Anonymous says she’s been with her partner for just over a year now and they have a 14-year age gap between them. 

Anonymous says they’ve been speaking about their future and it looks like they could get married but her partner already has 3 children from his previous 3 relationships and he doesn’t seem keen to have more children. 

Anonymous says she wants to be with him and build a future with him, but feels like even if he were to have a child with her, he would be doing it reluctantly.

Anonymous says she&rsquo;s been with her partner for just over a year now and they have a 14-year age gap between them.&nbsp;
Anonymous says they&rsquo;ve been speaking about their future and it looks like they could get married but her partner already has 3 children from his previous 3 relationships and he doesn&rsquo;t seem keen to have more children.&nbsp;
Anonymous says she wants to be with him and build a future with him, but feels like even if he were to have a child with her, he would be doing it reluctantly.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man

Ask a Man 29 April '25: 'My partner is not keen to have more children with me.'

Anonymous says her marriage is toxic, she’s had enough of her husband’s antics and knows that she should end her marriage, but she’s struggling to actually leave. 

She says they have the public picture of the perfect marriage and that’s something that’s keeping her in the marriage. 

Another reason is because, despite knowing that he’ll never change, she continues to carry the hope that he’ll maybe change one day. 

She’s also struggling with idea of being single, as she doesn’t know how she’d be able to do this life thing without a partner. 

Anonymous says her marriage is toxic, she&rsquo;s had enough of her husband&rsquo;s antics and knows that she should end her marriage, but she&rsquo;s struggling to actually leave.&nbsp;
She says they have the public picture of the perfect marriage and that&rsquo;s something that&rsquo;s keeping her in the marriage.&nbsp;
Another reason is because, despite knowing that he&rsquo;ll never change, she continues to carry the hope that he&rsquo;ll maybe change one day.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s also struggling with idea of being single, as she doesn&rsquo;t know how she&rsquo;d be able to do this life thing without a partner.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 10 Sep '26: 'Over my toxic marriage, but struggling to leave.'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2023 and got into a relationship with him despite recognising that he’s a bit of player. 

At some point she found out that he was cheating on her with multiple women, but continued with the relationship believing that they are meant to be with each other. 

She fell pregnant and around this time found out that he was treating an STI that he didn’t tell her about it. 

There’s  also a specific lady who is her man’s sugar mama…

Anonymous met a guy back in 2023 and got into a relationship with him despite recognising that he&rsquo;s a bit of player.&nbsp;
At some point she found out that he was cheating on her with multiple women, but continued with the relationship believing that they are meant to be with each other.&nbsp;
She fell pregnant and around this time found out that he was treating an STI that he didn&rsquo;t tell her about it.&nbsp;
There&rsquo;s&nbsp; also a specific lady who is her man&rsquo;s sugar mama&hellip;

Ask A Man 09 Sep '26: 'Broke up over threesomes?'

Anonymous has been with her now husband shortly after matriculating. They got married a couple of years after meeting and they have two children together. 

The problem in their relationship is finances. She says they don’t communicate properly when it comes to finances in their relationship and he only brings her in when he’s facing trouble financially. She adds that at some point in their relationship he seemed to have a problem with gambling. 

Their relationship is now strained and they don’t even talk anymore. She’s taking care of their home and he only contributes every now and then. 

Anonymous has been with her now husband shortly after matriculating. They got married a couple of years after meeting and they have two children together.&nbsp;
The problem in their relationship is finances. She says they don&rsquo;t communicate properly when it comes to finances in their relationship and he only brings her in when he&rsquo;s facing trouble financially. She adds that at some point in their relationship he seemed to have a problem with gambling.&nbsp;
Their relationship is now strained and they don&rsquo;t even talk anymore. She&rsquo;s taking care of their home and he only contributes every now and then.&nbsp;

Ask a Man 29 April '25: 'My partner is not keen to have more children with me.'

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