Anonymous is a foreign national and says that actually caused issues in his relationship when he wanted to marry his South African partner, as her family were xenophobic towards him. 

They eventually got married, and had a child together. After getting a new job, he met a lady at the workplace who he got involved with and even sponsored her life. 

Anonymous is a foreign national and says that actually caused issues in his relationship when he wanted to marry his South African partner, as her family were xenophobic towards him.&nbsp;
They eventually got married, and had a child together. After getting a new job, he met a lady at the workplace who he got involved with and even sponsored her life.&nbsp;

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Ask  A Man 10 March '26: 'Is my infidelity the end of us?' 

Anonymous met a lady over a year ago, they hit off, and started dating. 

Months into the relationship he realised that she wasn’t really doing anything career wise, at which point he assisted her in finding a job but she said to him she wasn’t ready to work but would be good to go in 2026. 

Since the start of 2026 she hasn’t really looked or shown any interested in finding a job which frustrates him because he has to shoulder the financial burden in the relationship.

She’s mentioned to him that she’s not looking because she’s not well educated. However, he’s not happy with this situation. 

Anonymous met a lady over a year ago, they hit off, and started dating.&nbsp;
Months into the relationship he realised that she wasn&rsquo;t really doing anything career wise, at which point he assisted her in finding a job but she said to him she wasn&rsquo;t ready to work but would be good to go in 2026.&nbsp;
Since the start of 2026 she hasn&rsquo;t really looked or shown any interested in finding a job which frustrates him because he has to shoulder the financial burden in the relationship.
She&rsquo;s mentioned to him that she&rsquo;s not looking because she&rsquo;s not well educated. However, he&rsquo;s not happy with this situation.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 03 Sep '26: 'I'm tired of sponsoring her life.'

Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they’ve been together for about twenty years. 

They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he’s been with for about 8 years on the side. 

She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.

She’s over it now, as her husband is “playing happy families” with their children and the other child and the other woman.

Anonymous has been married to her husband for twelve years and they&rsquo;ve been together for about twenty years.&nbsp;
They have two children together and her husband secretly fathered another child about five years ago with a woman he&rsquo;s been with for about 8 years on the side.&nbsp;
She found out about the child three years ago and they were able to move forward with their relationship.
She&rsquo;s over it now, as her husband is &ldquo;playing happy families&rdquo; with their children and the other child and the other woman.

Ask A Man 02 Sep '26: 'My husband is playing happy families with his side and our children.'

Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised. 

They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other. 

They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he’s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication. 

Anonymous met a guy back in 2024 while she was going through a divorce and they had a casual relationship which remained non-sexual until after her divorce was finalised.&nbsp;
They continued with their friends with benefits situation until they both realised they had caught feelings and wanted something more serious with each other.&nbsp;
They are now in a committed relationship, however, she feels like he&rsquo;s not a good communicator, which is also a trigger for her because of an incident that happened in her past, that has left her needed constant communication.&nbsp;

Ask A Man 10 March '26: 'Is my infidelity the end of us?'

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