Ask A Man 02 Oct '26: 'Am I asking for too much or is this just basics?'

Anonymous has been with his partner for two years now and he’s not sure if their relationship is going in the right direction.  They started dating a week after meeting each other, and anonymous feels like they might’ve rushed into a relationship without really getting to know and understand each …

Ask A Man 1 Oct '26: 'She had a baby with a side but wants to build with me.'

Anonymous was in a relationship with his ex partner for about three years. After she fell pregnant he was happy and supported her through the pregnancy but a month after the child was born she confessed to him that she thinks the baby is not his as she had a one night stand while she was away on a…

Ask A Man 30 Sep '26: 'Is my husband turned off because of my pregnancy?'

Anonymous has been with her partner for 8 years and they got married 5 years ago.  She’s currently pregnant with their second child and her partner is refusing to get sexually intimate with her. She says it’s been about 5 months and despite her many advances, he’s not interested at all.  She’s wo…

Ask A Man 29 Sep '26: 'I don't want to be a side, but I'm falling for him.'

Anonymous met a guy who she immediately hit things off with and started having a relationship with him from the onset, and they’ve been together for about 6 months. However, a few months into the relationship she realised that he’s actually in a serious relationship with someone who he has childre…

Ask A Man 28 Sep '26: 'Did my infidelity ruin us for good?'

Anonymous met his current partner about 8 years ago, when he was still in varsity, and they’ve been together ever since.  He still had flings with other ladies at the beginning of their relationship but stopped that behaviour after they had their first child.  He eventually went back to his old w…

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Ask A Man 22 Sep '26: 'She was never into you.'

Anonymous met a lady last year and says everything was fine between them until she found a job in another province, a couple of months into their relationship.  Her new job required her to have a car and he offered to finance a car on her behalf, something she refused but eventually agreed to it, …

Ask A Man 21 Sep '26: 'Why did she move on so quickly?'

Anonymous says when he met lady no.1 she was married, they dated despite this fact and she actually fell pregnant early in their relationship and anonymous says it’s his kid.  Things got sour between him and lady no.1 after she claimed to be moving to another country for work.  He then met lady n…

Ask A Man: GBV Roundtable

This morning, Ask a Man sounds a little different. We usually turn to our panel for honest conversations about love, relationships and the questions that sometimes leave us confused. But with gender-based violence gripping the nation, this is not a moment for business as usual. We call on you the …

Ask A Man 17 Sep '26: 'I Love her but she's busy with other people'