Anonymous says she met a guy no.1 in January and things quickly sparked between them, and the guy moved into her place soon after they started dating. 

Anonymous says the guy lies a lot, for starters, he lied about his age, saying he’s in his early thirties but it turned out he’s actually in his early twenties. Anonymous says though he seemed to have a proper job she’s also realised that he might be scamming people on social media. 

Anonymous says guy no.2 is someone she was with before guy no.1, she says he’s trying to get back into her life even though he had ghosted her when they dated previously. Anonymous says guy no.2 has seemingly changed and there could be a chance to rekindle things with him.

Anonymous says she met a guy no.1 in January and things quickly sparked between them, and the guy moved into her place soon after they started dating.&nbsp;
Anonymous says the guy lies a lot, for starters, he lied about his age, saying he&rsquo;s in his early thirties but it turned out he&rsquo;s actually in his early twenties. Anonymous says though he seemed to have a proper job she&rsquo;s also realised that he might be scamming people on social media.&nbsp;
Anonymous says guy no.2 is someone she was with before guy no.1, she says he&rsquo;s trying to get back into her life even though he had ghosted her when they dated previously. Anonymous says guy no.2 has seemingly changed and there could be a chance to rekindle things with him.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask  a Man 07 April '25: 'Caught between a scammer & a ghoster'

Anonymous met her current partner about two years ago while they were both in relationships with other people, so they decided not to date each other at the time. 

Months later they were both single and decided to date. Things went well for a few months but their relationship regressed and they broke up. 

They kept in contact and when she found herself needing a place to stay due to challenges with her dad’s side of the family, he asked that she move in with him and she did. 

She fell pregnant two months after moving in with him, which she thought was fine because they had discussed the possibility of having children. But he revealed to her that he has someone that he’s made relationship promises too and now doesn’t know what to do…

Anonymous met her current partner about two years ago while they were both in relationships with other people, so they decided not to date each other at the time.&nbsp;
Months later they were both single and decided to date. Things went well for a few months but their relationship regressed and they broke up.&nbsp;
They kept in contact and when she found herself needing a place to stay due to challenges with her dad&rsquo;s side of the family, he asked that she move in with him and she did.&nbsp;
She fell pregnant two months after moving in with him, which she thought was fine because they had discussed the possibility of having children. But he revealed to her that he has someone that he&rsquo;s made relationship promises too and now doesn&rsquo;t know what to do&hellip;

Ask A Man 15 Oct '26: 'He Lobola'd All Three Of Us'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for several years, live together and have two children. 

Her partner saved money over do about 10 years and used some of that money to secure a property for their family. She was a bit taken aback by this as she thought he’d use the money to complete their lobola/marriage process. 

He still has money saved but he’s thinking of getting a car, and she now finds herself wondering if he’ll ever be able to prioritise completing their marriage process

Anonymous and her partner have been together for several years, live together and have two children.&nbsp;
Her partner saved money over do about 10&nbsp;years and used some of that money to secure a property for their family. She was a bit taken aback by this as she thought he&rsquo;d use the money to complete their lobola/marriage process.&nbsp;
He still has money saved but he&rsquo;s thinking of getting a car, and she now finds herself wondering if he&rsquo;ll ever be able to prioritise completing their marriage process

Ask A Man 14 Oct '26: 'Why is he not prioritising our wedding celebration?'

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period. 

The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who’s the father of her last born child…

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period.&nbsp;
The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who&rsquo;s the father of her last born child&hellip;

Ask a Man 07 April '25: 'Caught between a scammer & a ghoster'

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