Anonymous has been with her partner for about 5 years now and says she was taking a break from relationships when she met him. 

As a single mother, she was attracted to the guy because he was a single father living with his children. The relationship was going well and they became a blended family and moved in together with her children, while his children moved to live with their mother. 

Her partner lost his job and they downscaled so her children moved back to the house that anonymous and her ex husband used to live in. 

He was a bit of a party animal and would come back home in the early hours of the morning, she called him out on this and he stopped that behaviour. 

They then had a conflict of sorts and he ended up sleeping over the mother of his children’s house...