Most of us build confidence on outcomes, which means it rises when things go well and drops when they don’t. In this episode, Carly explores a Stoic practice known as the reserve clause, the idea of committing fully to your actions while accepting that the result is not entirely in your control.

Drawing on Stoic philosophy, she explains how shifting your focus from outcomes to effort, intention, and how you show up creates a more stable form of confidence. You’ll also hear how practising arete, or excellence of character, allows you to respond well in both success and failure.

A simple mindset shift before and after challenges can help you build confidence you can actually rely on, regardless of what happens.