Anonymous says he’s been with his partner since around 2017 and says this past Good Friday he visited her place and after she left for work he stayed behind, and wanted to surprise her by cleaning her place. Anonymous says as he was doing that he found ARVs hidden in a shoe box. Anonymous says about two months have gone by and he hasn’t gotten the courage to speak to her about this.

Anonymous says he’s been with his partner since around 2017 and says this past Good Friday he visited her place and after she left for work he stayed behind, and wanted to surprise her by cleaning her place. Anonymous says as he was doing that he found ARVs hidden in a shoe box. Anonymous says about two months have gone by and he hasn’t gotten the courage to speak to her about this.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 30 May '24: 'Shocked by ARVs in my partner's closet'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised. 

They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other. 

They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he’s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication. 

Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised.&nbsp;
They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other.&nbsp;
They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he&rsquo;s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 01 Sept '26: 'We finally made things official but it's not going well.'

Anonymous recently had a baby with her partner of four years and they’ve now broken up after she felt like he wasn’t taking care of her after giving birth to their child. 

He has suggested that they continue to live with each other and raise the child together but she’s confused by that offer and doesn’t know what to do. 

She adds that she doesn’t want to be a single parent.

Anonymous recently had a baby with her partner of four years and they&rsquo;ve now broken up after she felt like he wasn&rsquo;t taking care of her after giving birth to their child.&nbsp;
He has suggested that they continue to live with each other and raise the child together but she&rsquo;s confused by that offer and doesn&rsquo;t know what to do.&nbsp;
She adds that she doesn&rsquo;t want to be a single parent.

Ask a Man 28 August '26: 'The father of my child says I'm too much'

Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged. 

Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage. 

The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with him reconnecting with his long-lost father who seemed to encourage his drinking and infidelity. 

They managed to work through this but he is now having an affair with another lady…

Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged.&nbsp;
Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage.&nbsp;
The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with him reconnecting with his long-lost father who seemed to encourage his drinking and infidelity.&nbsp;
They managed to work through this but he is now having an affair with another lady&hellip;

Ask A Man 30 May '24: 'Shocked by ARVs in my partner's closet'

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