Anonymous is married with 4 children and she’s been with her partner since high school 20 years ago. Anonymous says in the beginning years of their relationship, anonymous’ partner cheated on her and she wanted to leave but he convinced her that he was serious about her by completing the lobola and finalising their marriage. Anonymous says the issue now is that her husband lost his job and as he was struggling to find his feet they consulted with a traditional healer who told anonymous and her husband that the lady anonymous’ husband had an affair with affected has put some sort of spell on him that won’t allow him to become financially successful.