Anonymous has been with his now wife for 10 years and says she’s been a great partner and even helped him grow. Anonymous says he loves his wife but he  doesn’t quite enjoy their sex life and feels like she’s not coming to the party sexually. Anonymous says they’ve tried therapy but it hasn’t helped much and he has cheated on her with 6 different women and his wife has found out about these affairs. Anonymous doesn’t know what to do as he loves her but he isn’t satisfied in the bedroom .

Anonymous has been with his now wife for 10 years and says she’s been a great partner and even helped him grow. Anonymous says he loves his wife but he  doesn’t quite enjoy their sex life and feels like she’s not coming to the party sexually. Anonymous says they’ve tried therapy but it hasn’t helped much and he has cheated on her with 6 different women and his wife has found out about these affairs. Anonymous doesn’t know what to do as he loves her but he isn’t satisfied in the bedroom .

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Ask A Man 08 April '24: 'I love my wife but our sex life is not good'

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now and they have two children together. 

Her husband got sick and the doctors at the hospital were not able to diagnose what the problem was, so he then opted for spiritual intervention and started visiting a sangoma, despite their staunch Christian background. 

This made anonymous uneasy but she supported her husband in his quest to find healing. 

She says he’s now behaving differently and spends a lot of time with this sangoma. She doesn’t understand why all of this is happening but suspects the sangoma told her husband that she is cheating. 

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now and they have two children together.&nbsp;
Her husband got sick and the doctors at the hospital were not able to diagnose what the problem was, so he then opted for spiritual intervention and started visiting a sangoma, despite their staunch Christian background.&nbsp;
This made anonymous uneasy but she supported her husband in his quest to find healing.&nbsp;
She says he&rsquo;s now behaving differently and spends a lot of time with this sangoma. She doesn&rsquo;t understand why all of this is happening but suspects the sangoma told her husband that she is cheating.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 29 May '26: 'What is my husband doing with the sangoma?'

Anonymous met a guy in 2018 and they started dating four months later, which was in 2019. 

When she met this guy, she was in a relationship that was falling apart and it eventually ended and she continued with the guy she met in 2018. 

Early on in their relationship he confessed to her that he is in a long distance relationship with another woman who lives in another province. He initially said he’d leave the other woman but later on this woman fell pregnant with his child. 

They were able to move on from this but their relationship has been weird and he has been offish towards her….

Anonymous met a guy in 2018 and they started dating four months later, which was in 2019.&nbsp;
When she met this guy, she was in a relationship that was falling apart and it eventually ended and she continued with the guy she met in 2018.&nbsp;
Early on in their relationship he confessed to her that he is in a long distance relationship with another woman who lives in another province. He initially said he&rsquo;d leave the other woman but later on this woman fell pregnant with his child.&nbsp;
They were able to move on from this but their relationship has been weird and he has been offish towards her&hellip;.

Ask A Man 28 May '26: 'Has my boyfriend/colleague ghosted me?'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about a year now and she’s currently pregnant with their first child. 

She feels like they haven’t been on the same page about the pregnancy or the future of their relationship. As a pregnant woman, he hasn’t been caring for her or giving her time and she’s currently in her third trimester. 

She doesn’t know what to read into his behaviour. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about a year now and she&rsquo;s currently pregnant with their first child.&nbsp;
She feels like they haven&rsquo;t been on the same page about the pregnancy or the future of their relationship. As a pregnant woman, he hasn&rsquo;t been caring for her or giving her time and she&rsquo;s currently in her third trimester.&nbsp;
She doesn&rsquo;t know what to read into his behaviour.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 08 April '24: 'I love my wife but our sex life is not good'

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