Anonymous has been with her partner for about two years. 

They met during a tumultuous period in both their lives as he was going through a divorce when they met and months into their relationship she lost her mother. 

This meant that there was a lot of trauma bonding early in their relationship, however, as they healed from their difficult situations, they started to get into a lot of conflicts because of their different outlooks on life including marriage, children and financial prospects.

They’ve been separated for two months now, and she’s not sure if they should get back together.