From Reaction to Regulation
Why do we react before we can think?
In this episode of Transcending Trauma, Moniquea explores what really happens in the body when we get triggered and how to build the capacity to regulate in real time.
Drawing on Polyvagal Theory, Somatic Experiencing, parts work, body psychotherapy, and relational teachings from Terry Real, this conversation explores why the nervous system moves faster than the thinking brain and how the past can become superimposed onto the present in moments of activation.
Through reflection and three guided somatic practices, you will learn how to recognise your personal trigger patterns, interrupt reactive survival responses, and return to presence in the heat of the moment.
Regulation is not about becoming unshakeable.
It is about becoming recoverable.
Because when you learn to regulate your nervous system, you do not just calm your body. You reshape your relationships.
In the next episode we explore Secure Attachment in Action and what emotional security actually looks like in everyday life.

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