Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for just over a year now and they have a 14-year age gap between them. 

Anonymous says they’ve been speaking about their future and it looks like they could get married but her partner already has 3 children from his previous 3 relationships and he doesn’t seem keen to have more children. 

Anonymous says she wants to be with him and build a future with him, but feels like even if he were to have a child with her, he would be doing it reluctantly.

Anonymous says she&rsquo;s been with her partner for just over a year now and they have a 14-year age gap between them.&nbsp;
Anonymous says they&rsquo;ve been speaking about their future and it looks like they could get married but her partner already has 3 children from his previous 3 relationships and he doesn&rsquo;t seem keen to have more children.&nbsp;
Anonymous says she wants to be with him and build a future with him, but feels like even if he were to have a child with her, he would be doing it reluctantly.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask a Man 29 April '25: 'My partner is not keen to have more children with me.'

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they have a child together. 

They broke things off last year after he saw another guy post pictures of their son on Tik Tok, as though he was his own. 

They eventually made up, however, he says she’s entertaining “17 guys” from her workplace. He doesn’t know how to deal with her behaviour towards his colleagues.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they have a child together.&nbsp;
They broke things off last year after he saw another guy post pictures of their son on Tik Tok, as though he was his own.&nbsp;
They eventually made up, however, he says she&rsquo;s entertaining &ldquo;17 guys&rdquo; from her workplace. He doesn&rsquo;t know how to deal with her behaviour towards his colleagues.

Ask A Man 17 March '26: My girlfriend is flirting with 17 guys at work.'

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they’ve been together. 

At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse. 

About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She’s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy. 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they&rsquo;ve been together.&nbsp;
At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse.&nbsp;
About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She&rsquo;s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 16 March '26: 'Should I leave my cheating husband for my side?' 

Anonymous called us last year and told us that he was secretly dating his best friend’s younger brother, and didn’t know whether he should tell his friend. 

In any case, the brother found out, broke off their friendship, and the family kicked the little brother out of the house because he wanted to continue dating anonymous. 

Months went by and while he was at a party in another city he ran into his ex friend and partner’s brother, they reconciled, ended up partying together, and shared a bed, at which point they had a sexual engagement.

Anonymous called us last year and told us that he was secretly dating his best friend&rsquo;s younger brother, and didn&rsquo;t know whether he should tell his friend.&nbsp;
In any case, the brother found out, broke off their friendship, and the family kicked the little brother out of the house because he wanted to continue dating anonymous.&nbsp;
Months went by and while he was at a party in another city he ran into his ex friend and partner&rsquo;s brother, they reconciled, ended up partying together, and shared a bed, at which point they had a sexual engagement.

Ask a Man 29 April '25: 'My partner is not keen to have more children with me.'

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