Do you ever feel frustrated that your life isn’t moving the way you want it to?

What if the problem isn’t a lack of motivation—but a misalignment between what you want and what you’re investing in?

And what if the reason things haven’t changed yet has more to do with safety, identity, and belief than effort?

In this episode of A Really Good Cry, Radhi opens up an honest, grounding conversation about why the life you want might still feel out of reach—and how your time, energy, beliefs, and nervous system are quietly shaping your reality. From the difference between fantasizing and truly investing, to the way identity, fear, and old patterns can hold you back, this episode is an invitation to look at your life with curiosity instead of judgment.

Rather than pushing you to “try harder” or think more positively, Radhi explores how real change happens when your actions, beliefs, and sense of self begin to align—and why sometimes the thing blocking your growth isn’t laziness, but protection.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why your life reflects what you’re funding, not what you’re wishing for
• How misalignment between words and actions keeps you stuck
• What “identity lag” is and why growth can feel uncomfortable even when you’re doing everything right
• Why your nervous system may not feel safe receiving what you want yet
• How belief, optimism, and small shifts in action can gently change your direction

This isn’t about blaming yourself or overhauling your life overnight—it’s about awareness, honesty, and making space for alignment. Sometimes the shift you’re waiting for doesn’t come from doing more, but from seeing clearly where you already are—and choosing one small change in the right direction.

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