Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they’ve been together for about twenty years. 

They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he’s been with for about 8 years on the side. 

She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.

She’s over it now, as her husband is “playing happy families” with their children and the other child and the other woman.

Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they&rsquo;ve been together for about twenty years.&nbsp;
They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he&rsquo;s been with for about 8 years on the side.&nbsp;
She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.
She&rsquo;s over it now, as her husband is &ldquo;playing happy families&rdquo; with their children and the other child and the other woman.

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Ask A Man 02 Sep '26: 'My husband is playing happy families with his side and our children.'

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 6 years now, they have two children together and they are in a long distance relationship. 

She feels like he’s a bad communicator, they can go days without him calling her and he seems to be ok with that. She adds that even when they do talk he never talks about himself or what he’s going through in his life. 

She’s feeling lonely in her relationship and doesn’t know how to deal with that. 

Anonymous has been with her partner for about 6 years now, they have two children together and they are in a long distance relationship.&nbsp;
She feels like he&rsquo;s a bad communicator, they can go days without him calling her and he seems to be ok with that. She adds that even when they do talk he never talks about himself or what he&rsquo;s going through in his life.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s feeling lonely in her relationship and doesn&rsquo;t know how to deal with that.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 11 Sep '26: 'I feel lonely in my relationship.'

Anonymous says her marriage is toxic, she’s had enough of her husband’s antics and knows that she should end her marriage, but she’s struggling to actually leave. 

She says they have the public picture of the perfect marriage and that’s something that’s keeping her in the marriage. 

Another reason is because, despite knowing that he’ll never change, she continues to carry the hope that he’ll maybe change one day. 

She’s also struggling with idea of being single, as she doesn’t know how she’d be able to do this life thing without a partner. 

Anonymous says her marriage is toxic, she&rsquo;s had enough of her husband&rsquo;s antics and knows that she should end her marriage, but she&rsquo;s struggling to actually leave.&nbsp;
She says they have the public picture of the perfect marriage and that&rsquo;s something that&rsquo;s keeping her in the marriage.&nbsp;
Another reason is because, despite knowing that he&rsquo;ll never change, she continues to carry the hope that he&rsquo;ll maybe change one day.&nbsp;
She&rsquo;s also struggling with idea of being single, as she doesn&rsquo;t know how she&rsquo;d be able to do this life thing without a partner.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 10 Sep '26: 'Over my toxic marriage, but struggling to leave.'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2023 and got into a relationship with him despite recognising that he’s a bit of player. 

At some point she found out that he was cheating on her with multiple women, but continued with the relationship believing that they are meant to be with each other. 

She fell pregnant and around this time found out that he was treating an STI that he didn’t tell her about it. 

There’s  also a specific lady who is her man’s sugar mama…

Anonymous met a guy back in 2023 and got into a relationship with him despite recognising that he&rsquo;s a bit of player.&nbsp;
At some point she found out that he was cheating on her with multiple women, but continued with the relationship believing that they are meant to be with each other.&nbsp;
She fell pregnant and around this time found out that he was treating an STI that he didn&rsquo;t tell her about it.&nbsp;
There&rsquo;s&nbsp; also a specific lady who is her man&rsquo;s sugar mama&hellip;

Ask A Man 02 Sep '26: 'My husband is playing happy families with his side and our children.'

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