Anonymous says says he dated girl no.1 from 2017 to 2021, he then started dating girl no.2 in 2022 and things faded between them earlier this year, they are still together but they are not really on good terms. Anonymous says he’s now back to having a relationship with girl no.1, however girl no.1 is now in the process of being “lobolad” by another man who she now has a baby with. Anonymous says they are still carrying on with their affair with girl no.1, he’s not sure if he should remain in this situationship with girl no.1.

Anonymous says says he dated girl no.1 from 2017 to 2021, he then started dating girl no.2 in 2022 and things faded between them earlier this year, they are still together but they are not really on good terms. Anonymous says he’s now back to having a relationship with girl no.1, however girl no.1 is now in the process of being “lobolad” by another man who she now has a baby with. Anonymous says they are still carrying on with their affair with girl no.1, he’s not sure if he should remain in this situationship with girl no.1.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 08 July '24: 'Should I keep dating my ex who's getting married?'

Anonymous met her current partner about two years ago while they were both in relationships with other people, so they decided not to date each other at the time. 

Months later they were both single and decided to date. Things went well for a few months but their relationship regressed and they broke up. 

They kept in contact and when she found herself needing a place to stay due to challenges with her dad’s side of the family, he asked that she move in with him and she did. 

She fell pregnant two months after moving in with him, which she thought was fine because they had discussed the possibility of having children. But he revealed to her that he has someone that he’s made relationship promises too and now doesn’t know what to do…

Anonymous met her current partner about two years ago while they were both in relationships with other people, so they decided not to date each other at the time.&nbsp;
Months later they were both single and decided to date. Things went well for a few months but their relationship regressed and they broke up.&nbsp;
They kept in contact and when she found herself needing a place to stay due to challenges with her dad&rsquo;s side of the family, he asked that she move in with him and she did.&nbsp;
She fell pregnant two months after moving in with him, which she thought was fine because they had discussed the possibility of having children. But he revealed to her that he has someone that he&rsquo;s made relationship promises too and now doesn&rsquo;t know what to do&hellip;

Ask A Man 15 Oct '26: 'He Lobola'd All Three Of Us'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for several years, live together and have two children. 

Her partner saved money over do about 10 years and used some of that money to secure a property for their family. She was a bit taken aback by this as she thought he’d use the money to complete their lobola/marriage process. 

He still has money saved but he’s thinking of getting a car, and she now finds herself wondering if he’ll ever be able to prioritise completing their marriage process

Anonymous and her partner have been together for several years, live together and have two children.&nbsp;
Her partner saved money over do about 10&nbsp;years and used some of that money to secure a property for their family. She was a bit taken aback by this as she thought he&rsquo;d use the money to complete their lobola/marriage process.&nbsp;
He still has money saved but he&rsquo;s thinking of getting a car, and she now finds herself wondering if he&rsquo;ll ever be able to prioritise completing their marriage process

Ask A Man 14 Oct '26: 'Why is he not prioritising our wedding celebration?'

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period. 

The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who’s the father of her last born child…

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period.&nbsp;
The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who&rsquo;s the father of her last born child&hellip;

Ask A Man 08 July '24: 'Should I keep dating my ex who's getting married?'

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