Anonymous is a foreign national and says that actually caused issues in his relationship when he wanted to marry his South African partner, as her family were xenophobic towards him.
They eventually got married, and had a child together. After getting a new job, he met a lady at the workplace who he got involved with and even sponsored her life.

Ask A Man 14 May '26: 'Does he really love me or just likes having her around.'
34:13

Ask A Man 13 May '26: 'Has he always been toying with me?'
31:20

Ask A Man 12 May '26: 'Is he really my mine?'
25:31