Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other. 

He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He’s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found an Instagram DM in which anonymous was asking for another lady’s number. 

They separated after this incident but ended up getting back together. He says things haven’t been the same ever since, as she’s constantly scanning his phone and bringing up things from the past, despite what he describes as a change in his behaviour. 

Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other.&nbsp;
He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He&rsquo;s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found an Instagram DM in which anonymous was asking for another lady&rsquo;s number.&nbsp;
They separated after this incident but ended up getting back together. He says things haven&rsquo;t been the same ever since, as she&rsquo;s constantly scanning his phone and bringing up things from the past, despite what he describes as a change in his behaviour.&nbsp;

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 31 March '26: 'Will we get over our past trauma?'

Anonymous met her current partner about two years ago while they were both in relationships with other people, so they decided not to date each other at the time. 

Months later they were both single and decided to date. Things went well for a few months but their relationship regressed and they broke up. 

They kept in contact and when she found herself needing a place to stay due to challenges with her dad’s side of the family, he asked that she move in with him and she did. 

She fell pregnant two months after moving in with him, which she thought was fine because they had discussed the possibility of having children. But he revealed to her that he has someone that he’s made relationship promises too and now doesn’t know what to do…

Anonymous met her current partner about two years ago while they were both in relationships with other people, so they decided not to date each other at the time.&nbsp;
Months later they were both single and decided to date. Things went well for a few months but their relationship regressed and they broke up.&nbsp;
They kept in contact and when she found herself needing a place to stay due to challenges with her dad&rsquo;s side of the family, he asked that she move in with him and she did.&nbsp;
She fell pregnant two months after moving in with him, which she thought was fine because they had discussed the possibility of having children. But he revealed to her that he has someone that he&rsquo;s made relationship promises too and now doesn&rsquo;t know what to do&hellip;

Ask A Man 15 Oct '26: 'He Lobola'd All Three Of Us'

Anonymous and her partner have been together for several years, live together and have two children. 

Her partner saved money over do about 10 years and used some of that money to secure a property for their family. She was a bit taken aback by this as she thought he’d use the money to complete their lobola/marriage process. 

He still has money saved but he’s thinking of getting a car, and she now finds herself wondering if he’ll ever be able to prioritise completing their marriage process

Anonymous and her partner have been together for several years, live together and have two children.&nbsp;
Her partner saved money over do about 10&nbsp;years and used some of that money to secure a property for their family. She was a bit taken aback by this as she thought he&rsquo;d use the money to complete their lobola/marriage process.&nbsp;
He still has money saved but he&rsquo;s thinking of getting a car, and she now finds herself wondering if he&rsquo;ll ever be able to prioritise completing their marriage process

Ask A Man 14 Oct '26: 'Why is he not prioritising our wedding celebration?'

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period. 

The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who’s the father of her last born child…

Anonymous was in a relationship with a lady for about 7 years, and he was also supporting her three children during this period.&nbsp;
The lady cheated on him a few times with her ex, who&rsquo;s the father of her last born child&hellip;

Ask A Man 31 March '26: 'Will we get over our past trauma?'

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