Anonymous has been with her partner for four years and things were fine until she realised that her partner had a drinking problem and spent a lot of time with her friends partying. 

She brought this up often with her partner but her partner would respond by accusing anonymous of being controlling and not wanting her to have a good time. 

Communication remains a big problem in their relationship as they don’t seem to see eye to eye.

Anonymous has been with her partner for four years and things were fine until she realised that her partner had a drinking problem and spent a lot of time with her friends partying.&nbsp;
She brought this up often with her partner but her partner would respond by accusing anonymous of being controlling and not wanting her to have a good time.&nbsp;
Communication remains a big problem in their relationship as they don&rsquo;t seem to see eye to eye.

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Ask a Man 22 July '25: 'Can I make it work with a partner that's an alcoholic?'

Anonymous is a foreign national and says that actually caused issues in his relationship when he wanted to marry his South African partner, as her family were xenophobic towards him. 

They eventually got married, and had a child together. After getting a new job, he met a lady at the workplace who he got involved with and even sponsored her life. 

Anonymous is a foreign national and says that actually caused issues in his relationship when he wanted to marry his South African partner, as her family were xenophobic towards him.&nbsp;
They eventually got married, and had a child together. After getting a new job, he met a lady at the workplace who he got involved with and even sponsored her life.&nbsp;

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Anonymous has been with his partner for over 6 years now and says their relationship was really great in the beginning despite facing challenges of being a same-sex couple.

They also faced financial challenges as his partner was still in school when they started dating, he even ended up moving in with anonymous during the COVID pandemic….

Anonymous has been with his partner for over 6 years now and says their relationship was really great in the beginning despite facing challenges of being a same-sex couple.
They also faced financial challenges as his partner was still in school when they started dating, he even ended up moving in with anonymous during the COVID pandemic&hellip;.

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Anonymous has been with his partner for five years. He supported her financially as she was unemployed when they met. 

She eventually found a job in another province and moved there. He then lost his job and decided to move in with her but when he got there he realised she was cheating on him. 

He forgave her and they moved on but she continued to cheat on him. He wants to leave her, but he’s financially reliant on her and he’s not sure if he can break things off with her. 

Anonymous has been with his partner for five years. He supported her financially as she was unemployed when they met.&nbsp;
She eventually found a job in another province and moved there. He then lost his job and decided to move in with her but when he got there he realised she was cheating on him.&nbsp;
He forgave her and they moved on but she continued to cheat on him. He wants to leave her, but he&rsquo;s financially reliant on her and he&rsquo;s not sure if he can break things off with her.&nbsp;

Ask a Man 22 July '25: 'Can I make it work with a partner that's an alcoholic?'

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