Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now. 

He’s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she’s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he’s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him. 

Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can’t imagine herself dating anyone else.

Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now.&nbsp;
He&rsquo;s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she&rsquo;s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he&rsquo;s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him.&nbsp;
Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can&rsquo;t imagine herself dating anyone else.

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Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.

They’ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman. 

Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she’s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman. 

She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around. 

Anonymous has been in an on and off relationship with her high school sweetheart for about 7 years now and they are currently separated.
They&rsquo;ve broken up for various reasons over the years, mostly because he keeps cheating on her with the same woman.&nbsp;
Anonymous and this guy live quite far from each other now, and every time she&rsquo;s away from their home town (for school) he seems to be with this other woman.&nbsp;
She just wants to know if he really loves her or just likes having her around.&nbsp;

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Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career. 

When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.

However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family. 

They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to. 

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.&nbsp;
When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.
However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn&rsquo;t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family.&nbsp;
They now have an 8 month-old baby but he&rsquo;s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to.&nbsp;

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