Anonymous has been married to his high school sweetheart for 5 years now and they’ve known each other for 12 years. 

The problem he has is the frequency of sex in their relationship. He’d like to do it more, however, she’s not keen to do it as often. 

He adds that they’ve also lost two pregnancies and that’s affected his wife to the point that she’s suggested he get a second wife and that’s what he’s grappling with.

Anonymous has been married to his high school sweetheart for 5 years now and they&rsquo;ve known each other for 12 years.&nbsp;
The problem he has is the frequency of sex in their relationship. He&rsquo;d like to do it more, however, she&rsquo;s not keen to do it as often.&nbsp;
He adds that they&rsquo;ve also lost two pregnancies and that&rsquo;s affected his wife to the point that she&rsquo;s suggested he get a second wife and that&rsquo;s what he&rsquo;s grappling with.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask a Man 27 Nov '25: 'Should I take a second wife just for the bedroom?'

Anonymous met a lady at her local clinic as a client, they spent a lot of time together and says she now finds her self having strong feelings for this lady. 

She wants to share her feelings with the lady, but there are some complications…

 

Anonymous met a lady at her local clinic as a client, they spent a lot of time together and says she now finds her self having strong feelings for this lady.&nbsp;
She wants to share her feelings with the lady, but there are some complications&hellip;
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Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other. 

He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He’s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found an Instagram DM in which anonymous was asking for another lady’s number. 

They separated after this incident but ended up getting back together. He says things haven’t been the same ever since, as she’s constantly scanning his phone and bringing up things from the past, despite what he describes as a change in his behaviour. 

Anonymous started dating his partner a year ago, and says they both came into the relationship carrying a lot of relationship trauma and this led to them being paranoid and even spying on each other.&nbsp;
He loves his partner a lot but says his partner is struggling to trust him. He&rsquo;s never cheated on her but says when they were going through some challenges in their relationship, she found an Instagram DM in which anonymous was asking for another lady&rsquo;s number.&nbsp;
They separated after this incident but ended up getting back together. He says things haven&rsquo;t been the same ever since, as she&rsquo;s constantly scanning his phone and bringing up things from the past, despite what he describes as a change in his behaviour.&nbsp;

Ask a Man 27 Nov '25: 'Should I take a second wife just for the bedroom?'

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