Anonymous and her partner have been together for almost 9 years now. 

She says in the early years of their relationship she ended up getting a loan for him to be able to purchase a car, on his request. He had said he’d pay it off, but he had financial struggles and she needed up paying off the loan. 

They eventually got married and decided to get a house together but he didn’t qualify for a mortgage so she ended up getting the house under her name.

They are married in community of property…

Anonymous and her partner have been together for almost 9 years now.&nbsp;
She says in the early years of their relationship she ended up getting a loan for him to be able to purchase a car, on his request. He had said he&rsquo;d pay it off, but he had financial struggles and she needed up paying off the loan.&nbsp;
They eventually got married and decided to get a house together but he didn&rsquo;t qualify for a mortgage so she ended up getting the house under her name.
They are married in community of property&hellip;

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The team answers all your relationship questions on Ask A Man 

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Ask A Man 02 March '26: 'I pay for everything in this relationship.'

Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged. 

Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage. 

The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with him reconnecting with his long-lost father who seemed to encourage his drinking and infidelity. 

They managed to work through this but he is now having an affair with another lady…

Anonymous met a guy in October 2021, they dated for 19 days before they got engaged.&nbsp;
Just as the lobola proceedings were about to begin she fell pregnant so they put a pause on their marriage.&nbsp;
The guy started cheating on her months into the relationship and says the behaviour also coincided with him reconnecting with his long-lost father who seemed to encourage his drinking and infidelity.&nbsp;
They managed to work through this but he is now having an affair with another lady&hellip;

Ask A Man 27 Aug '26: 'My partner's father is a bad influence.'

Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars…

She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going well. 

She recently met guy no.2 online and he lives overseas. She says things are going well in that 6 month relationship and he even wants to marry her with his Dollars. 

However, guy no.1 wants to get serious with her and also wants to marry anonymous with his Rands.

Anonymous is asking whether she should accept lobola in rands or in dollars&hellip;
She started dating guy no.1 two years after the end of her 25 year marriage. Things were going well with guy no.1 and they had solid future plans until she realised that he was cheating on her and things were not going well.&nbsp;
She recently met guy no.2 online and he lives overseas. She says things are going well in that 6 month relationship and he even wants to marry her with his Dollars.&nbsp;
However, guy no.1 wants to get serious with her and also wants to marry anonymous with his Rands.

Ask A Man 26 Aug '26: 'Should I accept lobola in Rands or Dollars?'

Anonymous is calling on behalf of her friend, who has been in a toxic relationship for many years now and has children with her partner. 

This has been going on for many years and as friends they’ve been trying to support her but it’s become a lot and the children are also voicing how the abuse in the house has become too much. 

Her parter has expressed that she really would love to leave this relationship but doesn’t know how to go about doing that.

Anonymous is calling on behalf of her friend, who has been in a toxic relationship for many years now and has children with her partner.&nbsp;
This has been going on for many years and as friends they&rsquo;ve been trying to support her but it&rsquo;s become a lot and the children are also voicing how the abuse in the house has become too much.&nbsp;
Her parter has expressed that she really would love to leave this relationship but doesn&rsquo;t know how to go about doing that.

Ask A Man 02 March '26: 'I pay for everything in this relationship.'

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