Anonymous and her partner have been together for 10 years and they’ve been married for about 3 of those years. 

She has a mental illness and she has relapsed a few times over the duration of their relationship, and the last relapse she had was as a result of her pregnancy. 

They now have one child together and she would like to have another child, as that was their plan, but her partner is not sure if having another baby is worth destabilising anonymous’ mental health.

Anonymous and her partner have been together for 10 years and they&rsquo;ve been married for about 3 of those years.&nbsp;
She has a mental illness and she has relapsed a few times over the duration of their relationship, and the last relapse she had was as a result of her pregnancy.&nbsp;
They now have one child together and she would like to have another child, as that was their plan, but her partner is not sure if having another baby is worth destabilising anonymous&rsquo; mental health.

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Anonymous has been with her partner for about 6 years now, they have two children together and they are in a long distance relationship. 

She feels like he’s a bad communicator, they can go days without him calling her and he seems to be ok with that. She adds that even when they do talk he never talks about himself or what he’s going through in his life. 

She’s feeling lonely in her relationship and doesn’t know how to deal with that. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 6 years now, they have two children together and they are in a long distance relationship.&nbsp;
She feels like he&rsquo;s a bad communicator, they can go days without him calling her and he seems to be ok with that. She adds that even when they do talk he never talks about himself or what he&rsquo;s going through in his life.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s feeling lonely in her relationship and doesn&rsquo;t know how to deal with that.&nbsp;

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Anonymous says her marriage is toxic, she’s had enough of her husband’s antics and knows that she should end her marriage, but she’s struggling to actually leave. 

She says they have the public picture of the perfect marriage and that’s something that’s keeping her in the marriage. 

Another reason is because, despite knowing that he’ll never change, she continues to carry the hope that he’ll maybe change one day. 

She’s also struggling with idea of being single, as she doesn’t know how she’d be able to do this life thing without a partner. 

Anonymous says her marriage is toxic, she&rsquo;s had enough of her husband&rsquo;s antics and knows that she should end her marriage, but she&rsquo;s struggling to actually leave.&nbsp;
She says they have the public picture of the perfect marriage and that&rsquo;s something that&rsquo;s keeping her in the marriage.&nbsp;
Another reason is because, despite knowing that he&rsquo;ll never change, she continues to carry the hope that he&rsquo;ll maybe change one day.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s also struggling with idea of being single, as she doesn&rsquo;t know how she&rsquo;d be able to do this life thing without a partner.&nbsp;

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Anonymous met a guy back in 2023 and got into a relationship with him despite recognising that he’s a bit of player. 

At some point she found out that he was cheating on her with multiple women, but continued with the relationship believing that they are meant to be with each other. 

She fell pregnant and around this time found out that he was treating an STI that he didn’t tell her about it. 

There’s  also a specific lady who is her man’s sugar mama…

Anonymous met a guy back in 2023 and got into a relationship with him despite recognising that he&rsquo;s a bit of player.&nbsp;
At some point she found out that he was cheating on her with multiple women, but continued with the relationship believing that they are meant to be with each other.&nbsp;
She fell pregnant and around this time found out that he was treating an STI that he didn&rsquo;t tell her about it.&nbsp;
There&rsquo;s&nbsp; also a specific lady who is her man&rsquo;s sugar mama&hellip;

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