Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they’ve been together for 5 years overall. 

She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner. 

Her problem is that she feels like he’s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he’s not very responsive. He doesn’t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that’s frustrating anonymous.

Anonymous and her partner have been married for three years now and they&rsquo;ve been together for 5 years overall.&nbsp;
She lost her job about a year ago and has been struggling to get something new, leaving her partner to be the sole breadwinner.&nbsp;
Her problem is that she feels like he&rsquo;s not financially ambitious enough, and when she suggests businesses they can get into to improve their finances, he&rsquo;s not very responsive. He doesn&rsquo;t seem to be interested in investing in their future and that&rsquo;s frustrating anonymous.

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Ask a Man 27 Aug '25: 'My partner is not ambitious'

Anonymous called us last year and told us that he was secretly dating his best friend’s younger brother, and didn’t know whether he should tell his friend. 

In any case, the brother found out, broke off their friendship, and the family kicked the little brother out of the house because he wanted to continue dating anonymous. 

Months went by and while he was at a party in another city he ran into his ex friend and partner’s brother, they reconciled, ended up partying together, and shared a bed, at which point they had a sexual engagement.

Anonymous called us last year and told us that he was secretly dating his best friend&rsquo;s younger brother, and didn&rsquo;t know whether he should tell his friend.&nbsp;
In any case, the brother found out, broke off their friendship, and the family kicked the little brother out of the house because he wanted to continue dating anonymous.&nbsp;
Months went by and while he was at a party in another city he ran into his ex friend and partner&rsquo;s brother, they reconciled, ended up partying together, and shared a bed, at which point they had a sexual engagement.

Ask A Man 13 March '26: 'Entangled with my ex-best friend and his brother.'

Anonymous is a widow, and after grieving her late husband she met someone else and she’s now in a relationship with. He came into their relationship with two children, she had one child, and they now have two children together. 

Her problem is how her husband seems to be going out of his way to give the mother of his children money. She says he claims the money is for the children but she’s struggling to believe him and thinks there might be something untoward happening between him and the mother of his other children. 

Anonymous is a widow, and after grieving her late husband she met someone else and she&rsquo;s now in a relationship with. He came into their relationship with two children, she had one child, and they now have two children together.&nbsp;
Her problem is how her husband seems to be going out of his way to give the mother of his children money. She says he claims the money is for the children but she&rsquo;s struggling to believe him and thinks there might be something untoward happening between him and the mother of his other children.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 12 March '26: 'Is the money he's giving his ex really for their kids?'

Anonymous has been dating a married for about two years and says their side relationship was going well and the man was also taking care of her and her child financially. 

Late last year, she met a single man, they hit it off and started dating. She broke up with the married man, he got upset at her and now wants her to pay him back all the money he spent on her. 

Anonymous has been dating a married for about two years and says their side relationship was going well and the man was also taking care of her and her child financially.&nbsp;
Late last year, she met a single man, they hit it off and started dating. She broke up with the married man, he got upset at her and now wants her to pay him back all the money he spent on her.&nbsp;

Ask a Man 27 Aug '25: 'My partner is not ambitious'

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