Host Dr Paul Taylor, a Psychophysiologist, Neuroscientist, Exercise Scientist, and Nutritionist interviews experts from around the world on cutting edge research and practices related to improving hardiness in your mind, body and brain to become your best self.

Host Dr Paul Taylor, a Psychophysiologist, Neuroscientist, Exercise Scientist, and Nutritionist interviews experts from around the world on cutting edge research and practices related to improving hardiness in your mind, body and brain to become your best self.

Hardiness with Dr Paul Taylor

Host Dr Paul Taylor, a Psychophysiologist, Neuroscientist, Exercise Scientist, and Nutritionist interviews experts from around the world on cutting edge research and practices related to improving hardiness in your mind, body and brain to become your best self. 

Host Dr Paul Taylor, a Psychophysiologist, Neuroscientist, Exercise Scientist, and Nutritionist interviews experts from around the world on cutting edge research and practices related to improving hardiness in your mind, body and brain to become your best self.&nbsp;

Effective ways to prevent and treat depression: Wisdom Wednesdays

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You can't stop life surprising you, but you can train for it. This week: hardiness, hard winter training, and one small language shift you can use today.

This week on Mojo Monday Carly is looking at something we all live with and rarely prepare for, which is the fact that life is uncertain. We're wired to crave certainty, and when life does the one thing it always does and surprises us, we can crumble, partly because so much of the advice we're given trains us for the good days and almost none of it trains us for the hard ones. Drawing on the Stoic philosopher Epictetus and his idea of hard winter training, along with the Challenge pillar of Paul work on psychological hardiness, Carly looks at what it means to expect life to be unpredictable without bracing for disaster, and to put our attention where it actually belongs, on how we respond rather than on what we can't control. She finishes with two simple practices you can start today, doing one hard thing on purpose each day, and swapping the word worry for the word concern. If you'd like to go deeper, Paul's book The Hardiness Effect explores all four pillars of hardiness in detail, and you can find it at paultaylor.biz.

Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take meaningful action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches, helping people build resilience, live with purpose, and respond to life’s challenges with greater clarity, courage and steadiness.

You can't stop life surprising you, but you can train for it. This week: hardiness, hard winter training, and one small language shift you can use today.
This week on Mojo Monday Carly is looking at something we all live with and rarely prepare for, which is the fact that life is uncertain. We're wired to crave certainty, and when life does the one thing it always does and surprises us, we can crumble, partly because so much of the advice we're given trains us for the good days and almost none of it trains us for the hard ones. Drawing on the Stoic philosopher Epictetus and his idea of hard winter training, along with the Challenge pillar of Paul work on psychological hardiness, Carly looks at what it means to expect life to be unpredictable without bracing for disaster, and to put our attention where it actually belongs, on how we respond rather than on what we can't control. She finishes with two simple practices you can start today, doing one hard thing on purpose each day, and swapping the word worry for the word concern. If you'd like to go deeper, Paul's book <a href="https://www.paultaylor.biz/books">The Hardiness Effect </a>explores all four pillars of hardiness in detail, and you can find it at <a href="https://www.paultaylor.biz/books">paultaylor.biz.</a>
Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness &mdash; the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take meaningful action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches, helping people build resilience, live with purpose, and respond to life&rsquo;s challenges with greater clarity, courage and steadiness.

Preparing for Life's Uncertainties With Carly Taylor

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Most of us chase fleeting moments of happiness only to realise they often come from quick dopamine hits rather than genuine well-being. But what if happiness isn't about constant joy or material success? What if it’s a nuanced, layered emotional umbrella that includes contentment, gratitude, curiosity, and purpose, all rooted in effort and connection? In this episode, famed happiness researcher Declan Edwards and I dismantle the myths surrounding happiness and reveal the science-backed truths that can truly elevate your life. You'll discover how Western society’s obsession with instant gratification distorts our understanding of happiness and how embracing effort, patience, and meaningful relationships can lead to a richer, more sustainable sense of well-being. From the ancient Greeks’ concepts of eudaimonia and hedonia, to modern neuroscience, this episode unpacks the science of human flourishing in practical terms.  

Key Takeaways
Happiness is an umbrella, not a goal the idea that happiness is a fleeting emotion to chase is misleading. Instead, viewing it as a broad spectrum of emotions including contentment, gratitude, and calmness shifts the focus to cultivating a sustained sense of well-being.
Effort and inconvenience are the foundations of long-term happiness society’s obsession with shortcutting effort diminishes the depth of sustained well-being. True happiness depends on deliberate effort, patience, and embracing inconvenience, which build resilience and connection.
The physiology of well-being is often overlooked practical health like physical activity, diet, and gut health is essential for happiness. Our physical state directly influences brain function and emotional resilience, yet many ignore this link.
Happiness is contagious and embedded in community our psychological and emotional states influence others through ripple effects; strong social bonds and communal activities amplify collective well-being.
The narratives we tell about life's challenges shape our experience The meaning we assign to adversity influences whether we see obstacles as opportunities for growth or as insurmountable setbacks.
Internal emotional awareness amplifies happiness the ability to recognise, name, and work with emotions developed through tools like emotional literacy creates a foundation for healthier mental states and better interpersonal connections.
The pursuit of happiness is collective and requires systemic effort we are responsible for fostering environments workplaces, societies, families that support collective well-being, not just individual pursuits.

 

Time Stamps

03:05 Understanding Happiness: Beyond Fleeting Emotions

06:08 Hedonic vs. Eudaimonic Happiness

09:02 Effort, Inconvenience, and Meaningful Connections

11:54 The Impact of social media on Happiness

15:08 Acceptance and the Stoic Philosophy

18:10 Finding Meaning in Challenges

21:04 Personal Anecdotes and Meaning-Making

24:32 Navigating Control in Uncertainty

25:50 The Role of Money in Happiness

29:11 Community and Collective Happiness

34:50 The Trade-offs of Material Gains

36:15 The Importance of Contributing to Society

40:26 Cultural Perspectives on Happiness

40:54 Expectations vs. Intentions: A Path to Happiness

43:29 The Role of Positivity Bias in Happiness

45:37 Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck and Happiness

48:40 Practical Steps to Enhance Emotional Awareness

52:09 The Power of Gratitude and Connection

56:31 The Interconnection of Physical and Mental Health

 

Resources

Declan’s Book: How To Be Happy

Website: https://declanedwards.com.au

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/declan-edwards-bu-happiness-college/                                Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/declanedwards_bu/                                                        TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@that.happiness.guy

 

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Most of us chase fleeting moments of happiness only to realise they often come from quick dopamine hits rather than genuine well-being. But what if happiness isn't about constant joy or material success? What if it&rsquo;s a nuanced, layered emotional umbrella that includes contentment, gratitude, curiosity, and purpose, all rooted in effort and connection? In this episode, famed happiness researcher Declan Edwards and I dismantle the myths surrounding happiness and reveal the science-backed truths that can truly elevate your life. You'll discover how Western society&rsquo;s obsession with instant gratification distorts our understanding of happiness and how embracing effort, patience, and meaningful relationships can lead to a richer, more sustainable sense of well-being. From the ancient Greeks&rsquo; concepts of eudaimonia and hedonia, to modern neuroscience, this episode unpacks the science of human flourishing in practical terms. &nbsp;
Key Takeaways
<ol>
<li>Happiness is an umbrella, not a goal the idea that happiness is a fleeting emotion to chase is misleading. Instead, viewing it as a broad spectrum of emotions including contentment, gratitude, and calmness shifts the focus to cultivating a sustained sense of well-being.</li>
<li>Effort and inconvenience are the foundations of long-term happiness society&rsquo;s obsession with shortcutting effort diminishes the depth of sustained well-being. True happiness depends on deliberate effort, patience, and embracing inconvenience, which build resilience and connection.</li>
<li>The physiology of well-being is often overlooked practical health like physical activity, diet, and gut health is essential for happiness. Our physical state directly influences brain function and emotional resilience, yet many ignore this link.</li>
<li>Happiness is contagious and embedded in community our psychological and emotional states influence others through ripple effects; strong social bonds and communal activities amplify collective well-being.</li>
<li>The narratives we tell about life's challenges shape our experience The meaning we assign to adversity influences whether we see obstacles as opportunities for growth or as insurmountable setbacks.</li>
<li>Internal emotional awareness amplifies happiness the ability to recognise, name, and work with emotions developed through tools like emotional literacy creates a foundation for healthier mental states and better interpersonal connections.</li>
<li>The pursuit of happiness is collective and requires systemic effort we are responsible for fostering environments workplaces, societies, families that support collective well-being, not just individual pursuits.</li>
</ol>
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Time Stamps
03:05 Understanding Happiness: Beyond Fleeting Emotions
06:08 Hedonic vs. Eudaimonic Happiness
09:02 Effort, Inconvenience, and Meaningful Connections
11:54 The Impact of social media on Happiness
15:08 Acceptance and the Stoic Philosophy
18:10 Finding Meaning in Challenges
21:04 Personal Anecdotes and Meaning-Making
24:32 Navigating Control in Uncertainty
25:50 The Role of Money in Happiness
29:11 Community and Collective Happiness
34:50 The Trade-offs of Material Gains
36:15 The Importance of Contributing to Society
40:26 Cultural Perspectives on Happiness
40:54 Expectations vs. Intentions: A Path to Happiness
43:29 The Role of Positivity Bias in Happiness
45:37 Increasing Your Surface Area for Luck and Happiness
48:40 Practical Steps to Enhance Emotional Awareness
52:09 The Power of Gratitude and Connection
56:31 The Interconnection of Physical and Mental Health
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Resources
Declan&rsquo;s Book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com.au/How-Be-Happy-Declan-Edwards/dp/1394421117?&amp;linkCode=sl2&amp;tag=buhappinessco-22&amp;linkId=80a57689ccce9a910c4f8c3ef01b9398&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl">How To Be Happy</a>
Website: <a href="https://declanedwards.com.au/">https://declanedwards.com.au</a>
LinkedIn: <a href="https://www.linkedin.com/in/declan-edwards-bu-happiness-college/">https://www.linkedin.com/in/declan-edwards-bu-happiness-college/</a>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; Instagram: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/declanedwards_bu/">https://www.instagram.com/declanedwards_bu/</a>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; TikTok: <a href="https://www.tiktok.com/@that.happiness.guy">https://www.tiktok.com/@that.happiness.guy</a>
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The Surprising Connection Between Effort, Inconvenience, and Long-Term Happiness

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This week Carly explores a more useful way to look at yourself, one that drops the language of strengths and weaknesses altogether. Drawing on the VIA Character Strengths and Ryan Niemiec's work on the golden mean, she looks at how every strength can be overused, underused, or used just right, and why the goal is never simply more of a good thing but the right amount in the right moment.  If you'd like to discover your own twenty-four, the free VIA Character Strengths survey takes about ten minutes at viacharacter.org.

Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness — the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take meaningful action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches, helping people build resilience, live with purpose, and respond to life’s challenges with greater clarity, courage and steadiness.

This week Carly explores a more useful way to look at yourself, one that drops the language of strengths and weaknesses altogether. Drawing on the VIA Character Strengths and Ryan Niemiec's work on the golden mean, she looks at how every strength can be overused, underused, or used just right, and why the goal is never simply more of a good thing but the right amount in the right moment.&nbsp; If you'd like to discover your own twenty-four, the free VIA Character Strengths survey takes about ten minutes at viacharacter.org.
Carly is a counsellor and coach who specialises in building psychological hardiness &mdash; the ability to navigate challenge, stay engaged, and take meaningful action under pressure. Her work integrates modern psychology with Eastern and Stoic approaches, helping people build resilience, live with purpose, and respond to life&rsquo;s challenges with greater clarity, courage and steadiness.

The Sweet Spot Of Your Strengths With Carly Taylor

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