Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now and they have two children together. 

Her husband got sick and the doctors at the hospital were not able to diagnose what the problem was, so he then opted for spiritual intervention and started visiting a sangoma, despite their staunch Christian background. 

This made anonymous uneasy but she supported her husband in his quest to find healing. 

She says he’s now behaving differently and spends a lot of time with this sangoma. She doesn’t understand why all of this is happening but suspects the sangoma told her husband that she is cheating. 

Anonymous has been with her husband for about 10 years now and they have two children together.&nbsp;
Her husband got sick and the doctors at the hospital were not able to diagnose what the problem was, so he then opted for spiritual intervention and started visiting a sangoma, despite their staunch Christian background.&nbsp;
This made anonymous uneasy but she supported her husband in his quest to find healing.&nbsp;
She says he&rsquo;s now behaving differently and spends a lot of time with this sangoma. She doesn&rsquo;t understand why all of this is happening but suspects the sangoma told her husband that she is cheating.&nbsp;

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Ask A Man 29 May '26: 'What is my husband doing with the sangoma?'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 years now and says she was taking a break from relationships when she met him. 

As a single mother, she was attracted to the guy because he was a single father living with his children. The relationship was going well and they became a blended family and moved in together with her children, while his children moved to live with their mother. 

Her partner lost his job and they downscaled so her children moved back to the house that anonymous and her ex husband used to live in. 

He was a bit of a party animal and would come back home in the early hours of the morning, she called him out on this and he stopped that behaviour. 

They then had a conflict of sorts and he ended up sleeping over the mother of his children’s house...

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 years now and says she was taking a break from relationships when she met him.&nbsp;
As a single mother, she was attracted to the guy because he was a single father living with his children. The relationship was going well and they became a blended family and moved in together with her children, while his children moved to live with their mother.&nbsp;
Her partner lost his job and they downscaled so her children moved back to the house that anonymous and her ex husband used to live in.&nbsp;
He was a bit of a party animal and would come back home in the early hours of the morning, she called him out on this and he stopped that behaviour.&nbsp;
They then had a conflict of sorts and he ended up sleeping over the mother of his children&rsquo;s house...

Ask A Man 09 June '26: 'Will my man ever grow up?'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about thirteen years and they have one child together. 

Her partner has never really worked throughout their relationship and hasn’t had enough income to be financially supportive in their relationship. 

He recently got inheritance and now wants to marry anonymous but she’s not sure she wants to get married to a man who she doesn’t believe will make something of his life. 

He also wants them to move in to his family home, which is something she’s not keen to do. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about thirteen years and they have one child together.&nbsp;
Her partner has never really worked throughout their relationship and hasn&rsquo;t had enough income to be financially supportive in their relationship.&nbsp;
He recently got inheritance and now wants to marry anonymous but she&rsquo;s not sure she wants to get married to a man who she doesn&rsquo;t believe will make something of his life.&nbsp;
He also wants them to move in to his family home, which is something she&rsquo;s not keen to do.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 8 June '26: 'Will he be able to take care of our family in future?'

Anonymous met a guy last year who she vibed with and they had some really good times together. 

He told her he really liked her and that he wanted to date her, but when she told him that she has a 90-day rule before she can get intimate with a guy she’s seeing, he ghosted her. 

Months later they rekindled things again and this time she ended up sleeping with him, however, things got weird again between them. 

She’s tried to move on from him, but he keeps reappearing in her life and she’s doesn’t know how get over her feelings for him.

Anonymous met a guy last year who she vibed with and they had some really good times together.&nbsp;
He told her he really liked her and that he wanted to date her, but when she told him that she has a 90-day rule before she can get intimate with a guy she&rsquo;s seeing, he ghosted her.&nbsp;
Months later they rekindled things again and this time she ended up sleeping with him, however, things got weird again between them.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s tried to move on from him, but he keeps reappearing in her life and she&rsquo;s doesn&rsquo;t know how get over her feelings for him.

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