Anonymous's marriage is in tatters, her husband of 20 years paid lobola for another woman in secret, not only that but he's also impregnated a young woman from the same neighbourhood where anonymous lives. Is this what through thick and thin means in marital vows or should she leave?

Anonymous's marriage is in tatters, her husband of 20 years paid lobola for another woman in secret, not only that but he's also impregnated a young woman from the same neighbourhood where anonymous lives. Is this what through thick and thin means in marital vows or should she leave?

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A MAn 27/10/22

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 5 years, she’s in her mid-twenties and he’s in his late twenties. 

Her problem with him is that he doesn’t seem to want to work. He’s not interested in looking and he currently doesn’t work. He’s been this way since she’s been with him and when she asks him why he’s not working he has many excuses, including his spirituality. 

She’s now broken up with him, however, he wants to get back together with her and she’s not sure if she should, because she does love him but worries about his lack of ambition.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 5 years, she&rsquo;s in her mid-twenties and he&rsquo;s in his late twenties.&nbsp;
Her problem with him is that he doesn&rsquo;t seem to want to work. He&rsquo;s not interested in looking and he currently doesn&rsquo;t work. He&rsquo;s been this way since she&rsquo;s been with him and when she asks him why he&rsquo;s not working he has many excuses, including his spirituality.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s now broken up with him, however, he wants to get back together with her and she&rsquo;s not sure if she should, because she does love him but worries about his lack of ambition.

Ask a Man 29 June '26: 'Tired of his lack of ambition'

Anonymous met a guy who lives in her complex mid-last year, they hit it off and started dating. 

Around September last year they had a miscommunication and things became a bit tense between them. They never really spoke about what happened between them and their relationship just fizzled out from there. 

Fast forward to this year, she needed closure about why things ended, so she confronted the guy, and while she felt like he left her, he thought she broke things off.

Right now she’s in a position where she’s wondering if he wants to be with her. 

Anonymous met a guy who lives in her complex mid-last year, they hit it off and started dating.&nbsp;
Around September last year they had a miscommunication and things became a bit tense between them. They never really spoke about what happened between them and their relationship just fizzled out from there.&nbsp;
Fast forward to this year, she needed closure about why things ended, so she confronted the guy, and while she felt like he left her, he thought she broke things off.
Right now she&rsquo;s in a position where she&rsquo;s wondering if he wants to be with her.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 26 June '26: 'Is my neighbour/boyfriend into me?'

Anonymous got married in her late teens and has now been with her husband for 13 years. 

Her marriage has been generally fine during this time and they have children with her husband. 

She met a man from another country through work, who she was in charge of taking care off while he was in the country, and there’s a spark between them. 

She hasn’t done anything with this man despite his advances and gifts, however, she does find herself feeling stimulated by him and this situation. 

She’s wondering if this is infidelity and what she needs to do. 

Anonymous got married in her late teens and has now been with her husband for 13 years.&nbsp;
Her marriage has been generally fine during this time and they have children with her husband.&nbsp;
She met a man from another country through work, who she was in charge of taking care off while he was in the country, and there&rsquo;s a spark between them.&nbsp;
She hasn&rsquo;t done anything with this man despite his advances and gifts, however, she does find herself feeling stimulated by him and this situation.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s wondering if this is infidelity and what she needs to do.&nbsp;

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