Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now. 

He’s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she’s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he’s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him. 

Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can’t imagine herself dating anyone else.

Anonymous has been with the father of her two children for about 17 years now.&nbsp;
He&rsquo;s cheated on her multiple times over this period and she&rsquo;s forgiven him each time. She found out about two years ago that he&rsquo;s been married this whole time, and still struggles to let go of him.&nbsp;
Despite all of this, she says she loves him a lot and can&rsquo;t imagine herself dating anyone else.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man

Ask a Man 30 Oct '25: 'Have I been a side for 17 years?'

Anonymous recently had a baby with her partner of four years and they’ve now broken up after she felt like he wasn’t taking care of her after giving birth to their child. 

He has suggested that they continue to live with each other and raise the child together but she’s confused by that offer and doesn’t know what to do. 

She adds that she doesn’t want to be a single parent.

Anonymous recently had a baby with her partner of four years and they&rsquo;ve now broken up after she felt like he wasn&rsquo;t taking care of her after giving birth to their child.&nbsp;
He has suggested that they continue to live with each other and raise the child together but she&rsquo;s confused by that offer and doesn&rsquo;t know what to do.&nbsp;
She adds that she doesn&rsquo;t want to be a single parent.

Ask a Man 28 August '26: 'The father of my child says I'm too much'

Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged. 

Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage. 

The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with him reconnecting with his long-lost father who seemed to encourage his drinking and infidelity. 

They managed to work through this but he is now having an affair with another lady…

Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged.&nbsp;
Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage.&nbsp;
The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with him reconnecting with his long-lost father who seemed to encourage his drinking and infidelity.&nbsp;
They managed to work through this but he is now having an affair with another lady&hellip;

Ask A Man 27 Aug '26: 'My partner's father is a bad influence.'

Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars…

She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going well. 

She recently met guy no.2 online and he lives overseas. She says things are going well in that 6 month relationship and he even wants to marry her with his Dollars. 

However, guy no.1 wants to get serious with her and also wants to marry anonymous with his Rands.

Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars&hellip;
She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going well.&nbsp;
She recently met guy no.2 online and he lives overseas. She says things are going well in that 6 month relationship and he even wants to marry her with his Dollars.&nbsp;
However, guy no.1 wants to get serious with her and also wants to marry anonymous with his Rands.

Ask a Man 30 Oct '25: 'Have I been a side for 17 years?'

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