Anonymous rekindled things with her ex about a year ago. He broke up with her the first time they dated because he felt like he couldn’t provide for her “as a man” should.

After getting back together they spoke about expectations they have of each other but she now feels like he’s expecting too much from her, especially in terms of house chores. 

They don’t live together and he expects her to perform all kinds of chores at his place and she doesn’t understand this. She wonders if this is a red flag.

Anonymous rekindled things with her ex about a year ago. He broke up with her the first time they dated because he felt like he couldn&rsquo;t provide for her &ldquo;as a man&rdquo; should.
After getting back together they spoke about expectations they have of each other but she now feels like he&rsquo;s expecting too much from her, especially in terms of house chores.&nbsp;
They don&rsquo;t live together and he expects her to perform all kinds of chores at his place and she doesn&rsquo;t understand this. She wonders if this is a red flag.

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Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they’ve been together for about twenty years. 

They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he’s been with for about 8 years on the side. 

She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.

She’s over it now, as her husband is “playing happy families” with their children and the other child and the other woman.

Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they&rsquo;ve been together for about twenty years.&nbsp;
They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he&rsquo;s been with for about 8 years on the side.&nbsp;
She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.
She&rsquo;s over it now, as her husband is &ldquo;playing happy families&rdquo; with their children and the other child and the other woman.

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Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised. 

They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other. 

They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he’s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication. 

Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised.&nbsp;
They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other.&nbsp;
They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he&rsquo;s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication.&nbsp;

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