Anonymous says says he dated girl no.1 from 2017 to 2021, he then started dating girl no.2 in 2022 and things faded between them earlier this year, they are still together but they are not really on good terms. Anonymous says he’s now back to having a relationship with girl no.1, however girl no.1 is now in the process of being “lobolad” by another man who she now has a baby with. Anonymous says they are still carrying on with their affair with girl no.1, he’s not sure if he should remain in this situationship with girl no.1.

Ask A Man 19 May '26: 'Is he a player or just playing along for the boys?'
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Ask A Man 15 May '26: 'She married the man she claimed was her father.'
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Ask A Man 18 May '26: 'He doesn't want to contribute to my household.'
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