Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they’ve been together. 

At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse. 

About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She’s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy. 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they&rsquo;ve been together.&nbsp;
At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse.&nbsp;
About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She&rsquo;s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy.&nbsp;

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 16 March '26: 'Should I leave my cheating husband for my side?' 

Anonymous started dating her partner about three years ago and says her partner cheated on her, with his ex, early on in their relationship but they overcame this and moved on with their relationship. 

She recently found texts on his phone to his friend where he was sharing with his friend about meeting up with another girl. 

She confronted him about this and he said it’s not something that actually happened or that he went through with, he was just trying to impress his friends, who apparently thrive on that kind of behaviour. 

She’s thinking of breaking up with him, but is not sure if thats the right choice. 

Anonymous started dating her partner about three years ago and says her partner cheated on her, with his ex, early on in their relationship but they overcame this and moved on with their relationship.&nbsp;
She recently found texts on his phone to his friend where he was sharing with his friend about meeting up with another girl.&nbsp;
She confronted him about this and he said it&rsquo;s not something that actually happened or that he went through with, he was just trying to impress his friends, who apparently thrive on that kind of behaviour.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s thinking of breaking up with him, but is not sure if thats the right choice.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 19 May '26: 'Is he a player or just playing along for the boys?'

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father. 

She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he’s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him. 

Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola…

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady last year and things were going until she confessed that she was actually in a relationship with an older man that she had previously claimed was her father.&nbsp;
She told anonymous that she was going to break things off with the guy but he&rsquo;s not sure whether she ever really tried to break up with him.&nbsp;
Fast forward to this year, he found out that she is actually getting married to this other man, however, they hooked up the night before her lobola&hellip;

Ask A Man 15 May '26: 'She married the man she claimed was her father.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents. 

He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he’s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn’t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 months now, they are both in their 30s, they have one child each, she lives with her child and he lives at his family home with his parents.&nbsp;
He often visits her place on weekends when they are both free and while this arrangement initially worked she feels like he&rsquo;s become a major cost to her pocket. She brought this up and ask him to contribute a little more to her household but he didn&rsquo;t like her request and it has resulted in him breaking up with her.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 16 March '26: 'Should I leave my cheating husband for my side?'

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