Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars…

She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going well. 

She recently met guy no.2 online and he lives overseas. She says things are going well in that 6 month relationship and he even wants to marry her with his Dollars. 

However, guy no.1 wants to get serious with her and also wants to marry anonymous with his Rands.

Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars&hellip;
She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going well.&nbsp;
She recently met guy no.2 online and he lives overseas. She says things are going well in that 6 month relationship and he even wants to marry her with his Dollars.&nbsp;
However, guy no.1 wants to get serious with her and also wants to marry anonymous with his Rands.

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Ask A Man 26 Aug '26: 'Should I accept lobola in Rands or Dollars?'

Anonymous is calling on behalf of her friend, who has been in a toxic relationship for many years now and has children with her partner. 

This has been going on for many years and as friends they’ve been trying to support her but it’s become a lot and the children are also voicing how the abuse in the house has become too much. 

Her parter has expressed that she really would love to leave this relationship but doesn’t know how to go about doing that.

Anonymous is calling on behalf of her friend, who has been in a toxic relationship for many years now and has children with her partner.&nbsp;
This has been going on for many years and as friends they&rsquo;ve been trying to support her but it&rsquo;s become a lot and the children are also voicing how the abuse in the house has become too much.&nbsp;
Her parter has expressed that she really would love to leave this relationship but doesn&rsquo;t know how to go about doing that.

Ask A Man 25 Aug '26

Anonymous and his partner started dating in 2018 and broke up in 2022. They then got back together in 2023 and have been together ever since. 

He recently found out that she had been having an affair with another man, after the same men told him and shared explicit pictures and videos as evidence of the affair. 

He confronted her about it, she apologised and said that she was done with the guy and was willing to tell anonymous anything he wants to know about the affair, which allowed them to move forward with their relationship. 

However, anonymous is struggling to move forward as he reflects on the extent of this betrayal…

Anonymous and his partner started dating in 2018 and broke up in 2022. They then got back together in 2023 and have been together ever since.&nbsp;
He recently found out that she had been having an affair with another man, after the same men told him and shared explicit pictures and videos as evidence of the affair.&nbsp;
He confronted her about it, she apologised and said that she was done with the guy and was willing to tell anonymous anything he wants to know about the affair, which allowed them to move forward with their relationship.&nbsp;
However, anonymous is struggling to move forward as he reflects on the extent of this betrayal&hellip;

Ask A Man 24 Aug '26: 'Has really changed from her cheating ways?'

Anonymous, who has been with her current partner for about six years, says she always knew their relationship wouldn’t end in marriage.  She’s a writer and has written books about her past abusive relationships, which her partner has read. However, she says that whenever they argue, he brings up her previous partners, claiming he understands why they treated her that way.

Anonymous, who has been with her current partner for about six years, says she always knew their relationship wouldn&rsquo;t end in marriage.&nbsp; She&rsquo;s a writer and has written books about her past abusive relationships, which her partner has read. However, she says that whenever they argue, he brings up her previous partners, claiming he understands why they treated her that way.

Ask A Man 26 Aug '26: 'Should I accept lobola in Rands or Dollars?'

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