Anonymous and her partner have been together for almost 9 years now. 

She says in the early years of their relationship she ended up getting a loan for him to be able to purchase a car, on his request. He had said he’d pay it off, but he had financial struggles and she needed up paying off the loan. 

They eventually got married and decided to get a house together but he didn’t qualify for a mortgage so she ended up getting the house under her name.

They are married in community of property…

Anonymous and her partner have been together for almost 9 years now.&nbsp;
She says in the early years of their relationship she ended up getting a loan for him to be able to purchase a car, on his request. He had said he&rsquo;d pay it off, but he had financial struggles and she needed up paying off the loan.&nbsp;
They eventually got married and decided to get a house together but he didn&rsquo;t qualify for a mortgage so she ended up getting the house under her name.
They are married in community of property&hellip;

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Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career. 

When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.

However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn’t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family. 

They now have an 8 month-old baby but he’s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to. 

Anonymous met her current partner while she was in varsity, while he was already working and had an established career.&nbsp;
When she was younger she was more interested in building her career in her twenties and then maybe building a family in her early thirties.
However, her partner was really keen to get married and have children, something she wasn&rsquo;t really keen for this early in her life but he was taking care of her and was really serious about her which she feels made her more open to the idea of settling down and building a family.&nbsp;
They now have an 8 month-old baby but he&rsquo;s changed his tune and is no longer supporting her and their baby in the way he used to.&nbsp;

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Anonymous has been with a man she’s “in love” with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s. 

The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either.

She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She’s wondering if she’s the only women in his life. 

Anonymous has been with a man she&rsquo;s &ldquo;in love&rdquo; with for about three years now, and they are both in their 50s.&nbsp;
The relationship is going amazing, however, she has never been to his place and he always comes to his place. She has never met his family either and he never wants to go on extended vacations either.
She brought this up and he said she must give him time to figure things out in his life. She&rsquo;s wondering if she&rsquo;s the only women in his life.&nbsp;

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