Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with a man for a year, she’s 56 and he’s 59, she has two kids and he has 5 kids. Anonymous says she makes more money than the guy and he’s constantly spending her money on him and his grown up kids. Anonymous says she feels like he’s using her because she’s financially more capable. She’s loves him but isn’t sure if he loves her in the same way.

Anonymous says she’s been in a relationship with a man for a year, she’s 56 and he’s 59, she has two kids and he has 5 kids. Anonymous says she makes more money than the guy and he’s constantly spending her money on him and his grown up kids. Anonymous says she feels like he’s using her because she’s financially more capable. She’s loves him but isn’t sure if he loves her in the same way.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 09 July '24: 'I feel like my boyfriend & his kids are using me.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they have a child together. 

They broke things off last year after he saw another guy post pictures of their son on Tik Tok, as though he was his own. 

They eventually made up, however, he says she’s entertaining “17 guys” from her workplace. He doesn’t know how to deal with her behaviour towards his colleagues.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they have a child together.&nbsp;
They broke things off last year after he saw another guy post pictures of their son on Tik Tok, as though he was his own.&nbsp;
They eventually made up, however, he says she&rsquo;s entertaining &ldquo;17 guys&rdquo; from her workplace. He doesn&rsquo;t know how to deal with her behaviour towards his colleagues.

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Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they’ve been together. 

At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse. 

About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She’s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy. 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they&rsquo;ve been together.&nbsp;
At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse.&nbsp;
About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She&rsquo;s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy.&nbsp;

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Anonymous called us last year and told us that he was secretly dating his best friend’s younger brother, and didn’t know whether he should tell his friend. 

In any case, the brother found out, broke off their friendship, and the family kicked the little brother out of the house because he wanted to continue dating anonymous. 

Months went by and while he was at a party in another city he ran into his ex friend and partner’s brother, they reconciled, ended up partying together, and shared a bed, at which point they had a sexual engagement.

Anonymous called us last year and told us that he was secretly dating his best friend&rsquo;s younger brother, and didn&rsquo;t know whether he should tell his friend.&nbsp;
In any case, the brother found out, broke off their friendship, and the family kicked the little brother out of the house because he wanted to continue dating anonymous.&nbsp;
Months went by and while he was at a party in another city he ran into his ex friend and partner&rsquo;s brother, they reconciled, ended up partying together, and shared a bed, at which point they had a sexual engagement.

Ask A Man 09 July '24: 'I feel like my boyfriend & his kids are using me.'

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