic relationship with him. 

Anonymous and her partner have been together for about three years. They were both married to other people before they started their relationship, she has one child from her marriage and he has three.&nbsp;
Her partner has a problem with the fact that she speaks to her ex-husband and father of her child, because he fears that she still has a romantic relationship with him.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 14 Aug '26: 'My partner doesn't want me in contact with the father of my child'

Anonymous has been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now and they have a child together. 

She’s in her mid-twenties and he’s in his mid-thirties. They stay in separate houses, both at their parent’s homes. 

After her grandparents advised that they should be married and living together for the sake of their child, anonymous’ boyfriend broke things off with her because of this.

Anonymous has been with her boyfriend for about 8 years now and they have a child together.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s in her mid-twenties and he&rsquo;s in his mid-thirties. They stay in separate houses, both at their parent&rsquo;s homes.&nbsp;
After her grandparents advised that they should be married and living together for the sake of their child, anonymous&rsquo; boyfriend broke things off with her because of this.

Ask A Man 13 Aug '26: '8 years later and we still live with our parents'

Ask A Man 12 August '26

Anonymous is in her early thirties and she is in a relationship with a man who is twenty years older than her. 

She went through her partner’s phone months ago and found out that he was cheating. After confronting him about this he said she wasn’t mentally well since losing her father late  last year and she needed to to deal with that. 

Months later she found out he was cheating again, and again 

Anonymous is in her early thirties and she is in a relationship with a man who is twenty years older than her.&nbsp;
She went through her partner&rsquo;s phone months ago and found out that he was cheating. After confronting him about this he said she wasn&rsquo;t mentally well since losing her father late&nbsp; last year and she needed to to deal with that.&nbsp;
Months later she found out he was cheating again, and again&nbsp;

Ask A Man 11 Aug '26: 'Why am I attached to my toxic ex?'

Anonymous and his wife are married with two children, however, he recently realised that his wife has been having sex with multiple men and he even thinks some it is transactional. 

He discovered this on her phone and he finds himself confused by the whole situation.

Anonymous says when he previously realised she was sleeping with someone else, he suggested they make their relationship and open relationship, however, he feels like she’s taken that too far.

Anonymous and his wife are married with two children, however, he recently realised that his wife has been having sex with multiple men and he even thinks some it is transactional.&nbsp;
He discovered this on her phone and he finds himself confused by the whole situation.
Anonymous says when he previously realised she was sleeping with someone else, he suggested they make their relationship and open relationship, however, he feels like she&rsquo;s taken that too far.

Ask a Man 07 Aug '26: 'My wife is sleeping around with multiple men.'

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