Anonymous says she was in a relationship with a man who was younger than her and says when she lost her job he found a job and then changed on her and even broke up with her. Anonymous says after they broke up he downgraded his maintenance of their child, even moving the child from private school to public school. Anonymous says he now currently is not even making those reduced maintenance fees they had agreed to. Anonymous says she’s scared of going the legal route because she thinks he might threaten her and her child’s life.

Anonymous says she was in a relationship with a man who was younger than her and says when she lost her job he found a job and then changed on her and even broke up with her. Anonymous says after they broke up he downgraded his maintenance of their child, even moving the child from private school to public school. Anonymous says he now currently is not even making those reduced maintenance fees they had agreed to. Anonymous says she’s scared of going the legal route because she thinks he might threaten her and her child’s life.

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Ask A Man 09 May '24: 'Scared to take him to maintenance court.'

Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they’ve been together for about twenty years. 

They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he’s been with for about 8 years on the side. 

She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.

She’s over it now, as her husband is “playing happy families” with their children and the other child and the other woman.

Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they&rsquo;ve been together for about twenty years.&nbsp;
They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he&rsquo;s been with for about 8 years on the side.&nbsp;
She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.
She&rsquo;s over it now, as her husband is &ldquo;playing happy families&rdquo; with their children and the other child and the other woman.

Ask A Man 02 Sep '26: 'My husband is playing happy families with his side and our children.'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised. 

They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other. 

They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he’s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication. 

Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised.&nbsp;
They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other.&nbsp;
They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he&rsquo;s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 01 Sept '26: 'We finally made things official but it's not going well.'

Anonymous recently had a baby with her partner of four years and they’ve now broken up after she felt like he wasn’t taking care of her after giving birth to their child. 

He has suggested that they continue to live with each other and raise the child together but she’s confused by that offer and doesn’t know what to do. 

She adds that she doesn’t want to be a single parent.

Anonymous recently had a baby with her partner of four years and they&rsquo;ve now broken up after she felt like he wasn&rsquo;t taking care of her after giving birth to their child.&nbsp;
He has suggested that they continue to live with each other and raise the child together but she&rsquo;s confused by that offer and doesn&rsquo;t know what to do.&nbsp;
She adds that she doesn&rsquo;t want to be a single parent.

Ask A Man 09 May '24: 'Scared to take him to maintenance court.'

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