Anonymous met a man on a dating site about three weeks ago, and she’s enjoying getting to know him but he seems to only be available to her during office hours. 

She confronted him about this behaviour and he said it’s because he’s struggled with insomnia in the past and is often off his phone in the evenings to remedy this. He also added that he’s been single for a long time and is readjusting to dating. 

His communication, after hours, hasn’t improved, and anonymous is not sure what to read into this.

Anonymous met a man on a dating site about three weeks ago, and she&rsquo;s enjoying getting to know him but he seems to only be available to her during office hours.&nbsp;
She confronted him about this behaviour and he said it&rsquo;s because he&rsquo;s struggled with insomnia in the past and is often off his phone in the evenings to remedy this. He also added that he&rsquo;s been single for a long time and is readjusting to dating.&nbsp;
His communication, after hours, hasn&rsquo;t improved, and anonymous is not sure what to read into this.

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask a Man 25 June '25: 'He's only available during office hours.'

Anonymous met a guy late last year and they got involved in a casual relationship with each other despite the fact that they were each in relationships with other people. 

Things got a bit more serious between her and this guy, while things ended between her and her partner. 

She’s now pregnant with his child but says he’s ill treating her and not giving her the attention she deserves. 

Anonymous met a guy late last year and they got involved in a casual relationship with each other despite the fact that they were each in relationships with other people.&nbsp;
Things got a bit more serious between her and this guy, while things ended between her and her partner.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s now pregnant with his child but says he&rsquo;s ill treating her and not giving her the attention she deserves.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 18 March '26: 'He's focused on his main partner despite my pregnancy'

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they have a child together. 

They broke things off last year after he saw another guy post pictures of their son on Tik Tok, as though he was his own. 

They eventually made up, however, he says she’s entertaining “17 guys” from her workplace. He doesn’t know how to deal with her behaviour towards his colleagues.

Anonymous has been with his partner for about 6 years now and they have a child together.&nbsp;
They broke things off last year after he saw another guy post pictures of their son on Tik Tok, as though he was his own.&nbsp;
They eventually made up, however, he says she&rsquo;s entertaining &ldquo;17 guys&rdquo; from her workplace. He doesn&rsquo;t know how to deal with her behaviour towards his colleagues.

Ask A Man 17 March '26: My girlfriend is flirting with 17 guys at work.'

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they’ve been together. 

At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse. 

About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She’s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy. 

Anonymous and her husband have been together for 10 years but she says he has been unfaithful from early on in their relationship and has fathered multiple children while they&rsquo;ve been together.&nbsp;
At some point she did leave him for his behaviour but she was persuaded by her family to take him back and he bought her a car as a symbol of his remorse.&nbsp;
About a year ago she met another man and she has been having an affair with this man, who she says has been lovely to her. She&rsquo;s wondering if she should leave her marriage for this new guy.&nbsp;

Ask a Man 25 June '25: 'He's only available during office hours.'

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