Anonymous met a man on a dating site about three weeks ago, and she’s enjoying getting to know him but he seems to only be available to her during office hours. 

She confronted him about this behaviour and he said it’s because he’s struggled with insomnia in the past and is often off his phone in the evenings to remedy this. He also added that he’s been single for a long time and is readjusting to dating. 

His communication, after hours, hasn’t improved, and anonymous is not sure what to read into this.

Anonymous met a man on a dating site about three weeks ago, and she&rsquo;s enjoying getting to know him but he seems to only be available to her during office hours.&nbsp;
She confronted him about this behaviour and he said it&rsquo;s because he&rsquo;s struggled with insomnia in the past and is often off his phone in the evenings to remedy this. He also added that he&rsquo;s been single for a long time and is readjusting to dating.&nbsp;
His communication, after hours, hasn&rsquo;t improved, and anonymous is not sure what to read into this.

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Anonymous met his wife in 2005, and they later got married after having a child in 2010.

After getting married they started attending the same church, which is his church. There’s an elderly lady on the worship team at their church who stated that there’s a prophecy that anonymous would need to leave his wife for this lady’s daughter. 

This information was shared with anonymous’ wife, but it was told to her as though it’s something that’s actually happening….

Anonymous met his wife in 2005, and they later got married after having a child in 2010.
After getting married they started attending the same church, which is his church. There&rsquo;s an elderly lady on the worship team at their church who stated that there&rsquo;s a prophecy that anonymous would need to leave his wife for this lady&rsquo;s daughter.&nbsp;
This information was shared with anonymous&rsquo; wife, but it was told to her as though it&rsquo;s something that&rsquo;s actually happening&hellip;.

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Anonymous is the eldest son in his family and only has sisters, and he’s now also married. 

Her wife has deep Christian beliefs and his mother is a sangoma, so his family tends to follow Traditional African religion. 

His younger sister has taken ill and his uncle suggested they visit a sangoma in Mozambique who could help his sister. 

He told his wife about his intention to support his family in taking his sister to this sangoma but she didn’t take this well and said anonymous is now inviting other spirits into their home. 

Anonymous is the eldest son in his family and only has sisters, and he&rsquo;s now also married.&nbsp;
Her wife has deep Christian beliefs and his mother is a sangoma, so his family tends to follow Traditional African religion.&nbsp;
His younger sister has taken ill and his uncle suggested they visit a sangoma in Mozambique who could help his sister.&nbsp;
He told his wife about his intention to support his family in taking his sister to this sangoma but she didn&rsquo;t take this well and said anonymous is now inviting other spirits into their home.&nbsp;

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You've heard the conversations on Metro FM for years... and now &ldquo;Ask A Man&rdquo; is coming to S3!
Got a relationship dilemma?
A situationship that's gone sideways?
Mixed signals?
Heartbreak?
Or a question you've never had the courage to ask?
Share your story and it could be featured on the TV show&mdash;all completely anonymous.
Joining Khutso for more details is&nbsp;Video Entertainment Marketing Manager, Dichaba Phalatse.

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