Anonymous has been with his partner for about 10 years now and says their relationship has been generally good.

A few weeks ago, while at a party, he met another lady, they hit it off, and he started having an affair with this lady. While he is just having a fun sexual relationship, this lady, who is married, wants things to get more serious between them.

Anonymous is not sure what to do as the only reason he entwined this affair is because the sex between him and his partner has become dull.